Poll: Bullying on MFP
chivalryder
Posts: 4,391 Member
Would you consider it bullying if you deleted someone from your FL who clearly had an ED, then made a post about it on your wall (which is private so she couldn't see the post)?
I see it all the time, and someone was just accused of bullying by doing so.
I see it all the time, and someone was just accused of bullying by doing so.
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No.0
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Lol, that's such a weak move though. Why delete them then talk smack? Just post on your wall what you want to say. Let them read it. HAHA. Bullies bullies everywhere BULLIES AND TROLLS BULLIES AND TEENAGE MUTANT NINJA TROLLS!!!!!!0
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Im a 6ft male that trains to fight...
Im not worried about bullies... Im worried I AM the bully...
also, I would like your lunch money.0 -
Don't think it's bullying. Just middle-schoolish and mean.
By the way - what's ED?0 -
Don't think it's bullying. Just middle-schoolish and mean.
By the way - what's ED?
Eating disorder.0 -
Don't think it's bullying. Just middle-schoolish and mean.
By the way - what's ED?
Eating disorder.
Which promoting on MFP is against the guidelines.0 -
By the way - what's ED?
Erectile dysfunction?0 -
That's bullying?
There's a lot more sissies on this site than I originally thought.
I deleted a girl for this reason. I tried to help her. I privately messaged her and asked her why her GOAL for September was to eat 800 calories or less a day. She probably has my figure, so I'm sure there's some psychological issue behind this. So I removed her and said when she ACTUALLY starts eating more that she's welcome to be my friend again.
She re-added me three weeks later and it was the same BS. I finally had to just block her. It's very sad.
Bullying would be if I posted on my wall FIRST about how I think she's a fata$$ and should only eat 500 calories a day, while letting all my MFP friends gang up on her. So no, I don't think deleting is bullying.0 -
My favorites are when people post in a topic that somebody posts in or creates then not even a minute later update their status to reflect an indirect message toward the other person in a derogatory fashion insinuating that they aren't here for help but for several different reasons. I thought we were all here to help each other and seek information and opinions from everyone, not just a specific group of people.... again, that's just my opinion, but I always thought that's what mfp was about.0
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again? Darn it, this is 3 days in a row now....Im a 6ft male that trains to fight...
Im not worried about bullies... Im worried I AM the bully...
also, I would like your lunch money.0 -
By the way - what's ED?
Erectile dysfunction?
Thats what I thought. hahaha0 -
By the way - what's ED?
Erectile dysfunction?
ED on this site is an Eating Disorder, get your mind outta the gutter man0 -
By the way - what's ED?
Erectile dysfunction?
ED on this site is an Eating Disorder, get your mind outta the gutter man
stop bullying him
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By the way - what's ED?
Erectile dysfunction?
ED on this site is an Eating Disorder, get your mind outta the gutter man
stop bullying him
I ain't bullying anybody, I'm simply stating a fact of the site and that Erectile Dysfunction is something of a sexual nature, not anywhere close to related to one's fitness, it is a sexual medical condition.0 -
lmaoBy the way - what's ED?
Erectile dysfunction?
ED on this site is an Eating Disorder, get your mind outta the gutter man
stop bullying him 0 -
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My favorites are when people post in a topic that somebody posts in or creates then not even a minute later update their status to reflect an indirect message toward the other person in a derogatory fashion insinuating that they aren't here for help but for several different reasons. I thought we were all here to help each other and seek information and opinions from everyone, not just a specific group of people.... again, that's just my opinion, but I always thought that's what mfp was about.
Rofl. I like it when someone posts about that someone thinking they won't ever see it.0 -
My favorites are when people post in a topic that somebody posts in or creates then not even a minute later update their status to reflect an indirect message toward the other person in a derogatory fashion insinuating that they aren't here for help but for several different reasons. I thought we were all here to help each other and seek information and opinions from everyone, not just a specific group of people.... again, that's just my opinion, but I always thought that's what mfp was about.
Rofl. I like it when someone posts about that someone thinking they won't ever see it.
As stated on my status, it was not directly pointed at you or anybody else as I have also seen this on several occasions on here already. If it was about anybody in particular, I would post a name. I'm not afraid to do so0 -
It's not really bullying, but it's not really the poster's business to make the person's issues everybody else's business either. I would call it in poor taste.0
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My favorites are when people post in a topic that somebody posts in or creates then not even a minute later update their status to reflect an indirect message toward the other person in a derogatory fashion insinuating that they aren't here for help but for several different reasons. I thought we were all here to help each other and seek information and opinions from everyone, not just a specific group of people.... again, that's just my opinion, but I always thought that's what mfp was about.
Rofl. I like it when someone posts about that someone thinking they won't ever see it.
As stated on my status, it was not directly pointed at you or anybody else as I have also seen this on several occasions on here already. If it was about anybody in particular, I would post a name. I'm not afraid to do so
Coulda fooled me.0 -
By the way - what's ED?
Erectile dysfunction?
ED on this site is an Eating Disorder, get your mind outta the gutter man
That's where you think the gutter is? Woah guy, you're not going to last long on these forums...0 -
again? Darn it, this is 3 days in a row now....Im a 6ft male that trains to fight...
Im not worried about bullies... Im worried I AM the bully...
also, I would like your lunch money.
well, I wouldnt be able to get away with it, but your hands are always full of tires.0 -
I talk smack on my *private* wall so I don't get banned from the forums or say something really mean I'll regret later. Gotta have an outlet. And no, it's not bullying. Bullying was when when I got slammed into lockers and got the *kitten* beat out of me for "dressing differently" in high school.0
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By the way - what's ED?
Erectile dysfunction?
ED on this site is an Eating Disorder, get your mind outta the gutter man
That's where you think the gutter is? Woah guy, you're not going to last long on these forums...
^^Amen to this.0 -
^^^ This0 -
also, I would like your lunch money.
You're very polite for a bully.0 -
I don't know if it's bullying because they can't see it. But it's sure a D move.
So many people here love to shun/pick on people with eating disorders. It's crap really.0 -
no no outright bullying is choosing to delete someone with an ED .
then posting on the forum that you did
and then putting those people down ...... thats bullying (and yes this has happened before)
putting whatever on your PRIVATE wall to me is fine..... if people view that as bullying .... then they can delete said person
nothing we can do about asshats in the forums tho now can we?0 -
They can't see it, so it's not bullying.0
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