So...My mom died.

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  • future_rockstar
    future_rockstar Posts: 711 Member
    My condolences on the loss of your mom. Both of my parents are gone now, and I miss them dearly every day. What you are undertaking is a wonderful way to both honour your mom (I'm sure she would be very proud of you) and, even more importantly, get your health in order. Looking great for your daughter's wedding would be a wonderful side benefit, and clearly doable. Feel free to friend me if you would like :flowerforyou:
  • akgolden1
    akgolden1 Posts: 8 Member
    I am so sorry! I lost my mom 4 years ago and it still hurts. But, taking care of yourself is such a great way to pay tribute to your mom and the love she had for you. She would want you to be happy and healthy, and have the best life that you possibly can. I wish you the best of luck!
  • buttons2455
    buttons2455 Posts: 56
    well done for taking the first steps its not easy and u will feel like giving up some times . But you will find the will power some how and were all here to help each other. so welcome im nicky feel free to add me on here and good luck on your journey :) xx
  • Baloostika
    Baloostika Posts: 203 Member
    Yes u can, for you and for your children. May ur mom continue to rest in peace, Amen.
  • scoutmom22
    scoutmom22 Posts: 17
    oh sweet friend. you can and you will! if you need another friend, please add me. :)

    same exact thing runs maternally in my family as well. my mom has now (at 66) out lived my grandmother (who died the same way as you described at 62), and i plan on living until i'm 100. we can do this!!!
  • reneecgc
    reneecgc Posts: 179 Member
    You can do it. I am 45 and I weighed 216lbs on February 8th 2012. In less than six months I weighed in at 154.
    Good luck and if you need any advice feel free to ask.
  • MyFaithAtWork
    MyFaithAtWork Posts: 13 Member
    you are not alone and we all can do this together with us putting God fist. You Can Do All Things Through Christ Who Strengthens You- Phillipians 4:13 All thing not some but ALL keep that in mind. You already have taken the fist setp so just keep steping and know your Pal are always here.. add me to your friends
  • paulywoo
    paulywoo Posts: 169 Member
    Such a moving story, so sorry for your loss. This site has the best support network and I hope it works as well for you as it has for me. Good luck in your journey. Your Mum would be very proud of you. Feel free to add me as a friend
  • Jbadiam
    Jbadiam Posts: 57 Member
    Hang in there you can do it, this site is great !! Lots of wonderful supportive people !:smile:
  • m0ll3pprz
    m0ll3pprz Posts: 193 Member
    Oh my gosh, I am so sorry to hear of your painful loss. I just want you to know that you and your mom will be in my prayers. I wish you peace, strength, courage and wellness in the coming days and beyond. Please feel free to add me, the more encouragement and support- the better. You have the power to do this and you will succeed for your family, your mom and yourself. Please take good care.

    God Bless
  • annathomas88
    annathomas88 Posts: 27 Member
    Wow. What a truly touching story. I am so sorry for your lose but SO HAPPY that it brought you here. Sending my thoughts your way. :)
  • overit75
    overit75 Posts: 150 Member
    I am sorry that your Mom passed away. You are taking the best action you can! Best of luck to you on your weight loss!
  • pkoll
    pkoll Posts: 135 Member
    I am brand new to MFP. My mom died 4 years ago, and I am still grieving! You sound similar to me. i have gained my weight over 30-some years. I've not really dieted much. I hate to work out, but go in spurts. Have bad knees. I'm also a nurse who works rotating all 3 shifts ( 8's and 12's), so difficult to get into a routine. I set my weight loss goal low at first so it would be easier to achieve over time. If (or should I say "when") I hit my first goal, i plan to set a new one. Good luck to you and tonight I will say a prayer for your strength!
  • mazzylad
    mazzylad Posts: 6
    your post was very moving... we have a lot in common.... i too have a target to loose 60lb and i too am a nurse!!!! send me a friend request and stay strong. cheers for now

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