Being Deleted/Deleting Friends

I got de-friended by three people today. Where is the freaking chocolate!!!! j/k

I have deleted people who I'm not comfortable supporting. For instance, I've had MFP friends who ate only 600-800 calories a day EVERY day. I've had some who got more of their calories from soda than from food. Does that make be a beeyotch? Maybe, but I'm sure I've been unfriended too for various reasons. I also prefer to keep my list manageable.

I delete people for:
1. Consistantly having a net under 1100 cals (would you watch someone slit their wrists? No. I will say something and give good reasons for why I think that they are hurting themselves, and if nothing changes, I leave),
2. For never commenting on my posts when I always comment on theirs (what is a friend on here for anyway?)
3. Spamming the news feed. I don't need to see 5 comments from you + 18 "replied to" posts + your exercise + your diary. I can't see anyone elses stuff! If you reply to forums a lot, please turn that to private! 1 or 2 comments a day about real stuff is cool. Comments about your cat, that you are leaving for the gym, that you are back from the gym, you are looking forward to cooking, etc every 10 minutes are not.

Hi, I dont think I have been deleted, if I have, there is not much I can do, There are people on here for the wrong reason thats what I think anway, but I also think its not personally, but its not nice, especially if you reach out to them. You cant reply to all of your friends all of the time, but its nice when you can and its nice when you support them. Just do what you are doing because at the end of the day, its all about your life :bigsmile:

I delete people if they are inactive, don't interact with me, have bad eating habits, or are just annoying. It's nothing personal.

if im not given support like i give it. i may have been maintaining my weight for almost 1 1/2 years but i still need help and encouragement. and if you arent on here for a month.

I deleted a guy because he kind of bothered me with all his posts. When he would post in the forums it would always be about he needs friends to lose so and so. He had a bunch of friends and seemed like he had a bunch of support but every few minutes he was posting about he needs motivation and support. Posting forums every day like that and sometimes multiple times a day just really irritated me I guess. I got tired of only seeing that on my tml for him other than him asking woman questions about their favorite body part on a man etc. So I deleted him. I don't feel bad about it either.

I delete people all the time for a variety of reasons. In all honesty, wearing too many clothes is reason enough.

*takes notes*





*removes clothes*

*sends FR* lol

Oopsie. Still getting used to things. This ^^ is what I thought was funny!

I get deleted by a few people every time I play Dirty Minds on my wall. Can't imagine why...

Sometimes I friend people and then realize they're notorious on the forums for being idiots or they are just collecting women on their friends list. I also just delete people who haven't logged in for a long time or don't ever talk... I like to keep a small friends list.