Men: Do you prefer soft or firm lol

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  • LaSweetMini
    LaSweetMini Posts: 157 Member
    Depends on the guy you ask. Men have differing tastes, some like short some like tall, some like fit, some like chubby and some like it all.

    That said, strive for the body you want to achieve and there will be men that find it attractive.

    For survey purposes.... If she is with me and willing to get naked, who cares.


    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • Spartan_Maker
    Spartan_Maker Posts: 683 Member
    You wrote: "... very firm and toned, or . . . a bit on the softer side."

    It's pretty much a win, win.
  • well well well this thread is interesting to say the least! (fans face)

    It's kind of like the old "does size matter" question when it comes to a certain part of the male anatomy. What's that old saying? It's not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean?

    Thighs schmighs. All stereotyping of men aside, in reality I think it's all about intensity of experience enjoyment rather than specifics of body types.
  • markymarrkk
    markymarrkk Posts: 495 Member
    IT DOESN'T MATTER, a real man is just happy to be allowed any where near a woman's thighs.
  • scs143
    scs143 Posts: 2,190 Member
    Survey says: Women should have the bodies that make them feel sexy and confident. If they are, men gloss over details.

    Smart woman.
  • uidb5259
    uidb5259 Posts: 138 Member
    Personally, I like a woman in shape but not so strong she doesn't "feel" like a woman. A little softness is enjoyable. I'm old fashioned and still want to feel like the strong one, the protector.
  • lol!!! My man says he likes my thighs. :D that's good cause they're mine and only he can have 'em and what's between and connected! lol!!! ;D
  • Fat2Fit4Life
    Fat2Fit4Life Posts: 599 Member
    Even a chubby girl's flabby thighs will feel toned while on her back with her knees pressed against her chest.

    If you are in a position to touch and see the back of her naked thighs, does it even matter at that point?

    ^^^^ This - Honest and to the point!
  • kanonxbou47
    kanonxbou47 Posts: 265 Member
    ok, i'm a lesbian, but come on, women are nice with some softness.
    that's the nicest thing about women, in fact.
  • erickirb
    erickirb Posts: 12,294 Member
    ok, i'm a lesbian, but come on, women are nice with some softness.
    that's the nicest thing about women, in fact.

    But not all women are soft
  • Everyone has different tastes. I agree, do what makes YOU feel good. And hopefully the guy lucky enough to check them out makes you feel good also!!!!
  • Survey says: Women should have the bodies that make them feel sexy and confident.

    Definitely agree
  • Depends on the guy you ask. Men have differing tastes, some like short some like tall, some like fit, some like chubby and some like it all.

    That said, strive for the body you want to achieve and there will be men that find it attractive.

    For survey purposes.... If she is with me and willing to get naked, who cares.
    Is it really that easy???? I've been working so hard & it's THAT easy!??!? ;)

    Ba ha ha ha ha yes... This!
  • streamgirl
    streamgirl Posts: 207 Member
    This reminds me of something I read recently in a book about worrying if your boobs are saggy. The only people who are going to see them will be approaching them with a great sense of appreciation--hungry children or men about to get laid. Ha!
  • Who cares what they think? Do what makes you happiest & the right person will love you for exactly who you are. That being said, there is no generalized opinion, because all people have different opinions. Some like thick, soft, curvy. Some like tiny & bony. Some like firm & toned. Which is exactly why you should only please yourself ;)

    Truly. That's hitting the nail on the head.
  • bluechip777
    bluechip777 Posts: 160 Member
    if the "firm" woman asks this question face to face w/ a man --- he will say that is what he prefers! same question coming from a softer woman, he will just as easily say that is what he prefers! Depends on which one is asking the question.
  • nikic50
    nikic50 Posts: 209

    For survey purposes.... If she is with me and willing to get naked, who cares.
    Is it really that easy???? I've been working so hard & it's THAT easy!??!? ;)

    Yep! Guys are far easier to please than women realize!

    Wow, a huge weight was just lifted off my shoulders :)
  • Sparren
    Sparren Posts: 106
    Even a chubby girl's flabby thighs will feel toned while on her back with her knees pressed against her chest.

    If you are in a position to touch and see the back of her naked thighs, does it even matter at that point?

    Best. Response. Ever. :drinker:

    Amen!
  • Jonesie86
    Jonesie86 Posts: 446 Member
    Ha ha great answers!!! I look at it like this: I've created two humans in this body, if the worst I got was less than perfect thighs, I'm doing pretty good :wink: And secondly, men don't take this personally, but if you're not Brad Pitt/Johnny Depp/any other hot guy I'll never hook up with, don't effin judge me lol!!
  • p0tt3rgl33k
    p0tt3rgl33k Posts: 54 Member
    No guy cares. as longs as they are wrapped around your man he shouldn't care, and if he really cares that you are tight everywhere and a little less tight in your thighs, he needs to be slapped.

    If I had a woman who was tight everywhere and a little less tight in her thighs, she wouldn't even have the opportunity to put up posts in the forum.

    IJS

    Amazing Response. I love this! :D
  • uidb5259
    uidb5259 Posts: 138 Member
    lol!!! My man says he likes my thighs. :D that's good cause they're mine and only he can have 'em and what's between and connected! lol!!! ;D

    Makes sense...you have nice thighs
  • justinamay0535
    justinamay0535 Posts: 132 Member
    This reminds me of something I read recently in a book about worrying if your boobs are saggy. The only people who are going to see them will be approaching them with a great sense of appreciation--hungry children or men about to get laid. Ha!

    Lol this is so true! Never thought about it like that before!!
  • wsuduce
    wsuduce Posts: 68 Member
    I like firmly tones with a touch of softness but it really depends on the lady. This wouldn't be the deciding factor in the least. Personality trumps all.


    ^^Ditto
  • if your thighs are mostly toned except for a little bit in the back, the only other person that would notice something so trivial is..another woman.
  • Agreed with the guy friend. If my face is between your legs I dont want to have to worry about my head getting smashed to pieces.
  • :huh:
  • Nice n thick n firm n... wait what are we talking about :tongue:
  • if your thighs are mostly toned except for a little bit in the back, the only other person that would notice something so trivial is..another woman.


    Yikes! Too true....meow.
  • teelynn35
    teelynn35 Posts: 239 Member
    Even a chubby girl's flabby thighs will feel toned while on her back with her knees pressed against her chest.

    If you are in a position to touch and see the back of her naked thighs, does it even matter at that point?

    hahahahaha ^this
  • Depends on the guy you ask. Men have differing tastes, some like short some like tall, some like fit, some like chubby and some like it all.

    That said, strive for the body you want to achieve and there will be men that find it attractive.

    For survey purposes.... If she is with me and willing to get naked, who cares.

    ^^^ this hahahaha