Unsupportive friend... HELP!
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:huh: Why would you even think of expecting a cat to get involved in your successes? Its not like they can congratulate you or anything Cats have a mind of their own as all animals do. However If your concerned that your cat does not pay as much attention to you or wont go away from you, this could maybe be that your can may need a little guidence to adjusting to this new part of you. Because all of this self changing yourself may not be what you cat is used to. But dont get angry with a cat
wtf...
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Maybe you need to get your kitty some catnip and a margarita? LOL!! :laugh:0
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Why are you asking us??! You need to sit down and have a talk with your cat to find out what's going on.0
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Im sorry if that is what I feel:ohwell:0
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My dog motivates me.
I wish I could have a dog but my apartment is too small!!! And she'll probably be jealous of the dog too.Is your cat overweight? Lots of times friends who are overweight feel insecure when they see us losing weight - they don't want to be the fat one.
I hate to say it, but she gained some weight after spending a week at someone else's house while we moved. This was over a year ago. She may be bitter that she can't lose it.
A dog won't be much better. At least not my dog. Anytime I get the mat out, he comes over and stares at me. I can see it in his eyes, he's saying "Again?!? You're going to jump around when it does not involve playing with me again?!". Its like I'm annoying him that early in the morning. He tries to get in my way, lick my face, walk right in my path while I'm doing jumps. He eventually gives up and goes in the bedroom and gives me the evil eye from there.
And then when I take him for runs with me, he deliberately tries to trip me up.
My Dogs EXACTLY. But I taught my dogs "down stay" and that NEVER worked on the cat… god rest her little furry soul.0 -
You should divorce you cat......you deserve so much better.0
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Maybe a kitty intervention?:laugh:0
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Im sorry if that is what I feel:ohwell:
because you STILL don't realize the whole thread is tongue-in-cheek...
and just in case you think that means she was french kissing her cat, let me clarify...
IT IS A JOKE.0 -
Maybe she's jealous! You should invite her to work out with you!0
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im sorry want to be friends0
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Maybe you and your cat should go to counseling together. There might be some things that she just can't say to you.0
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im sorry want to be friends
sorry sweetie, but my wall would confuse and horrify you at the same time...0 -
thats ok i already seen your wall it: dont scare me:indifferent:0
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Where do I find a motivating goldfish? I must have one.0
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Delete the cat! :laugh:
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this post is so cute!.. lol!0
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Find an animal psychic to read its mind. Luv this thread!0
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The kitty is my sole motiviation for trying to look as good as I can0
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My cat is still a jerk in case you were wondering.0
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Not as big as you for bumping a useless thread from 3 years ago.0
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My cat used to be my best bud too, but then we took her for a little trip to the clinic and she came home a few ounces lighter and she has resented me ever since.....0
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leonidas_and_spartacus wrote: »Not as big as you for bumping a useless thread from 3 years ago.
It's still relevant, man.
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Lol what a cute post.0
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You should have gotten a fish.0
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Kick her to the curb! You don't need a friend like that! She's just using you for your warm milk and shelter. She's jealous of all your losses and huge gainz. She wants you to just stay with her - sedentary and sitting on the couch, sniffing catnip.0
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hilltopsarah wrote: »:huh: Why would you even think of expecting a cat to get involved in your successes? Its not like they can congratulate you or anything Cats have a mind of their own as all animals do. However If you are concerned that your cat does not pay as much attention to you or wont go away from you, this could maybe be that your can may need a little guidence to adjusting to this new part of you. Because all of this self changing yourself may not be what you cat is used to. But dont get angry with a cat.
Me thinks this post went way over your head.0 -
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Desterknee wrote: »My cat is still a jerk in case you were wondering.
Actually, all cats are jerks. They should have told you that when you got one, sorry.
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robin, I think you need a few more lessons on image linking.
The obvious solution is to get your cat on team exercise.
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Desterknee wrote: »This is really upsetting and I don't know what to do.
So my cat is really not supportive of my weight-loss. She was the last one I expected to act this way. She used to come over to me, hop on my belly, massage my fat, purr, and snuggle. This morning she comes over, puts a paw on my belly, gives me stank-eye and walks away. We barely hang out anymore.
You know what else? When I am clearing a path to do walking lunges she ALWAYS lays down right in the middle of it. And when I put my exercise mat on the floor she sits on it. When I get into push up position, she goes under my belly and gets in my way. SHE IS TRYING TO SABOTAGE ME! Why would she do that?
Do you think my weight loss is making her insecure? I don't understand why she would do this to me. I think I need to confront her but I'm not sure if I'm overreacting.
HELP!!
I feel your pain. My younger cat is mad because I put him on a diet. The brat is 2.5 yrs old and almost 18 pounds! He slept in the laundry basket on the clean clothes instead of in the bed with me last night. But it's ok, my other, skinnier cat slept right next to me.
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