Are "big chics" submissive?
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I had decided to get back out there and meet people, so I joined one of those online dating sites. Met a guy named Chris, and we talked for several days. Finally decided to meet. Well, he started getting a little "handsy" and I shut him down. He told me, "This isn't going to work out. All the big chics I've ever met have been submissive. You're too dominate for me." LOL
Me, dominate? Um, Ok. I figure it is more my self-confidence growing as a result of losing weight.
So what do you guys and gals think. Are "big chics" (his words, not mine......it was like fingernails on a chalkboard) submissive?
Me, dominate? Um, Ok. I figure it is more my self-confidence growing as a result of losing weight.
So what do you guys and gals think. Are "big chics" (his words, not mine......it was like fingernails on a chalkboard) submissive?
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HAHAHA He's reading "submissive" as probably characterizing that all big chicks need love and will lower their standards to get it.
Good for you on not lowering your standards for that *kitten*. Lower your standards when you see fit:)0 -
Chris is an *kitten*. Sounds like he looks for women with low self-esteem to try and dominate.0
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Apparently he thinks "big chicks" are easy. What a loser!0
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Sadly, overweight women do tend to have lower self-esteem. Many guys have realized this and taken advantage of that.
Good for you, though. You should never put up with that. :flowerforyou:
Edit: Damn, spelling mistakes left and right today.0 -
Chris is an *kitten*. Sounds like he looks for women with low self-esteem to try and dominate.0
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You're too dominate for me."
Dominant.0 -
I've found bigger girls are a bit easier but it was always good. Always.0
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You're too dominate for me."
Dominant.
Thanks for the correction. Seriously. I knew I was spelling it wrong, but didn't want to take the time to look it up.0 -
Submissive?! I think he meant that most big girls are desperate. Screw him.
For the record, I'm a size 10 and I'm definitely more submissive lol0 -
Chris is a babaso! Look that up...
I may be lusciously plump; however, I do have standards and I respect myself enough not to lower them. Kudos to you, mi'ja for having some sense AND some taste!0 -
UGH- What a jerk!! Good on you for turning him down you're better off!0
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I've found bigger girls are a bit easier but it was always good. Always.
um, yeah. Ok....0 -
Sadly, overweight women do tend to have lower self-esteem. Many guys have realized this and taken advantage of that.
I'm not overweight anymore but my low self-esteem still hasn't changed. By the way I'm not submissive despite of that. Its just not in my vocabulary, LOL
EDIT: Great job turning that douche down.0 -
HAHAHA He's reading "submissive" as probably characterizing that all big chicks need love and will lower their standards to get it.
That is what he means.0 -
I'm submissive, but not to just anyone. My standards are so high that I need a genetically engineered man to fulfill them.0
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Chris sounds like a douche. Move on. Find someone else who isn't a douchepickle deluxe of the turdmonkey order.0
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LOL. Yeah, sounds like a ****. Submission doesn't mean, "Yeah, I'll let you into my pantalons just because you want in"
I am a big chick, and it would probably be creepy if my amazon *kitten* was submissive.
Just for the record, the way to shut him down is to say that you're only submissive for /real men/.0 -
That dude is a douche that is confusing submissive for low self esteem. Two very different things0
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I am a submissive no matter what my size has been, but that doesn't mean I put out on a first date.
This guy's definition of submissive is "easy and low self esteem." I am only submissive to a man that deserves it.0 -
Just because you have self-esteem doesn't mean you're "dominate". It just means you won't let some creep you met online fondle you.
Chris sounds like a weirdo with a bruised ego and possibly abusive. You can do better, honey. And you should be proud of yourself for not letting him violate you.0
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