What do you look for in a partner?

- Friendship
- Sexual compatibility
- Communication
- Ambition
- Compassion
- Strong personality and self worth (Can't date woman with a low self esteem)

this! and nice eyes and smile!

It used to be the bad boy type, the challenge for me to fix.

Now, someone who loves me as much as I love him, who laughs with me, and who would do anything not to hurt me. Thank god I found him!

First part was definitely me... second part I'm working on

An average person with whom I can make things work

In no order I guess...

Must have a healthy career and would prefer a 4-year degree (but not required if you're in a field where that isn't important for growth).

If you have a child the baby daddy must not be a deadbeat/addict.

Must come from a wonderful family so if we get married I'm not embarrassed to have your uncles in cut-off tuxedo t-shirts mingling with my friends and relatives.

Must be "cute" - but this could mean a thousand things. I guess "must not have a busted face" is a better descriptor. You must know how to shop at Sephora too if your morning-after face is yikes. Actually scratch that if you don't look good without makeup that's a deal breaker because I wanna fall in love with your smile not your ability to face paint.

I actually prefer girls who are more shy and reserved - I have a strong personality and I'm not looking for my twin sister.

You can't be really loud and awkward especially when drinking because I don't want my friends to stop inviting me to social gatherings.

If you use a lot of exclamation points in all your texts that really freaks me out. Also, if I don't respond right away please don't respond with, "Guess you're not interested" like 5 minutes later.

You MUST go to a gym. If you're into CrossFit that is a deal breaker though. If I wanted to date a cult member I'd date somebody in Christian Scientology because they are all wealthy.

If most of your friends are guys that's really sketchy and I don't want to date somebody whose nickname is Train Station.

Hypothetically speaking, if you are on a diet/fitness social network, you cannot post pictures of yourself in your underwear under any circumstances. You must also not be friends with perverts on said hypothetical diet/fitness social networking website. If I do not whet your appetite for attention, then you are an attention *kitten* (which is a *kitten* none-the-less).

This list is awesome.

Jay thank you for allowing me to clarify.

Your SALARY isn't important - but you must have a job that is fulfilling. You could work for a non-profit or work with people with disabilities and not make six-figures. I personally am attracted to people who work hard and push themselves towards success. This attitude is reflected in your job and your fitness endeavors as well. It's more of a personality trait than a monetary value, is where I'm going with this.

But if I was a lady I would totally be sexting this dude^^

seriously, i hate bein called shallow for saying i want a girl that's in great shape...

you're responsible for your appearance, your lifestyle is reflected in your level of fitness (or lack there off). i'm attracted to someone who's hard working and conscious of their health. i bust my *kitten* and make that a priority in my life, i want to be with someone who shares that. it ain't shallow, f the haters lol.

as for work, ya as long as you're doing something you like (or even if you're not, just as long as you're doing something and not sitting around collecting).

oh, and she had better have dug a hole at least once in her life for fun.

In no order I guess...

Must have a healthy career and would prefer a 4-year degree (but not required if you're in a field where that isn't important for growth).

If you have a child the baby daddy must not be a deadbeat/addict.

Must come from a wonderful family so if we get married I'm not embarrassed to have your uncles in cut-off tuxedo t-shirts mingling with my friends and relatives.

Must be "cute" - but this could mean a thousand things. I guess "must not have a busted face" is a better descriptor. You must know how to shop at Sephora too if your morning-after face is yikes. Actually scratch that if you don't look good without makeup that's a deal breaker because I wanna fall in love with your smile not your ability to face paint.

I actually prefer girls who are more shy and reserved - I have a strong personality and I'm not looking for my twin sister.

You can't be really loud and awkward especially when drinking because I don't want my friends to stop inviting me to social gatherings.

If you use a lot of exclamation points in all your texts that really freaks me out. Also, if I don't respond right away please don't respond with, "Guess you're not interested" like 5 minutes later.

You MUST go to a gym. If you're into CrossFit that is a deal breaker though. If I wanted to date a cult member I'd date somebody in Christian Scientology because they are all wealthy.

If most of your friends are guys that's really sketchy and I don't want to date somebody whose nickname is Train Station.

Hypothetically speaking, if you are on a diet/fitness social network, you cannot post pictures of yourself in your underwear under any circumstances. You must also not be friends with perverts on said hypothetical diet/fitness social networking website. If I do not whet your appetite for attention, then you are an attention *kitten* (which is a *kitten* none-the-less).

This list is awesome.

So...you want a doll to sit there looking pretty for you? She can't have any faults, thoughts of her own, embarrassing family, love handles......Are you sure you're not looking for a robot??? You must think too highly of yourself to expect so much of somebody else. No humility at all.

In no order I guess...

Must have a healthy career and would prefer a 4-year degree (but not required if you're in a field where that isn't important for growth).

If you have a child the baby daddy must not be a deadbeat/addict.

Must come from a wonderful family so if we get married I'm not embarrassed to have your uncles in cut-off tuxedo t-shirts mingling with my friends and relatives.

Must be "cute" - but this could mean a thousand things. I guess "must not have a busted face" is a better descriptor. You must know how to shop at Sephora too if your morning-after face is yikes. Actually scratch that if you don't look good without makeup that's a deal breaker because I wanna fall in love with your smile not your ability to face paint.

I actually prefer girls who are more shy and reserved - I have a strong personality and I'm not looking for my twin sister.

You can't be really loud and awkward especially when drinking because I don't want my friends to stop inviting me to social gatherings.

If you use a lot of exclamation points in all your texts that really freaks me out. Also, if I don't respond right away please don't respond with, "Guess you're not interested" like 5 minutes later.

You MUST go to a gym. If you're into CrossFit that is a deal breaker though. If I wanted to date a cult member I'd date somebody in Christian Scientology because they are all wealthy.

If most of your friends are guys that's really sketchy and I don't want to date somebody whose nickname is Train Station.

Hypothetically speaking, if you are on a diet/fitness social network, you cannot post pictures of yourself in your underwear under any circumstances. You must also not be friends with perverts on said hypothetical diet/fitness social networking website. If I do not whet your appetite for attention, then you are an attention *kitten* (which is a *kitten* none-the-less).

This list is awesome.

So...you want a doll to sit there looking pretty for you? She can't have any faults, thoughts of her own, embarrassing family, love handles......Are you sure you're not looking for a robot??? You must think too highly of yourself to expect so much of somebody else. No humility at all.

He forgot to add someone who doesn't bag on him for posting the truth on interwebz. Not that I agree or disagree with either of you. Except on the crossfit thing...

Someone who doesn't ask questions.

are you sure?

Someone who doesn't ask questions.

Does that mean I can tell you what to do instead of asking? O wait! I blew it already