Guy friends.. ._.

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  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    What is your point?

    She wants someone to tell her he likes her.

    Source: I was once a 13 year old girl.....

    Ow!
    :yawn:

    Haha sorry not to meant to be harsh...but once you hit a critical mass of "Lols" in a post that is the subtext. And , I mean....prom logic. Prom!

    No worries!! and "prom logic" :wink:

    Yes he likes you, he likes you a lot. Some how you have to move out of friend zone with him
    You like him too.
    Tell him you like him, you have nothing to lose.

    Ooh haha I see! Duh! Well that's cool, but I'm not gonna make a move, because A) I DON'T LIKE HIM :) and B) I don't wanna date right now, and neither does he I think. We're best being friends, but I just don't think I've ever seen such an abnormal guy friend before.. xD lol. Who's to decide what normal is though?
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    What is your point?

    She wants someone to tell her he likes her.

    Source: I was once a 13 year old girl.....

    Ow!
    :yawn:

    Haha sorry not to meant to be harsh...but once you hit a critical mass of "Lols" in a post that is the subtext. And , I mean....prom logic. Prom!

    No worries!! and "prom logic" :wink:

    Yes he likes you, he likes you a lot. Some how you have to move out of friend zone with him
    You like him too.
    Tell him you like him, you have nothing to lose.

    Ooh haha I see! Duh! Well that's cool, but I'm not gonna make a move, because A) I DON'T LIKE HIM :) and B) I don't wanna date right now, and neither does he I think. We're best being friends, but I just don't think I've ever seen such an abnormal guy friend before.. xD lol. Who's to decide what normal is though?

    :huh: You're "best friends" but you "DON'T LIKE HIM"? :huh:
  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    Actually I would hate it if he did like me, because I would rather keep our friendship more than anything.

    WAIT WHAT???? THEN WHAT ARE YOU ASKING USSSSSS????
    im not yelling, I just want to know why this is so complicated

    Yep, I was just asking y'all ... Well, the main question was why does he act so abnormal and controlling?
    And two, it's just weird to think that what my friends said was true about him liking me, because a guy friend liking me is just weird and awkward lol (but hey we don't mind handing out compliments :wink: xD)
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    Actually I would hate it if he did like me, because I would rather keep our friendship more than anything.

    WAIT WHAT???? THEN WHAT ARE YOU ASKING USSSSSS????
    im not yelling, I just want to know why this is so complicated

    CP your head is starting to spin off...

    [img]http://i298.photobucket.com/albums/mm253/clintcatalyst/Get GIFfy/CIRCLELADYLOOP.gif[/img]
  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    What is your point?

    She wants someone to tell her he likes her.

    Source: I was once a 13 year old girl.....

    Ow!
    :yawn:

    Haha sorry not to meant to be harsh...but once you hit a critical mass of "Lols" in a post that is the subtext. And , I mean....prom logic. Prom!

    No worries!! and "prom logic" :wink:

    Yes he likes you, he likes you a lot. Some how you have to move out of friend zone with him
    You like him too.
    Tell him you like him, you have nothing to lose.

    Ooh haha I see! Duh! Well that's cool, but I'm not gonna make a move, because A) I DON'T LIKE HIM :) and B) I don't wanna date right now, and neither does he I think. We're best being friends, but I just don't think I've ever seen such an abnormal guy friend before.. xD lol. Who's to decide what normal is though?

    :huh: You're "best friends" but you "DON'T LIKE HIM"? :huh:

    No, no, we're really close friends, but we're "better off" being friends :)
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    Actually I would hate it if he did like me, because I would rather keep our friendship more than anything.

    WAIT WHAT???? THEN WHAT ARE YOU ASKING USSSSSS????
    im not yelling, I just want to know why this is so complicated

    CP your head is starting to spin off...

    [img]http://i298.photobucket.com/albums/mm253/clintcatalyst/Get GIFfy/CIRCLELADYLOOP.gif[/img]

    :bigsmile:
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    Actually I would hate it if he did like me, because I would rather keep our friendship more than anything.

    WAIT WHAT???? THEN WHAT ARE YOU ASKING USSSSSS????
    im not yelling, I just want to know why this is so complicated

    Yep, I was just asking y'all ... Well, the main question was why does he act so abnormal and controlling?
    And two, it's just weird to think that what my friends said was true about him liking me, because a guy friend liking me is just weird and awkward lol (but hey we don't mind handing out compliments :wink: xD)

    In his mind you are his Girlfriend
  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    Actually I would hate it if he did like me, because I would rather keep our friendship more than anything.

    WAIT WHAT???? THEN WHAT ARE YOU ASKING USSSSSS????
    im not yelling, I just want to know why this is so complicated

    CP your head is starting to spin off...

    [img]http://i298.photobucket.com/albums/mm253/clintcatalyst/Get GIFfy/CIRCLELADYLOOP.gif[/img]

    :bigsmile:

    O.O Woah
  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    Actually I would hate it if he did like me, because I would rather keep our friendship more than anything.

    WAIT WHAT???? THEN WHAT ARE YOU ASKING USSSSSS????
    im not yelling, I just want to know why this is so complicated

    Yep, I was just asking y'all ... Well, the main question was why does he act so abnormal and controlling?
    And two, it's just weird to think that what my friends said was true about him liking me, because a guy friend liking me is just weird and awkward lol (but hey we don't mind handing out compliments :wink: xD)

    In his mind you are his Girlfriend

    Awkward but flattering.
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    So OP what is your next move, in this game of chess?



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  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    What is your point?

    She wants someone to tell her he likes her.

    Source: I was once a 13 year old girl.....

    Ow!
    :yawn:

    Haha sorry not to meant to be harsh...but once you hit a critical mass of "Lols" in a post that is the subtext. And , I mean....prom logic. Prom!

    No worries!! and "prom logic" :wink:

    Yes he likes you, he likes you a lot. Some how you have to move out of friend zone with him
    You like him too.
    Tell him you like him, you have nothing to lose.

    Ooh haha I see! Duh! Well that's cool, but I'm not gonna make a move, because A) I DON'T LIKE HIM :) and B) I don't wanna date right now, and neither does he I think. We're best being friends, but I just don't think I've ever seen such an abnormal guy friend before.. xD lol. Who's to decide what normal is though?

    :huh: You're "best friends" but you "DON'T LIKE HIM"? :huh:

    No, no, we're really close friends, but we're "better off" being friends :)

    Friends don't let friends harass them.
    If he were your best friend, he wouldn't be possessive.
    He doesn't care about you, he cares about himself.
  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    So OP what is your next move, in this game of chess?

    Uhmm I'm gonna stay friends with him because I don't want to date now anyways and I'm not attracted to him like that. Plus I feel that friendship is a more stable option- we'd be more likely to keep in touch in the years to come (hopefully!) since our friendship is pretty strong. :smile:

    Thank you all for reading my crazy story, which I condensed, a little too late. Y'all are awesome! :flowerforyou:
  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    What is your point?

    She wants someone to tell her he likes her.

    Source: I was once a 13 year old girl.....

    Ow!
    :yawn:

    Haha sorry not to meant to be harsh...but once you hit a critical mass of "Lols" in a post that is the subtext. And , I mean....prom logic. Prom!

    No worries!! and "prom logic" :wink:

    Yes he likes you, he likes you a lot. Some how you have to move out of friend zone with him
    You like him too.
    Tell him you like him, you have nothing to lose.

    Ooh haha I see! Duh! Well that's cool, but I'm not gonna make a move, because A) I DON'T LIKE HIM :) and B) I don't wanna date right now, and neither does he I think. We're best being friends, but I just don't think I've ever seen such an abnormal guy friend before.. xD lol. Who's to decide what normal is though?

    :huh: You're "best friends" but you "DON'T LIKE HIM"? :huh:

    No, no, we're really close friends, but we're "better off" being friends :)

    Friends don't let friends harass them.
    If he were your best friend, he wouldn't be possessive.
    He doesn't care about you, he cares about himself.

    Well I can't say I'd disagree with that last part sadly even though he talks to and comforts me when I'm down and gets me to talk when I'm disheartened. But I think it's better to maintain a distance anyways so he'll learn to be a little less possessive- he doesn't live near me anyways, so there's no worry about my safety if that's what you were thinking :O (besides, he wouldn't ever do such a thing to me).
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    What is your point?

    She wants someone to tell her he likes her.

    Source: I was once a 13 year old girl.....

    Ow!
    :yawn:

    Haha sorry not to meant to be harsh...but once you hit a critical mass of "Lols" in a post that is the subtext. And , I mean....prom logic. Prom!

    No worries!! and "prom logic" :wink:

    Yes he likes you, he likes you a lot. Some how you have to move out of friend zone with him
    You like him too.
    Tell him you like him, you have nothing to lose.

    Ooh haha I see! Duh! Well that's cool, but I'm not gonna make a move, because A) I DON'T LIKE HIM :) and B) I don't wanna date right now, and neither does he I think. We're best being friends, but I just don't think I've ever seen such an abnormal guy friend before.. xD lol. Who's to decide what normal is though?

    :huh: You're "best friends" but you "DON'T LIKE HIM"? :huh:

    No, no, we're really close friends, but we're "better off" being friends :)

    Friends don't let friends harass them.
    If he were your best friend, he wouldn't be possessive.
    He doesn't care about you, he cares about himself.

    Well I can't say I'd disagree with that last part sadly even though he talks to and comforts me when I'm down and gets me to talk when I'm disheartened. But I think it's better to maintain a distance anyways so he'll learn to be a little less possessive- he doesn't live near me anyways, so there's no worry about my safety if that's what you were thinking :O (besides, he wouldn't ever do such a thing to me).

    Do what to you?
    You tell ChasinPavement that you're going to stay close friends and then tell me you're going to put some distance between the two of you.
    He's playing games because you're playing games.
  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    What is your point?

    She wants someone to tell her he likes her.

    Source: I was once a 13 year old girl.....

    Ow!
    :yawn:

    Haha sorry not to meant to be harsh...but once you hit a critical mass of "Lols" in a post that is the subtext. And , I mean....prom logic. Prom!

    No worries!! and "prom logic" :wink:

    Yes he likes you, he likes you a lot. Some how you have to move out of friend zone with him
    You like him too.
    Tell him you like him, you have nothing to lose.

    Ooh haha I see! Duh! Well that's cool, but I'm not gonna make a move, because A) I DON'T LIKE HIM :) and B) I don't wanna date right now, and neither does he I think. We're best being friends, but I just don't think I've ever seen such an abnormal guy friend before.. xD lol. Who's to decide what normal is though?

    :huh: You're "best friends" but you "DON'T LIKE HIM"? :huh:

    No, no, we're really close friends, but we're "better off" being friends :)

    Friends don't let friends harass them.
    If he were your best friend, he wouldn't be possessive.
    He doesn't care about you, he cares about himself.

    Well I can't say I'd disagree with that last part sadly even though he talks to and comforts me when I'm down and gets me to talk when I'm disheartened. But I think it's better to maintain a distance anyways so he'll learn to be a little less possessive- he doesn't live near me anyways, so there's no worry about my safety if that's what you were thinking :O (besides, he wouldn't ever do such a thing to me).

    Do what to you?
    You tell ChasinPavement that you're going to stay close friends and then tell me you're going to put some distance between the two of you.
    He's playing games because you're playing games.

    It seemed like you were saying he's a threat to my physical safety so I wanted to clarify!!!
    Well I WANT to stay close friends, as we are now, but at the same time, it kind of annoys me that he's possessive! I'm not sure what to do, so I feel like just letting things run their course. :frown: But, that doesn't seem like a good plan.. does it?

    And how is he even playing games?? O.o
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    Um, no.
    You need to redefine your definition of close friend and find a real one.
    Possessiveness is a control/manipulation game.
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    heyyyy...

    [img]http://i1280.photobucket.com/albums/a485/katiicombs/Gif Collection/wtf.jpg[/img]
  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    Um, no.
    You need to redefine your definition of close friend and find a real one.
    Possessiveness is a control/manipulation game.

    I appreciate your candor. Looks like I'll slowly let go of our friendship, but it's for the best.
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    Possessiveness is a control/manipulation game.

    I like that about a guy!

    :blushing:
  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    heyyyy...

    [img]http://i1280.photobucket.com/albums/a485/katiicombs/Gif Collection/wtf.jpg[/img]

    Lol looks like I'm deciding that he's not a good friend after all, and that it's time to say byebye. WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN TO ME WITH THE CHILL GUY FRIENDS AAAH.
  • JustJennie1
    JustJennie1 Posts: 3,749 Member
    Slip him a note on the playground that says:

    "Do You Like Me? Check one!
    ____ Yes _____No"
  • *BUMP* FOR LATER :)
  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    Possessiveness is a control/manipulation game.

    I like that about a guy!

    :blushing:

    Yeah, me too to a certain extent, but I enjoy my independence, and he's not thaat controlling, anymore. It's only like once every evening; like a questioning session of my daily activity lol.
  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    Slip him a note on the playground that says:

    "Do You Like Me? Check one!
    ____ Yes _____No"

    PHAHA! You're hilarious. We're actually in college, thank ya very much (though I didn't make it sound like that at allll) :bigsmile:
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    Possessiveness is a control/manipulation game.

    I like that about a guy!

    :blushing:

    Yeah, me too to a certain extent, but I enjoy my independence, and he's not thaat controlling, anymore. It's only like once every evening; like a questioning session of my daily activity lol.

    HAHAHAHAHA!!! You are so wishy washy.
  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    *BUMP* FOR LATER :)

    Yeah I know I sound dumb, but I never got what bump means. xD
  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    Possessiveness is a control/manipulation game.

    I like that about a guy!

    :blushing:

    Yeah, me too to a certain extent, but I enjoy my independence, and he's not thaat controlling, anymore. It's only like once every evening; like a questioning session of my daily activity lol.

    HAHAHAHAHA!!! You are so wishy washy.

    That's what HE says! It's so confusing to make these decisions (bigger ones of course), sometimes. Lol I hate emotions.
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    Possessiveness is a control/manipulation game.

    I like that about a guy!

    :blushing:

    CP!
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    Maybe you play a healthy game of Strip poker and see where it takes you?
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    Possessiveness is a control/manipulation game.

    I like that about a guy!

    :blushing:

    Yeah, me too to a certain extent, but I enjoy my independence, and he's not thaat controlling, anymore. It's only like once every evening; like a questioning session of my daily activity lol.

    HAHAHAHAHA!!! You are so wishy washy.

    That's what HE says! It's so confusing to make these decisions (bigger ones of course), sometimes. Lol I hate emotions.

    Okay, I think I can safely say that we are back at the starting gate.
    Where ever THAT was? :huh: