Men's advice please....

You could always break into his house and boil one of his pets in a pot on the cooker....or pour acid on his car.....or...or.....

I watch way too many movies. Seriously, do nothing

I guess it depends a bit on who sent the last text, but generally I would say sack it off.

If he contacts you then do as you please, but no good can come from contacting him if you were the last one to text.

To be honest, I never liked an overly keen girl and texting straight after the date would have put me off.

And thus the request for Mens advice. Although Women believe they know Men, they do not. There is no "cut out" one guy is just like another, regardless of what some people believe.

I will say that a lot is dependent on his age, thus his maturity, and since you are not a teenager then he is probably not either. As we age, Men that is, we get set in our patterns and sometimes simply do not remember to do "new" things. Perhaps he is not usually a dating kind of guy and does not want to come off as being pushy? Perhaps he wants to give a bit of time to make the heart grow fonder? Perhaps he is trying to find the right opportunity, event, to take you out to? Perhaps he doesn't know how to recall your number on his cellphone, my father can't do it? The real answer is, only he knows why he has not called you yet. So, if you like him and would like to see him again then pick up your phone and give him a call and invite him to a Starbucks, or some other non-romantic, brightly lit, general meeting area and see what he says. If he says anything other then "Yes" (or words to that effect) and he is not telling you that he is hospitalized or under medical care, then unfortunately he does not wish to pursue this opportunity. If he says "Yes", then he is interested in you because no man will go to a second date with a woman they did not like on the first.

Hope that helps, and regardless of how he feels..enjoy a cup of coffee or tea and have a great day.

i would say reach out to him, a quick hi, how was your weekend and leave it alone. He should have sent a text by now, if he was a gentleman.

Why should she reach out to him?

Here are some possible scenarios:

He is not into her—she shouldn’t reach out
He is playing games—grown *kitten* men should not play childish games—she shouldn’t reach out
He is into her, but is kinda shy—who wants an insecure man—she shouldn’t reach out

Can you come up with another reason why he hasn’t contacted her in a week?

Spot on. You sent the last text, if he was really interested enough for another date then he will make the next move. Don't take it personally if things didn't work. Sometimes no matter the chemistry, you may just not be his type. Go on other dates and if he's interested, he'll find a way to contact you.

Also, glad that you didn't 'put out'. Anyone who needs that for a second date most likely won't have the depth you need to get you past the 'lust' phase of a new relationship. That depth will help you when the 3 month mark hits and you're now getting to know someone on a deeper level.

i would say reach out to him, a quick hi, how was your weekend and leave it alone. He should have sent a text by now, if he was a gentleman.

Why should she reach out to him?

Here are some possible scenarios:

He is not into her—she shouldn’t reach out
He is playing games—grown *kitten* men should not play childish games—she shouldn’t reach out
He is into her, but is kinda shy—who wants an insecure man—she shouldn’t reach out

Can you come up with another reason why he hasn’t contacted her in a week?

Shy is not insecure but I agree for the most part.

I have never met a shy secure man ( well, I meant shy when it comes to dating stuff)

i would say reach out to him, a quick hi, how was your weekend and leave it alone. He should have sent a text by now, if he was a gentleman.

Why should she reach out to him?

Here are some possible scenarios:

He is not into her—she shouldn’t reach out
He is playing games—grown *kitten* men should not play childish games—she shouldn’t reach out
He is into her, but is kinda shy—who wants an insecure man—she shouldn’t reach out

Can you come up with another reason why he hasn’t contacted her in a week?

Amen!

i would say reach out to him, a quick hi, how was your weekend and leave it alone. He should have sent a text by now, if he was a gentleman.

Why should she reach out to him?

Here are some possible scenarios:

He is not into her—she shouldn’t reach out
He is playing games—grown *kitten* men should not play childish games—she shouldn’t reach out
He is into her, but is kinda shy—who wants an insecure man—she shouldn’t reach out

Can you come up with another reason why he hasn’t contacted her in a week?

if she likes him what is the harm in saying hello, if he doesn't respond then F him. He now could never say "well i never heard from you either" Remember i said he should have texted one way or the other no matter what. Don't get me wrong i see your side of it.

I'm in the "Do Nothing" camp.

Guys are hunters. That's what we do. If we want to go get you, we will. If we don't, then why waste your time?

i go with this.

i would say reach out to him, a quick hi, how was your weekend and leave it alone. He should have sent a text by now, if he was a gentleman.

Why should she reach out to him?

Here are some possible scenarios:

He is not into her—she shouldn’t reach out
He is playing games—grown *kitten* men should not play childish games—she shouldn’t reach out
He is into her, but is kinda shy—who wants an insecure man—she shouldn’t reach out

Can you come up with another reason why he hasn’t contacted her in a week?

He has a wife?

Here's and idea.. CALL him rather than text.

My advice is to do NOTHING. If he's interested, he will call. Btw, I don't think it was a good idea to send a text message saying you talked to much. That shows insecurity. I personally would be annoyed if you did that.

Now, everyone is different and he may not have felt that way. If he's interested, he'll call. In the meantime, keep looking for other dates.

Times have changed so maybe he was thinking you would answer back. I still think that if a guy is interested, he will do anything to get to you. IF not, he''ll continue walking.

In the end it doesn't matter if it's the woman's or the man's responsibility to call. IF A GUY IS INTERESTED, HE WILL CALL. Go on to other dates.

I am not a man, but here's my opinion...

Do nothing !!

If he is interested, he has your number..If he is playing THe game, he has your number..Dont sit there waiting for him, go on other dates, go out with friends. If he really wants to, he will contact you.

I am a man and I agree with this..

It sounds to me like he responded the way he did to get OP on the line. Now that she is hooked he is waiting for his ego boost when she begins to relentlessly pursue him because she got advise on men from a bunch of women who told her to take chase. Its a simple game of Cat & Mouse.

I say do nothing.

I am not a man, but here's my opinion...

Do nothing !!

If he is interested, he has your number..If he is playing THe game, he has your number..Dont sit there waiting for him, go on other dates, go out with friends. If he really wants to, he will contact you.

Typical woman response.
If you like the guy, pursue him. IF he responds, WIN. If not, move on.

Another good post here! Go after what you want, if you actually want it.