I hate gyms and health clubs
searolex
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Am I alone in not liking gyms and health groups?
I have tried fitness clubs, Salsa, bootcamps, etc. They are all the same. I find gyms really intimidating: loads of complicated machinery; loud repetitive music; the feeling that people are watching you. Even though my figure is OK I feel like Mrs Blobby as soon as I walk through the door. I know it is completely irrational but I can feel the trainers sneering at me. I do not need to be shouted at like I was a squaddie. They should be there to help and encourage people not to show off to their mates.
When it comes to Salsa, Zumba or any of the dance type groups, I am so uncoordinated that my timing is all wrong. My arms up when everybody else’s are down; I turn left when everybody else turns right.
A friend recommended Bootcamp because the groups are smaller. The instructors were OK but the other girls were an unfriendly clique who clearly resented the male instructor even talking to me.
I hate exercising in front of other people. I am sure that there are loads of people like me out there. I prefer to exercise outdoors but the evenings are getting darker and I feel a bit vulnerable.
What do other gymphobics do?
I have tried fitness clubs, Salsa, bootcamps, etc. They are all the same. I find gyms really intimidating: loads of complicated machinery; loud repetitive music; the feeling that people are watching you. Even though my figure is OK I feel like Mrs Blobby as soon as I walk through the door. I know it is completely irrational but I can feel the trainers sneering at me. I do not need to be shouted at like I was a squaddie. They should be there to help and encourage people not to show off to their mates.
When it comes to Salsa, Zumba or any of the dance type groups, I am so uncoordinated that my timing is all wrong. My arms up when everybody else’s are down; I turn left when everybody else turns right.
A friend recommended Bootcamp because the groups are smaller. The instructors were OK but the other girls were an unfriendly clique who clearly resented the male instructor even talking to me.
I hate exercising in front of other people. I am sure that there are loads of people like me out there. I prefer to exercise outdoors but the evenings are getting darker and I feel a bit vulnerable.
What do other gymphobics do?
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What do other gymphobics do?
Seek help? the problem is not the gym, but you. Gym is fine, but your mindset is irrational and not founded in any sort of reality. do you have other social phobias and history of other forms of mental illness? Counselling might be in order.0 -
No one cares about you in the gym.
Guys may look at you, only because they may or may not think you are hot.
That is it.
Stop making it so personal.
Just go, I went to the gym when I was extremely overweight, no one ever said a cross word.0 -
My Dear, "phobic" is a word much overused these days. I don't think you are scared of the gym, it's just not your thing, everything is not for everyone. There are lots of other activities and some of them probably way more fun than going to the gym. Just find something you like doing and it will be easier to stick to it. I like using DVDs because I can do them at home and go at my own pace. Perhaps you could try a sport like swimming, check out the YMCA or community centres to see what's going on, just find something you like.0
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Agreed 100%No one cares about you in the gym.
Guys may look at you, only because they may or may not think you are hot.
That is it.
Stop making it so personal.
Just go, I went to the gym when I was extremely overweight, no one ever said a cross word.0 -
i am not gymphobic, the gym is just not for me, so i do all my workouts at home... its no big deal.
if you are running after dark make sure you go to well lit places, wear something bright and make sure someone knows your route and how long you plan to be just in case.0 -
The gym environment is not for everyone. Maybe working out at home is a better option for you!!!0
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You will have to work past your fears and insecurities about the gym... I don't go to a gym, but I do go to Zumba classes. In the begining, I was the same, out of step and doing what felt like the opposite of everyone else. I found that if I am close enough that I can see the instructor I focus on her. I started with the feet, got that down, then moved up getting all the moves down. When I started, I was terrified of group classes... Now it is all I will do. You can't beat the energy of a great group instructor or class. For strength training, I do it at home. I put my head phones in and just use the hand weights I have here. They are fairly inexpensive to buy. Just don't quit... You are worth the effort.0
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Going to gyms and health clubs isn't compulsory. Forget the nay-sayers, if you don't want to go, save yourself the time and money for something you do enjoy. Plenty of people here have achieved stunning results without ever having set a foot in a gym. Do exercise DVDs, buy yourself a set of weights, walk, run, swim, dance - the exercise world is your oyster and you never need have a stranger's naked bottom in your face in the changing room!0
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I also prefer working out at home. It's easier and more convenient for me
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Either you need a gym buddy to train with and motivate you or you need to join a sports club of some sort (eg a running club). Or suck it up and run in the dark on your own. Or get used to indoor fitness in your own home. I kinda feel sorry for those who need to run outside as it sounds wonderful on a summer's evening but horrid on a windy, raining winter's night.
I do dislike gyms/health clubs in general. I can't imagine training in one at peak times when the machines, benches or weights you want to use might be taken and you have to fit your routine around someone else.0 -
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I have tried fitness clubs, Salsa, bootcamps, etc. They are all the same. I find gyms really intimidating: loads of complicated machinery; loud repetitive music; the feeling that people are watching you. Even though my figure is OK I feel like Mrs Blobby as soon as I walk through the door. I know it is completely irrational but I can feel the trainers sneering at me. I do not need to be shouted at like I was a squaddie. They should be there to help and encourage people not to show off to their mates.
When it comes to Salsa, Zumba or any of the dance type groups, I am so uncoordinated that my timing is all wrong. My arms up when everybody else’s are down; I turn left when everybody else turns right.
A friend recommended Bootcamp because the groups are smaller. The instructors were OK but the other girls were an unfriendly clique who clearly resented the male instructor even talking to me.
I hate exercising in front of other people. I am sure that there are loads of people like me out there. I prefer to exercise outdoors but the evenings are getting darker and I feel a bit vulnerable.
What do other gymphobics do?0 -
Workout at home? sounds to me like your trying to find an excuse not to workout. Get over it!0
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I use DVDs, youtube videos, the Wii Fit Balance board, Wii Just Dance and do lots of walking.
It saves me money and time, and no one can see my uncoordinated flailing
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I do everything here at the house. I'm not afraid of the gym, but considering my wife goes to the gym in the mornings, does boot camp at lunch and has a personal trainer twice a week, I see no reason to spend the money on a membership for me. I learn stuff from her and do it all here. Mostly I do DVD workouts (Insanity is drug of choice at the moment) but we also have resistance bands, weights, heavy punching bag, etc around the house. I'm not a social person when I work out, so I'd rather be alone doing it anyway. Just a personal preference.0
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I hate gyms as well- I just bike, hike, and kayak in the great outdoors and lift weights at home.0
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Gyms...small rooms densely packed with people, none of them happy and all of them smelly. No thanks! There are plenty of ways to get exercise, many of them a lot of fun and free.0
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Gyms...small rooms densely packed with people, none of them happy and all of them smelly. No thanks! There are plenty of ways to get exercise, many of them a lot of fun and free.
Lol this is so wrong.0 -
Excercise at home or run/bike. I used to hate gyms, mostly cos i thought everyone is gonna be hot, ripped and oily and i will be the disguisting wobbling blob of fat.
Small local gyms are awesome, cos you get to know the people you work out with and the trainers.
It's hella motivating, people really rarely oogle you or try to pick you up there.
t's almost like profesionals at work, down to tipping hats at eachother.
I love it! Can't afford it and it breaks my heart, but I think it might be matter of finding good gym and not being so self focused but more workout-focused.
Also, hot oily bodies, where did i get that from?! All ranges of people, from very obeese to super ripped.
And seeing 300+ pounds of human being sweating his/her *kitten* off in run to healthier body and cheering them on ...thats why I dont understand how you can hate gym. It's additional support group.
I need to set paypal for donations for my gym money, i swear, or geting better payed job n.n0 -
If you hate it....dont use it!
You dont need a gym or a group or whatever to get in shape and have fun.0 -
just figure that I'm better off in the gym than not bothering at all and that is what you should remember if you feel like that. There are many people who don't even bother!!!0
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Agree with many others - you don't need a gym to be fit. It took me 20 years and a lot of money to figure out the gym was not for me - not for the reasons you say - mainly just too inconvenient and not worth the expense. Cardio outdoors and weight-training at home gives me more time to devote to actual working out. If you need support find a friend to hike, bike, or run with, and/or find a class that you feel comfortable in to take once or twice a week. I would never in my life attempt Zumba but there's so many other options (yoga, pilates, spinning, etc.).0
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I used to like going to the gym years ago when I had a membership. Now I can't get to one anything like often enough to make it worth the money, so am having to find ways of exercising that work for me. I run (alone) three times a week - and fortunately so far even quite enjoy it when it's raining! I'm sure this will change later in the season, but for now it's OK. Other than that, I go to Zumba - we're almost all beginners, so there's lots of wrong feet, different directions etc. The important thing is that no-one minds. We're all there to try and get a bit fitter, we're all doing our best, and frankly, we're all focussed on what we're doing individually, not worrying about other people during the routines. The few seconds between tracks are when we laugh together and encourage one another. Works for me! 0
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I paid a small fortune for a gym membership and hated it so much I faked an injury to get out of my contract
You get the 'peacocks' wherever you go and it just wasnt for me. Sure they're nice to look at but when they s****** at my weedy attempts at lifting its abit irritating.
I took what I learned from the classes I could manage like body combat, pump, balance and kettlebells (zumba and step were a big no no, I also have the coordination of a frog in a blender) and made my own custom hour long workout. I do it at home while the kids are at school where no one can see me, it doesnt matter that I dont have the 'in' clothing, I can huff and puff like a sex pest all I like and then go and take a shower in a CLEAN place! The showers at my gym smelled worse than a public toilet on a really hot day.
Im doing the 30 Day Shred right now so the custom workout is on the back burner, there are loads of videos on YouTube that you can do in the comfort of your own home :flowerforyou:0 -
so... s.n.i.g.g.e.r is a swear now? Who knew? :huh:0
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What do other gymphobics do?
we exercise at home in our underwear where our unco-orrdinated efforts are not laughed at. for real.0 -
I currently workout at home, but wish i had more room for equipment ( my house has no basement) and that's why i'm considering going back to a gym.0
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join your local YMCA......no one cares there. there's individual person trainers but she/he's too busy HELPING people they could care less about those who are HELPING themselves0
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I prefer working out at home...with all the cardio, toning dvd's out there, I'm saving money. Besides I prefer to work out by myself even in walking during my lunch. That's my time for me and not for conversation. If you want to do Zumba by the dvd and do it at home.0
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No one cares about you in the gym.
Guys may look at you, only because they may or may not think you are hot.
That is it.
Stop making it so personal.
Just go, I went to the gym when I was extremely overweight, no one ever said a cross word.
yup!0 -
In many ways, I prefer a gym. They have everything, it's all there for you to use. But, I can't afford a membership, so I turned my garage into a gym. In the long run, I save money, and it's turned out to be really great. It's so convenient.0
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