What does your S/O think of MFP?

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  • sweetzoejane
    sweetzoejane Posts: 153 Member
    He does not care. We have this thing called trust. It's pretty awesome.
  • SoViLicious
    SoViLicious Posts: 2,633 Member
    My husband has taken some of my most boobtacular photos. He also knows I flirt. His only request is that I do not squat with any guys irl or mfp.
  • calibriintx
    calibriintx Posts: 1,741 Member
    I just hide it from her.

    I also choose not to tell all the ladies on my friends list that I'm married with 3 kids.

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  • PlayerHatinDogooder
    PlayerHatinDogooder Posts: 1,018 Member
    Mine doesn't really care. He just wants me to be happy and healthy and if this is the way I get there, then he's ok with it.

    Well . . . that's odd.

    Are you sure he's not sabotaging your weight loss by doing awful things like taking you out to dinner?
  • _FATNSASSY
    _FATNSASSY Posts: 107 Member
    I only add women to my friend list as I feel it would be wrong to add men since I'm happily married. I have no desire for anyone to flirt with me so I just altogether don't allow men on my friend list

    Ditto! And I leave my phone out so he can have access anytime!
  • cmcollins001
    cmcollins001 Posts: 3,472 Member
    I only add women to my friend list as I feel it would be wrong to add men since I'm happily married. I have no desire for anyone to flirt with me so I just altogether don't allow men on my friend list

    Ditto! And I leave my phone out so he can have access anytime!

    Well...let's not get too crazy about this trust thing.
  • madworld1
    madworld1 Posts: 524
    I am married and I don't engage in flirting on this or any other site. The friends that I have on MFP (and other places) are both female and male. I have been pm'ed by flirty men. I quickly tell them that I am happily married. Usually that does the trick. I also don't post any provocative pics on here or anywhere. I wouldn't do it even if I were single because I'm too much of an introvert. But, even if I were brave I still wouldn't out of respect for my husband. To each his own though. ;)
  • iWaffle
    iWaffle Posts: 2,208 Member


    In fact, I'm going to stay with one in a week and my husband couldn't be more excited for me. He's equally excited to meet my MFP friends who are coming to see me in July (mostly because they're hot chicks.)

    YAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYY. Be jealous, people, be jealous. ^I'm gonna be tappin' that come July.

    I'm having lunch with her next week. :tongue:
  • MercenaryNoetic26
    MercenaryNoetic26 Posts: 2,747 Member
    My man hates it so much I'm on here! LOL

    He be hovering over my shoulder...."Who's that?" He'll be trying to get my attention, feel me up, kiss me then try and spy on the screen and see what I'm doing!
  • coe28
    coe28 Posts: 715 Member
    I don't have a S/O, thanks for bringing it up. :angry:

    This.
  • AlsDonkBoxSquat
    AlsDonkBoxSquat Posts: 6,128 Member
    So, it's only as "sexually charged" as you want it to be (you get what you give). I flirt with my ladies and while I do tell the guys that they're looking hot . . . they only turn me on when they're talking about food (just thinking about some of the food that's been loaded onto some of these threads makes me need to fan myself).

    Besides, a little trust goes a long way, and it makes a big difference that he's my husband and not my owner.
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    I do not have a significant other.
    This is the 1st time I have ever been on any site. I never used Facebook or anything else.
    Someone on here actually guided me over the last few months.
    My flirting was questioned.
    My photos were questioned.
    My over all character as a female and how I wanted to be viewed.
    The type of ppl I had on my FL.
    I thank that person for bringing it all to my attention.
    Because..I am human..its nice to know there is always room for growth!


    " To overcome weakness train your mind as well as your body, don't forget the soul ~Unknown"
  • EatClean_WashUrNuts
    EatClean_WashUrNuts Posts: 1,590 Member
    She's on it. And fully supports. She is not bothered by my flirtatious habits because she knows where I "hang my hat and heart."
  • staceypunk
    staceypunk Posts: 924 Member
    My husband and I are solid, so there are no worries :)

    He doesn't like when I frantically try to log food at the dinner table to see if I can have another serving of something. I try not too, but have to sometimes.
  • SoViLicious
    SoViLicious Posts: 2,633 Member
    I do not have a significant other.
    This is the 1st time I have ever been on any site. I never used Facebook or anything else.
    Someone on here actually guided me over the last few months.
    My flirting was questioned.
    My photos were questioned.
    My over all character as a female and how I wanted to be viewed.
    The type of ppl I had on my FL.
    I thank that person for bringing it all to my attention.
    Because..I am human..its nice to know there is always room for growth!


    " To overcome weakness train your mind as well as your body, don't forget the soul ~Unknown"




    Huh??
  • AlsDonkBoxSquat
    AlsDonkBoxSquat Posts: 6,128 Member
    My wife refers to you all as my "mfp internet *kitten*."

    So I guess she is just so-so about it.

    Well now I'm just feeling left out.
  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member


    In fact, I'm going to stay with one in a week and my husband couldn't be more excited for me. He's equally excited to meet my MFP friends who are coming to see me in July (mostly because they're hot chicks.)

    YAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYY. Be jealous, people, be jealous. ^I'm gonna be tappin' that come July.

    I'm having lunch with her next week. :tongue:

    You're gonna be a dead waffle if you don't watch your step. :mad:
  • Rosytakesoff
    Rosytakesoff Posts: 321
    He has Facebook; I have MFP. It equals out.
  • calibriintx
    calibriintx Posts: 1,741 Member
    Seriously though. As long as it's all in good fun, DH doesn't care. We're both total flirts with our friends IRL and nothing comes of it. Or if something were to come of it, it would be a mutual choice. He knows I'm not ACTUALLY going to *kitten* to nudes from my FL and that we're not ACTUALLY going to bang. Well, maybe, but not behind his back or anything - of course he'd be invited.

    I'm here having fun, getting good advice, and making friends. Nothing wrong with that.
  • BeinAwesome247
    BeinAwesome247 Posts: 257 Member
    I don't have a S/O, thanks for bringing it up. :angry:


    right!
  • kymkan
    kymkan Posts: 444 Member
    I only add women to my friend list as I feel it would be wrong to add men since I'm happily married. I have no desire for anyone to flirt with me so I just altogether don't allow men on my friend list

    yep - me too :) Not happily married, but in a happy and committed relationship. I wouldn't appreciate him being on here and having women flirt w/him or vice versa, so I wouldn't do it to him either.
  • ShaeFehr
    ShaeFehr Posts: 3
    If you aren't flirting with anyone or doing anything wrong, then why should you change anything? You should trust eachother in a relationship and if you don't you should end it.
  • ShaeFehr
    ShaeFehr Posts: 3
    I just hide it from her.

    I also choose not to tell all the ladies on my friends list that I'm married with 3 kids.

    *hi-five*

    Nice work brother.


    I see there is no shortage of scum in this world. I'd never even thought that this website could be abused for uses of flirtation and being unfaithful, so congratulations! You've found a way to lower my expectations of humanity even further.
  • cristynfaye
    cristynfaye Posts: 88 Member
    He thinks y'all are all crazy and y'all don't know what y'all are talking about.

    He doesn't believe in HRM...or God for that matter. lol

    IM GOING TO MAKE HIM A BELIEVER.... of HRM and MFP atleast. lmao

    What's HRM?
  • AlsDonkBoxSquat
    AlsDonkBoxSquat Posts: 6,128 Member
    In response to the people "high fiving" about their sleeziness: I see there is no shortage of scum in this world. I'd never even thought that this website could be abused for uses of flirtation and being unfaithful, so congratulations! You've found a way to lower my expectations of humanity even further.

    To actually answer your questions: If you aren't flirting with anyone or doing anything wrong, then why should you change anything? You should trust eachother in a relationship and if you don't you should end it.

    Here, your sarcasam detector appears to be broken, you may use mine:

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  • billsica
    billsica Posts: 4,741 Member
    I flirted with a waitress the other day to get 10% off my appraiser at Applebees. I'm so ashamed I'm going to go confess my horrific crime to my wife and divorce her immediately. I guess those pretzel things mean more to me.
  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,173 Member
    I don't have a S/O, thanks for bringing it up. :angry:

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  • SlimJanette
    SlimJanette Posts: 597 Member
    I don't have a S/O, thanks for bringing it up. :angry:

    :laugh:
  • KANGOOJUMPS
    KANGOOJUMPS Posts: 6,474 Member
    he thinks it is gay.
  • amaysngrace
    amaysngrace Posts: 742 Member
    Umm, he asked me what the hell was I doing on the "rate the person above you thread." I told him I could not control who was above me or under me, anyways, we got into it, and we broke up last night. He seemed to be getting more insecure as I shed the pounds, or disgusted that he wont set aside any time from his work to workout and plan meal choices. I am fine with the break up, the relationship was getting stale anyways and long distance is always hard to keep it going, when only one person is consistent.

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