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ROTFLMAO !!!!!!! That was so worth reading thru 3 pages of comments Losing2Live69.

Wow! I feel for ya, nothing worse then that feeling where you are excited about your success and someone else shreds it. It is SO hard to loose weight and get it shape and stick to it. Im proud of you and so sorry you went through that. Things like that cut super deep!

You should have responded like "yeah, they keep making that size since anything lower won't fit in all my awesomeness."

I went from a 20 to 18, too. We rock. :flowerforyou:

THIS!

It is SO TRUE that men don't understand women's sizes. When I met my husband I was wearing a size 16 but told him I was in a 14 because I was embarrassed about it. After we had our son I was a size 18 and I let it slip that I wished I could get back into my size 16's. Haha. He was so mad at me for lying to him. I was like c'mon how could you NOT know? Two years ago I wanted some new pajamas for Christmas. He bought me a pair and they were size L. I wear an XL. Luckily, the pants fit me but the top was too snug. I wore it once, before it was washed, and then told him it was TOO HOT to wear to bed... which was the truth. I'm a hot sleeper, I can't wear a long-sleeved flannel shirt to bed! I asked why he got me a Large and he said he thought I wore a large. At the time I was a little upset... like really? How can you NOT know your own wife's size? But now that I think about it, it really was a compliment. In HIS EYES I was/am beautiful and not that big.

I'm sure that your bf just doesn't see your flaws like you do. We are our own biggest/worst critics. Rock on because you are owning it!

Just use it as motivation. He can't take it back so if he meant no harm, let it be water under the bridge....gone. What you do have control of is continuing to take the weight off. Do it for YOU!

if i was a realist i'd answer back saying BOO F'n HOO.... but i'm a nice guy and politically correct, so i'll say awwwwwww what a sad story!

ps: forgot to add, you should be happy you lost 2 sizes, dont see what the problem is

Proof men don't understand women's sizes......women know they go in increments of two......

Good work Agatha Christie...you got us all figured out!

Recently I went into a store and a woman who looked to be in her upper 20's grabbed the size she thought I needed. She even looked at multiple tags until she picked the one she handed me to try on. She grabbed a size 14! I had to chuckle a bit and quietly I just said, "actually I wear a 6."

If a grown woman, in retail can get it wrong, don't worry too much about a male's understanding of sizes.

Sounds like your BF is more clueless than hurtful. I wonder if he truly expected that women's pants are sized the way men's sizes are -- with an inch measurement for the waist. (Then, a size 20 really would be strange. In many brands, a size 20 in women's equate to about a 39-40 inch waist.)
He loves you, and he's been with you as you've been losing, so I wouldn't stress it too much.
Congratulations on your success so far and best wishes as you continue with your weight loss efforts!

Men don't know anything about size. Once my husband talked about a former girlfriend and said she was a size 6. We ran into her and she was my size. I said, "Wow, she must have gained some weight!" and he looked at me all confused and goes, "No..." She was clearly a 14. Not a 6.

Guys don't even know what womens sizes mean.....their sizing is all different. I heard on the radio about someone who thought that womens sizes were based on their age, so went to America (from Australia) and bought his g/f a bunch of size 20 Victoria's Secret bra's. She only needed size 10. We don't have Victorias Secret in Oz so he couldn't return them either. Hahaha! Silly boys.

Also, you only make fun of something like that if you think the person your with has no chance of getting offended...meaning he doesn't think of you as large. So that's a good thing.