Am I the only one?

You'll see yourself every day, so it's going to be tough to notice any changes in your shape because they won't be noticeable one day after the next! I still think I look the same, but my jeans say otherwise.

Are you taking your own before and after shots? Compare those and after a couple of months notice the difference - and that's key as far as I'm concerned, looking ahead months instead of a few days. If it was quick and easy then none of us would be here, we're in it for the long haul.

Keep going and see how you feel in a couple of months time. Otherwise you'll just think back and wish you kept pushing on.

like already stated....you see yourself everyday. When you don't have much to lose, it may seem like there isn't a difference.
I'm sure others would notice if you posted pics.

No, you aren't alone, I have lost 94 lbs and I still don't really see a difference although I can tell there is one, from clothes and activity levels etc. I can see it in face pics too.

It's hard to see the difference in ourselves. Since I was previously very thin it was depressing seeing old pictures of myself. It wasn't until I hit the 25lb loss mark that it started to sink in I was getting smaller.

Eventually your brain will catch up and that first time you catch a glimpse of that fit chick in the mirror and realize it's YOU...nothing feels better.

My friend and I are taking one photo of ourselves at the beginning of every month and saving them so that we can put them all together once we reach out goals, and see how far we've come. You should try it!

no, you're not alone!

seriously, even though i've lost 58 lbs and so many people have commented on the fact that i've lost so much weight/i look great etc etc etc. when i look in the mirror, i still see the same me!! its BIZARRE. okay, yeah i know i'm smaller because i can fit into WAY smaller clothes...but when i look in the mirror, i don't see any difference - its some weird brain thing obviously - and as others have already said, we see ourselves every day, so we don't actually SEE the difference that other people so obviously do - even though there is one - and as others have said, it takes awhile for our brain to catch up to our new body, because...even though i don't see it when i purposefully am looking at myself in the mirror, when i see myself as a reflection when i'm walking by a window or something, it's really weird because i don't recognize myself and my body. it's not ME! (the old me!). its very ....disconcerting really (but not in a bad way!).

I never saw a difference either.....every time I looked in the mirror I was still the same fat girl I'd been all my life. Then we got a new security guard at our office building. We all have to wear badges with our picture on it and he stopped me and asked why I had someone elses badge on. Well, let's just say the security desk made me take a new picture. When I saw the two pics side by side I finally saw what everyone else was seeing.

Take some pics - you will see a difference!!!

The outside doesn't just reflect your changes. I FEEL healthy. My heartburn and acid reflex is gone and my mentality is in a good state. Take your own little "before" picture to compare in the future, I'm going to... eventually.

one of these days it will just click and you will love yourself! Also, telling yourself positive things in the mirror helps

You're only losing 20lbs. Count your blessings there... That's why your weight loss won't look as extreme as those who have 50-100lbs to lose. I'd rather be in your shoes

Your brain loses weight slower than your body. Fact.

I still ocassionally make wide slow turns around corners thinking Im trying to squeeze through an area that I could totally run through with no problem. It DOES get better I swear.

I'd say I agree, and disagree. It gets better but it's always there, at least as a reminder.

Over the course of the last 10 years, I lost about 120 pounds, then I gained back 130 pounds, and have now lost back about 110 pounds. I've been at about the same weight for 2 years now, doing the slow fat burn and muscle build. Some things that I think are going to stay with me forever:

I will always feel like the fat kid. Even though I physically feel much better than I did when I was heavier, I spent too much time as the fat kid to completely divorce myself from that mentality. Plus, I'm still kinda fat. So there's that as well.

When someone farts in the elevator or in line at Subway or on the bus, I will always feel like everyone thinks it was me. I'm not sure if everyone else has had this experience, but I can tell you that for me, it has always seemed like people look at the fat person when they smell a fart. And some people feel much more comfortable letting one rip in a confined space when there is a fat person there for everyone to silently blame it on.

Unless I get surgery, I'm always going to have a muffin top made of skin. This, I believe, will prevent me from ever thinking I'm "thin". And I'll have to wear pants that are 2-4" bigger in the waist to accomodate, although my waist is actually not below-gut anymore, which is nice.

I will also always have stretch marks. Everywhere. They're not going to go away - some people's fade over time, but mine aren't budging. Too much stretching for too long for me.

I will always have to remind myself that when I'm in a crowded bar or some other crowded area, I can squeeze through that gap even though my brain is telling me I can't.

I will always have to remind myself not to reflexively slump my shoulders forward in an attempt to minimize the visibility of manboobs.

In short, there's no way to erase the years of conditioning (and trauma) that I put myself through when I was heavier, and it probably wouldn't be a good idea even if I could erase them. Those are the thoughts and memories and reflexes that remind me to log my meals and go to the gym. I think it makes me a stronger person.

Your brain loses weight slower than your body. Fact.

I still ocassionally make wide slow turns around corners thinking Im trying to squeeze through an area that I could totally run through with no problem. It DOES get better I swear.

I'd say I agree, and disagree. It gets better but it's always there, at least as a reminder.

Over the course of the last 10 years, I lost about 120 pounds, then I gained back 130 pounds, and have now lost back about 110 pounds. I've been at about the same weight for 2 years now, doing the slow fat burn and muscle build. Some things that I think are going to stay with me forever:

I will always feel like the fat kid. Even though I physically feel much better than I did when I was heavier, I spent too much time as the fat kid to completely divorce myself from that mentality. Plus, I'm still kinda fat. So there's that as well.

When someone farts in the elevator or in line at Subway or on the bus, I will always feel like everyone thinks it was me. I'm not sure if everyone else has had this experience, but I can tell you that for me, it has always seemed like people look at the fat person when they smell a fart. And some people feel much more comfortable letting one rip in a confined space when there is a fat person there for everyone to silently blame it on.

Unless I get surgery, I'm always going to have a muffin top made of skin. This, I believe, will prevent me from ever thinking I'm "thin". And I'll have to wear pants that are 2-4" bigger in the waist to accomodate, although my waist is actually not below-gut anymore, which is nice.

I will also always have stretch marks. Everywhere. They're not going to go away - some people's fade over time, but mine aren't budging. Too much stretching for too long for me.

I will always have to remind myself that when I'm in a crowded bar or some other crowded area, I can squeeze through that gap even though my brain is telling me I can't.

I will always have to remind myself not to reflexively slump my shoulders forward in an attempt to minimize the visibility of manboobs.

In short, there's no way to erase the years of conditioning (and trauma) that I put myself through when I was heavier, and it probably wouldn't be a good idea even if I could erase them. Those are the thoughts and memories and reflexes that remind me to log my meals and go to the gym. I think it makes me a stronger person.

im lost on which part you disagreed with

The "getting better" part.

It does get better, but the "old you" is never completely gone. I know that's not exactly what you were trying to say, but I wanted to express the idea that there will always be remnants of our former selves that we carry with us, both internally and externally.

Stick with it and you will see the difference!