Guy friends.. ._.

onedayatatime12
onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
Sooo I've known this guy for a year now; we met off as friends- I still consider us friends, but my friends tell us he likes me/I secretly like him -_- NO I don't!


THE QUESTION: Is his erratic behavior normal? Meaning his playful calling of names, and demanding to know where I am at a certain time, lol. It's weird, none of my other guy friends are like that..

(I cut it down a lot guys... :ohwell: )
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  • fishnbrah
    fishnbrah Posts: 550
    cliffs?
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    What is your point?
  • catrinaHwechanged
    catrinaHwechanged Posts: 4,907 Member
    WTF did you just say?? :huh:
  • squirrelzzrule22
    squirrelzzrule22 Posts: 640 Member
    You clearly like him.

    Can't say whether he likes you. Most, but not all, guys would make a move rather than wait a year. Men are not complex creatures. They do and say what they need to to get what they want. I wish I had understood that when I was your age rather than worry about hypothetical secret crushes.

    Speaking of your age.....are you sure you're 18?!?! If so, leave this silly middle school crap behind....muster courage to tell him you like him or mooooooove on!!
  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    Hahaha is he behaving normally? My other guy friends use no profanity when around me, and they act like gentlemen. xD This dude's a gentleman too, but does that mean he's just comfortable enough around me? He also gets really defensive, and asks me Why I didn't text back immediately or where I was at some point in time lol
  • squirrelzzrule22
    squirrelzzrule22 Posts: 640 Member
    What is your point?

    She wants someone to tell her he likes her.

    Source: I was once a 13 year old girl.....
  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    Actually I would hate it if he did like me, because I would rather keep our friendship more than anything.
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    WTF did you just say?? :huh:

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  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    First, you have to consider what Obama means to Chit-Chat, Fun, and Games in the forums. You see, oil changes will help protect your car's engine and will increase the longevity of your car's life. If you don't change the oil, the engine will crap out on you. I suggest if you want to look further into this, buy some Tide laundry detergent and wash one white sock while running around barking like a dog. It will help clear any intentions and will let PacMan escape from the ghosts. Basically, what I'm saying is you just need to focus on the real task at hand and solve the problem after that. I hope this helps! :flowerforyou:

    Uhmmmm say whaaa?
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    What is your point?

    She wants someone to tell her he likes her.

    Source: I was once a 13 year old girl.....

    Ow!
    :yawn:
  • First, you have to consider what Obama means to Chit-Chat, Fun, and Games in the forums. You see, oil changes will help protect your car's engine and will increase the longevity of your car's life. If you don't change the oil, the engine will crap out on you. I suggest if you want to look further into this, buy some Tide laundry detergent and wash one white sock while running around barking like a dog. It will help clear any intentions and will let PacMan escape from the ghosts. Basically, what I'm saying is you just need to focus on the real task at hand and solve the problem after that. I hope this helps! :flowerforyou:

    Uhmmmm say whaaa?

    THAT'S WHAT I'M SAYIN'!!!
  • gonnamakeanewaccount
    gonnamakeanewaccount Posts: 642 Member
    LOL. What did I just read?
  • WestCoastWild
    WestCoastWild Posts: 147 Member
    What is your point?

    She wants someone to tell her he likes her.

    Source: I was once a 13 year old girl.....

    Agreed! If you DO like him, then tell him. If not...then who cares if he has a crush on you or not? He'll get over it at some point, no damage done :)
  • catrinaHwechanged
    catrinaHwechanged Posts: 4,907 Member
    First, you have to consider what Obama means to Chit-Chat, Fun, and Games in the forums. You see, oil changes will help protect your car's engine and will increase the longevity of your car's life. If you don't change the oil, the engine will crap out on you. I suggest if you want to look further into this, buy some Tide laundry detergent and wash one white sock while running around barking like a dog. It will help clear any intentions and will let PacMan escape from the ghosts. Basically, what I'm saying is you just need to focus on the real task at hand and solve the problem after that. I hope this helps! :flowerforyou:

    I think I understand now!! Thank you for clarifying!!
  • First, you have to consider what Obama means to Chit-Chat, Fun, and Games in the forums. You see, oil changes will help protect your car's engine and will increase the longevity of your car's life. If you don't change the oil, the engine will crap out on you. I suggest if you want to look further into this, buy some Tide laundry detergent and wash one white sock while running around barking like a dog. It will help clear any intentions and will let PacMan escape from the ghosts. Basically, what I'm saying is you just need to focus on the real task at hand and solve the problem after that. I hope this helps! :flowerforyou:

    I think I understand now!! Thank you for clarifying!!

    Glad I can help. SOMEONE had to interpret what the OP was saying :tongue:
  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    First, you have to consider what Obama means to Chit-Chat, Fun, and Games in the forums. You see, oil changes will help protect your car's engine and will increase the longevity of your car's life. If you don't change the oil, the engine will crap out on you. I suggest if you want to look further into this, buy some Tide laundry detergent and wash one white sock while running around barking like a dog. It will help clear any intentions and will let PacMan escape from the ghosts. Basically, what I'm saying is you just need to focus on the real task at hand and solve the problem after that. I hope this helps! :flowerforyou:

    I think I understand now!! Thank you for clarifying!!

    xD Rollingggg
  • squirrelzzrule22
    squirrelzzrule22 Posts: 640 Member
    What is your point?

    She wants someone to tell her he likes her.

    Source: I was once a 13 year old girl.....

    Ow!
    :yawn:

    Haha sorry not to meant to be harsh...but once you hit a critical mass of "Lols" in a post that is the subtext. And , I mean....prom logic. Prom!
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    HE'S erratic? :huh:
  • squirrelzzrule22
    squirrelzzrule22 Posts: 640 Member
    First, you have to consider what Obama means to Chit-Chat, Fun, and Games in the forums. You see, oil changes will help protect your car's engine and will increase the longevity of your car's life. If you don't change the oil, the engine will crap out on you. I suggest if you want to look further into this, buy some Tide laundry detergent and wash one white sock while running around barking like a dog. It will help clear any intentions and will let PacMan escape from the ghosts. Basically, what I'm saying is you just need to focus on the real task at hand and solve the problem after that. I hope this helps! :flowerforyou:

    I think I understand now!! Thank you for clarifying!!

    Glad I can help. SOMEONE had to interpret what the OP was saying :tongue:

    Also this.

    ETA now that she cut it down my comments seem weirder. Going to exit gracefully-ish....
  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    What is your point?

    She wants someone to tell her he likes her.

    Source: I was once a 13 year old girl.....

    Ow!
    :yawn:

    Haha sorry not to meant to be harsh...but once you hit a critical mass of "Lols" in a post that is the subtext. And , I mean....prom logic. Prom!

    I have no clue what you were saying, but uhm.. okaaay? xD
  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    First, you have to consider what Obama means to Chit-Chat, Fun, and Games in the forums. You see, oil changes will help protect your car's engine and will increase the longevity of your car's life. If you don't change the oil, the engine will crap out on you. I suggest if you want to look further into this, buy some Tide laundry detergent and wash one white sock while running around barking like a dog. It will help clear any intentions and will let PacMan escape from the ghosts. Basically, what I'm saying is you just need to focus on the real task at hand and solve the problem after that. I hope this helps! :flowerforyou:

    I think I understand now!! Thank you for clarifying!!

    Glad I can help. SOMEONE had to interpret what the OP was saying :tongue:

    Also this.

    ETA now that she cut it down my comments seem weirder. Going to exit gracefully-ish....

    BWAHAHA. Sorry - I had to condense it; I'm known to run all over the place with my writing. :laugh:
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    First, you have to consider what Obama means to Chit-Chat, Fun, and Games in the forums. You see, oil changes will help protect your car's engine and will increase the longevity of your car's life. If you don't change the oil, the engine will crap out on you. I suggest if you want to look further into this, buy some Tide laundry detergent and wash one white sock while running around barking like a dog. It will help clear any intentions and will let PacMan escape from the ghosts. Basically, what I'm saying is you just need to focus on the real task at hand and solve the problem after that. I hope this helps! :flowerforyou:

    QFT
    Although Tide is rather expensive...
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    What is your point?

    She wants someone to tell her he likes her.

    Source: I was once a 13 year old girl.....

    Ow!
    :yawn:

    Haha sorry not to meant to be harsh...but once you hit a critical mass of "Lols" in a post that is the subtext. And , I mean....prom logic. Prom!

    No worries!! and "prom logic" :wink:
  • 2stepscloser
    2stepscloser Posts: 2,900 Member
    WTF did you just say?? :huh:

    That's what I was thinking
  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    "erratic"?
    How?

    He says whatever he wants, whenever he wants (I'm ADHD too, so who am I to judge xD). He expects me to talk to him every night, and he thinks I'm avoiding him if I don't- I like talking to him, but sometimes he gets too crazy when I'm trying to concentrate on work! :grumble:
  • Power_Man77
    Power_Man77 Posts: 207
    First, you have to consider what Obama means to Chit-Chat, Fun, and Games in the forums. You see, oil changes will help protect your car's engine and will increase the longevity of your car's life. If you don't change the oil, the engine will crap out on you. I suggest if you want to look further into this, buy some Tide laundry detergent and wash one white sock while running around barking like a dog. It will help clear any intentions and will let PacMan escape from the ghosts. Basically, what I'm saying is you just need to focus on the real task at hand and solve the problem after that. I hope this helps! :flowerforyou:

    Batman!!
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    Actually I would hate it if he did like me, because I would rather keep our friendship more than anything.

    WAIT WHAT???? THEN WHAT ARE YOU ASKING USSSSSS????
    im not yelling, I just want to know why this is so complicated
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    "erratic"?
    How?

    He says whatever he wants, whenever he wants (I'm ADHD too, so who am I to judge xD). He expects me to talk to him every night, and he thinks I'm avoiding him if I don't- I like talking to him, but sometimes he gets too crazy when I'm trying to concentrate on work! :grumble:

    The word you're looking for is neurotic...
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    Actually I would hate it if he did like me, because I would rather keep our friendship more than anything.

    WAIT WHAT???? THEN WHAT ARE YOU ASKING USSSSSS????
    im not yelling, I just want to know why this is so complicated

    CP your head is starting to spin off...