I feel like helping..

Okay I'll play. Why won't my husband do the dishes?

Probably because it doesnt involve food, cars, sport or boobs.
Ask him what he wants for dinner and be prepared to make him whatever he wants on one condition, he washes up. Simple, works with my man. haha.

LOL.... even that doesn't work. So now I have stopped cooking for him. He's vegan so he generally won't eat what I eat anyway

oh wow, maybe hes just a tad stubborn. Just dont do the dishes at all, hopefully he'll eventually get sick of it piling up!

Give me a massage. kthanksbye.

The root of all health is in the brain.
The trunk of it is in emotion.
The branches and leaves are the body.
The flower of health blooms
when all parts work together.

Self hate is mostly derived from how other people think. Try these:

1. Take full responsibility for your life. Stop blaming others.
2. Participate in life at the highest level you can. Make a list of 10 things you love doing and do them frequently.
3. Stop terrorizing yourself with your thoughts.
4. Be gentle and kind and patient with yourself.
5. Give yourself the simple pleasures of life abundantly.
6. Watch what you say. Avoid self put-downs.
7. Stop being critical of yourself and others.
8. Take care of your body. Give it exercise and good food.
9. Be willing to create a life-style that generates and nourishes
self-esteem.
10. Associate with others with high esteem.
11. Acknowledge yourself frequently. Even if it's just a diary you keep of your successes and accomplishments.
12. Avoid comparing yourself with others.
13. Remember that it’s who we are, not what we do, that’s important.
14. Give yourself permission to do nothing periodically. Schedule time by yourself.
15. Frequently take deep breaths. Discover the benefit and pleasure of breathing fully.
16. Stop trying to change others. Focus your attention on being the way you want others to be.
17. Look into a mirror regularly and say “I love you, I really love you”.
18. Stop feeling guilty and saying “I’m sorry”. See mistakes as valuable lessons and avoid judging yourself.
19. Consciously generate positive thoughts and feelings of self-love
in place of old thoughts of inadequacy.
20. Be willing to laugh at yourself and at life. Stop taking yourself so seriously.
21. Accept compliments from others without embarrassment. Don’t invalidate their positive thoughts and feelings about you.
22. Be kind to your mind. Don’t hate yourself for having negative thoughts. Gently change your thoughts.
23. Keep your awareness and your thoughts focused in present time instead of living in the past or future.
24. Acknowledge others frequently. Tell them what you like and appreciate in them.
25. Treat yourself as you would treat someone you really loved. Praise yourself.

what is your interpretation of these lyrics? (probably my all time favorite lyrics)

"picture perfect with a frame that pretends,
to be a martyr for a cause with no end"

personally I relate to them when I feel like I have changed something about myself that doesn't represent the true me.. same goes for when I feel someone else is being anything but themselves. But I/they do it for something that will never eventuate into what they were hoping for

You are not my friend?

I dont really kinow what to think of this..
I think of a beautiful artwork in an ugly frame.
Like the frame feels crap about himself so he's trying to ruin the painting.

I'm back! xD