Girlfriends - I Have To Rant Here
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Call that b i t c h out.
And...Id punch her in the *kitten*.
this.
Call her out AT WORK, in front of HIM and EVERYONE else, embarass the *kitten* outta the lying sack of crap she is. Hell, even better, SHOW UP where they're having brunch AND call her out at work on Monday!0 -
First off, it sucks that you are going through this:
Secondly, call her out, tell her she is a liar
Thirdly, cancel the plans Saturday
And finally, go to brunch with the guy on Sunday
And also tell her that she needs to grow up and that this isn't junior high and that since she is recently divorced, that she is having rebound feelings not true ones for the guy.0 -
..too lazy to read that whole thing...0
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I would call her out, calmly, don't let her know you are as pissed as you are or she will pull the :"insecurity card" on you, just be firm and let her know she's a *****, then end it with her0
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I would rat her out to the guy, cancel all the plans with her after I tell her where to go and how to get there.0
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Have future mr. right "invite" you to brunch too and show up about 15 minutes before she does then watch the look on her face!
I like this! or just show up with him!0 -
Since she is lying/hiding it I assume she is trying to get with him otherwise there doesn't seem to be a reason she wouldn't be honest with you. It also sounds like she is using you as a ride for all day / a cover story for the husband back home. I would tell the dude (he also mentioned sending the wrong message so maybe he got a vibe that she wants in his pants too ) and screw her0
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HAHA. Call her out on it and say "While you're having brunch with X on Sunday, maybe he can take you out all day Saturday too"
This!
I am really sorry to hear this, though. I know what it is to look forward to a day with a girlfriend and then be utterly disappointed by said girl not being really a friend.
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In a nutshell - she has betrayed your friendship and used you to get to a guy she's hot on. And knowing that you're also hot on him just adds insult to injury! Is she the kind of friend you really want in your life. I'd let her know that you're really ashamed that she could behave this way and deceive her friend and that the guy obviously isn't interested in a relationship with her as he told YOU that he doesn't want t give her the wrong signals. I'd make up some excuse that something came up and can't do Saturday, see how she reacts and take it from there. Good luck! :flowerforyou:0
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LOL,..LOL..THA;LL LEARN ALRIGHT!!!,LOL..LOL..2 FUNNY0
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I dont even bother indulging people like this with questions. Do not be her friend outside of work. From today on she is just a co-worker. Shadyness is a gene.0
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I'd probably just say "have fun with X at brunch tomorrow! Tell him I say hi", so that she knows she's been caught.0
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I fail to see the problem unless you have specifically said he is off limits and she should respect your friendship. I also don't see where she lied to you, it seems more like she omitted a detail.
I fail to see how the guy is your territory unless you are an exclusive couple, and it doesn't seem like you are based on what you describe.
If she's interested in him for a relationship or sexually, she can make a move on him. It is up to him to reject her, and it sounds like he will.
I do think her behavior is somewhat poor form though.Did she outright lie or just omit a detail? Did you ask her where she is going on Sunday morning? If she outright lied about her Sunday morning plans, that is a big deal.
I'm so glad you're not my husband. Or boyfriend. Or friend. Or in my life at all, really. Lying by omission is still lying. She could have easily said "Actually, I went ahead and made plans for brunch thinking that you would want to sleep in." But she didn't knowing that would lead to wanting to know who the plans were with and possibly an offer to join. Deceptive behavior because she knew she was doing something that would upset her friend.
As for the situation, tell the male party that she wasn't exactly forthcoming and offer to come if he wants you to join. Then inform her that he invited you to join them.0 -
this is a very interesting situation...I didn't notice any update though...but...yes she was very deceptive in her actions...but what is the reason for sure...I didn't see anything that suggests she knew about your and this guy's relationship or potential relationship...and its also unclear as to what his role is...he accepted yes...but if its that big of a deal that you aren't going he should realize what her intentions may be and just simply change up..say no and that he's interested in you...how can you know if he's being honest...communication is everything because if she asked him...he said yes..then thought to himself...hmmm..how would you feel about this...then talked to you to test the waters a little so he could cover himself in the event you got upset...it could put a whole different spin on this situation...but my opinion is she asked...he said yes and asked if it were the 3 of you just to check to see because he easily couldn't told her no afterwards if it wasn't comfortable0
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Well?0
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Probably the funniest thing I have read in awhileId punch her in the *kitten*.
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:0 -
Waiting for update!
Did you call her out?
Was there an epic *kitten* punch?
Don't leave us hanging!!!!0 -
HahahahahaId punch her in the *kitten*.0 -
If he is really into you and a real man, he will either cancel the date or insist you go too. If this doesn't happen it's time to weed them both out of your life. Yes WEEDS! They need to go. Play the game girl! He will want you more if you are not that easy. Test him out, if he fails, remember PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA! Always put an expensive price tag on yourself. Yes you are priceless. Remember, you have a fabulous exciting life ahead of you. Leave your doors open. If this doesnt work out, keep it simple, Weed them out and dont wast precious time, and energy on them. It could be the best thing that happens. Just keep looking forward.0
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I would have called her on it, whether or not your dating the guy, she's lied to you and you should let her know that you know all about it.0
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Pull up your big girl panties and show up at the brunch.0
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Call that b i t c h out.
And...Id punch her in the *kitten*.
this.
LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!0 -
Wow some friend. I think I would call her out on it too. And surly wouldn't let her stay with me.0
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Alright, I'm shameless.
I desperately want to know how everything went!0 -
Unless you and this guy have already agreed to be exclusive, he's not wrong for accepting and she's not wrong for asking. It may be a *****y move, but sorry that's not your territory.. Yet! All is fair game.0
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I fail to see the problem unless you have specifically said he is off limits and she should respect your friendship. I also don't see where she lied to you, it seems more like she omitted a detail.
I fail to see how the guy is your territory unless you are an exclusive couple, and it doesn't seem like you are based on what you describe.
If she's interested in him for a relationship or sexually, she can make a move on him. It is up to him to reject her, and it sounds like he will.
I do think her behavior is somewhat poor form though.Did she outright lie or just omit a detail? Did you ask her where she is going on Sunday morning? If she outright lied about her Sunday morning plans, that is a big deal.
I'm so glad you're not my husband. Or boyfriend. Or friend. Or in my life at all, really. Lying by omission is still lying. She could have easily said "Actually, I went ahead and made plans for brunch thinking that you would want to sleep in." But she didn't knowing that would lead to wanting to know who the plans were with and possibly an offer to join. Deceptive behavior because she knew she was doing something that would upset her friend.
As for the situation, tell the male party that she wasn't exactly forthcoming and offer to come if he wants you to join. Then inform her that he invited you to join them.
THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS + *kitten* punch to liars.0 -
She is definitely not a friend and need to be put in here place!0
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Call that b i t c h out.
And...Id punch her in the *kitten*.
this.
twunt punch for the win!
call her out also, at midnight, Saturday night & kick her out on her booty.0 -
^^me too^^
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