What do you look for in a partner?

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  • PittShkr
    PittShkr Posts: 1,000 Member
    I'm looking for the kind of girl that reminds me of my mother,
    But it's hard to find a girl with a viper tattooed on her tushy
  • deniseearheart
    deniseearheart Posts: 919 Member
    Funny, fun,wild,adventurous ,naughty, nice, and good in bed :-D
  • Debbe2
    Debbe2 Posts: 2,071 Member
    Friendship, loyalty, trust, physical attraction and definately fun times together. It's all about "the connection". And a stick to it in good times and bad attitude.
  • LuccyH
    LuccyH Posts: 266 Member
    Eyes
    Smile
    To be Patient
    To talk about anything
    To be WILD
  • HuskyMan3
    HuskyMan3 Posts: 527 Member
    I am a simple man. I look for a woman in a partner LOL
  • Guess I will be the first to say it: GOD.. a man who goes to church and actually lives a life for GOD.

    I need a man that is in charge, similar lifestyle goals, wants kids, likes to read books of substance, a little odd or quirky, responsible, secure in who he is.

    I found him, and currently engaged to him. He has shown me such respect, and love, and has been my best friend, my rock, a man that opens the door EVERY single time, a man that hugs my daughter goodnight every night, who cuts out of work to make her school stuff, who makes time for us. A man who wants the same as me in regards to lifestyle. A man I can RESPECT.

    Oh, and I love a man that can smile and show those teeth. :)
  • shara85
    shara85 Posts: 70 Member
    21 Things I Want in A Lover by Alanis Morissette... she words it way better than I ever could. Exactly what I want, down to a 'T".
  • Noonoo757
    Noonoo757 Posts: 280 Member
    God Fearing
    Financially stable
    Humor
    No baby mamas :0)
  • ChunkieNuts
    ChunkieNuts Posts: 135 Member
    Compatibility. My opinion, the #1 reason relationships work or fail.
    ^ this, else it goes tits up

    But tits up sure is fun for a bit

    haha i walked into that one!!
  • shelbyfrootcake
    shelbyfrootcake Posts: 965 Member
    Non-religious.
    Bit of a slag.
    Willing and able to cook me dinner sometimes.
  • Determinednoob
    Determinednoob Posts: 2,001 Member
    Non-religious.
    Bit of a slag.
    Willing and able to cook me dinner sometimes.

    Microwave ok?
  • DaysFlyBy
    DaysFlyBy Posts: 243 Member
    A former 'bad boy' who gave up his wicked ways on his own long before he met me...that way he can't judge my rowdy past lol. A crunchy guy who likes gardening and building things with his hands...kind of a hippie, lol, that way if we procreate I won't have to convince him of the merits of cloth diapering and exclusive breastfeeding cuz he'll already be down with it all. A fantastic sense of humor and ability to laugh at life is a must. I love tattoos and full beards and corduroy jeans on a guy. If he wears nothing but well-loved Chuck Taylors day in and day out all the better. Specific much? lol
  • firstsip
    firstsip Posts: 8,399 Member
    A big ****.
  • firstsip
    firstsip Posts: 8,399 Member
    Non-religious.
    Bit of a slag.
    Willing and able to cook me dinner sometimes.

    Hmm, I am all of those things... but we have the same name. Would that make it too complicated?
  • Determinednoob
    Determinednoob Posts: 2,001 Member
    A big ****.

    How YOU doin?
  • Im_NotPerfect
    Im_NotPerfect Posts: 2,181 Member
    Confidence...with maybe a little bit of arrogance thrown in.

    Politeness

    Common Sense

    Someone who can be gentle with me, but still knows how to be a guys guy.
  • diddyk
    diddyk Posts: 269 Member
    Someone who accepts me for me - flaws and all.
  • cheerforsteelers
    cheerforsteelers Posts: 686 Member
    A nice booty. Just kidding..maybe. I would like to be compatible, he should probably know how to make me laugh. Intelligence, wit, honesty, loyalty, patience, kindness. Someone who loves kiddos like I do. Someone who will love me unconditionally.
  • RhonndaJ
    RhonndaJ Posts: 1,615 Member
    This is probably going to make me sound strange, but I still have trouble with the concept of people actively seeking a partner.

    I never did. I never intended to get married, and I never dated monogamously up until meeting my husband.

    Edited to add: I have never had any patience with people without the following qualities, so I suspect they were necessities when it came to settling down.

    1. Must not be a doormat.
    2. Either have money, a job or a willingness to work. I don't mind sharing expenses, but I'll be darned if I'll support someone who's just plain lazy.
  • Topsking2010
    Topsking2010 Posts: 2,245 Member
    Sense of Humor

    Working

    Foodie

    Loves to Travel

    Confident

    Loves Family

    Adventurous

    Nice booty
  • TonkaDanteFriend
    TonkaDanteFriend Posts: 70 Member
    A woman who likes to be given the good ol' angry dragon.
  • flannelbug
    flannelbug Posts: 23 Member
    The only prerequisites I have is that they are honest, respectful, take care of themselves in a healthy and positive manner, and are okay with a monogamous relationship. Anything else is a bonus, really.
  • monocot
    monocot Posts: 475 Member
    I've been with the bad boy, Ive dated the nerd, tall and short.
    The man I was with for 8 years was tall, with Long hair, facial hair, was nerdy and had no piercings or tattoos.didnt drink or do Drugs>
    The Boi i'm with now, Tall, insane skinny, tattooes, drinks but doesnt do drugs and is almost as innocent as they come
    I tend to see interest in anyone who shows interest in me after I show my oddness.
    Though, if i'm checking guys out in the bar, Tall is a must, Piercings and tattoos Are nice but not a must. Long hair always catches my attention and big muscles.

    Though when a guy does "circle" the first thing I ask, if they want children one day. If they do. I send them on there way
  • imchicbad
    imchicbad Posts: 1,650 Member
    sincerity in thier laugh, smile and how they treat others- you gotta be out going and want to live life, idk its no so much looks its the attitude twards life
  • shelbyfrootcake
    shelbyfrootcake Posts: 965 Member
    Non-religious.
    Bit of a slag.
    Willing and able to cook me dinner sometimes.

    Hmm, I am all of those things... but we have the same name. Would that make it too complicated?

    Surely that makes things simpler!
  • tubbyelmo
    tubbyelmo Posts: 415 Member
    Dark hair, dark eyes, not overly tall, sturdy build, loves me regardless of my faults, knows his way around the kitchen.

    Thankfully my man is all of these things, gotta love my own chef!
  • A good boy that looks like a bad boy.........
  • Lyssa62
    Lyssa62 Posts: 930 Member
    the next time I get married..I'm marrying a gay guy like Will from Will and Grace. I get along so much better with gay guys! They "get me". :( sigh
  • Darkskinned88
    Darkskinned88 Posts: 1,177 Member
    Born female. Over 21.
  • TRUK
    TRUK Posts: 12
    How do you delete a post? lol