Why Are YOU Doing This??

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  • Freidon
    Freidon Posts: 169 Member
    Stopping problems before they come up. My mother has diabetes and high blood pressure, my father thyroid and knee problems, both overweight. They were actuallly healthy when they when they were younger, only gaining weight after kids and a desk job. I'm almost twenty. I've been chubby all my life. While I'm relatively symptom free now, I need to stop it now while my metabolism and skin elasticity are on my side. I think losing weight is helping balance my hormones out, too. I've always been extremely irregular on my period. Since I've been losing weight, I've had it every month for the last three months, at the same time of the month, which is unheard of for me.

    And yeah. I want to be pretty. I'm not a girly girl, but for once in my life I'd to go to a formal event and take people's breath away. I want to wear clothes that don't just look nice, but look nice on me. I'd like to be known as the shy, sweet girl rather than the quiet, weird one.
  • leantool
    leantool Posts: 365 Member
    i'm 34, BMI 31, treading the fine line between just being fat and being pathologically overweight. with family history of diabetes ad hypertension i'm simply scared. another important thing is i want to have a baby without fertility treatment , at my age those extra kilos would not really help. i'm happy with my spouse and don't have body image issues, but creaking knees are not really enjoyable.
    i'm new here and looking forward to your support.
  • There are several reasons I want to lose weight. 1) So I can wear a bikini next summer. 2) So I look good in my cheer leading uniform when I start to cheer for wrestling in December. 3) Because I want to look good on stage at our state FCCLA meeting since I'm a state officer.
  • I want to be able to eat lots of food without getting fat.
  • ChitownFoodie
    ChitownFoodie Posts: 1,562 Member
    I want to be able to eat lots of food without getting fat.

    ^^^THIS!
  • Troll
    Troll Posts: 922 Member
    Because i hated my body for too damn long and listened to people who told me i wasnt good enough.

    im not just good enough. im freaking awesome.

    I get to compete with who i was yesterday, last week, four years ago....and improve.

    also, i have add and ocd tendencies, working out makes me focus.
  • belladonna786
    belladonna786 Posts: 1,165 Member
    Because i hated my body for too damn long and listened to people who told me i wasnt good enough.

    im not just good enough. im freaking awesome.

    I get to compete with who i was yesterday, last week, four years ago....and improve.

    also, i have add and ocd tendencies, working out makes me focus.




    LOVE this answer!



    I just want to look amazing in my own eyes for once in my life.
  • guardian419
    guardian419 Posts: 391 Member
    I want to keep my job. No one likes a fat sailor (me included)

    Oh, and to make my family shut up about /\ :D
  • JanaCanada
    JanaCanada Posts: 917 Member
    The other day, my 23 yr. old daughter was looking through our family phioto albums and remarked, "Mom...how come you aren't in ANY of these pictures?" II lied and said it was because *I'm* always the one behind the camera! The truth is, I can't bear to look at myself in mirrors, much less permanent photographs. :embarassed: And it made me sad to think that if I died - God forbid! - my husband and children would only have this one picture of me (my avatar) to remember me by. So, I guess my family is my #1 reason for losing weight.
  • I want to.beable to go to my closet and be confident that I don't have to spend an hour figuring out what looks best to hide the fat .want to like what I see in mirror.
  • AMHouse85
    AMHouse85 Posts: 285 Member
    I hated to go shopping and every time I had to buy bigger and bigger clothes that were just buy cause it fits not cause I like it. My Mother is obese and one day I looked in the mirror naked after a shower and was like WTF I'm turning into my MOM( I love her but don't want to be shaped like her). I hurt every day, stupid things like my neck and shoulders and I'm only 27!! Not cool at all. Here I am just at the 11 month mark and 60 lbs lost this year, I feel so much better, I am so much happier and I the only hurt I am now is the soreness that comes from working hard. 27 is almost as good as 17 was and I fully intend to look and feel my best as I proudly run into my 30's!!
  • theseus82
    theseus82 Posts: 255 Member
    I remember a period when I was in the best shape of my life, and it felt amazing.

    I may be a lot older now, but I want to be healthy and feel good about my body image. I'm already happy with my life, but I want to have a healthy BMI and feel confident about my appearance again.
  • Rockmyskinnyjeans
    Rockmyskinnyjeans Posts: 431 Member
    I want to be more confident, feel better about how I look, and always be beautiful on the arm of my husband. I am also doing this in hopes of improving my health =)
  • toottoots
    toottoots Posts: 67 Member
    Honestly, because it was my little boys birthday last month - i pretty much ruined every photo - the main memories of the day - and me with my fatness photobombed them.

    He will start school soon enough and if i dont do something about myself he will be ashamed to call me his mum in the playground - I want to be a mum he can be proud of.

    :'(



    .......BUT lost 5 pounds since Friday (VERY small victory Lol)
  • Angie__1MR
    Angie__1MR Posts: 388 Member
    to look like this:
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  • because we've been trying for almost 4 years to have a baby and been in medical treatment for over 2 years for it now... and nothing else has worked so far. i want to either get a baby out of this, or prove to myself that i did everything possible.
  • poedunk65
    poedunk65 Posts: 1,336 Member
    to be at 225. When we got married 32 years ago i was around 180, then somehow i ballooned to over 320. Now I'm at 265 and wnat to be at 250 by christmas. Mostly to get healthy, i already feel so different.
  • ILoveTheBrowns
    ILoveTheBrowns Posts: 661 Member
    to get a girlfriend
  • Naked.

    ^^ this!
  • Calm_Lotus_06
    Calm_Lotus_06 Posts: 104 Member
    I am doing this to love myself. Losing weight is just a bonus! I have found I a stronger, have more faith and more abilities than I ever thought I did!

    <3
    Cassie
  • KrazyAsianNic
    KrazyAsianNic Posts: 1,227 Member
    I been thinking about why i want to lose weight... yeah its to look and feel healthy... but ultimately i want to be hot and sexy for when my man asks me to become his wife. I want to walk down that aisle looking fantabulous. Whats everyone elses dream??

    ^^^This.

    Plus, I want to be able to keep up with my little sister (11 years younger than me) in her many activities and my niece (3 years) and nephew (18 months).
  • Because I love me.
  • rhinesb
    rhinesb Posts: 204 Member
    I want to look and feel sexy again.

    I don't want to be fat.

    I want to walk in to a store knowing that I can try and fit in to most everything they have.

    I want to turn people's heads.

    I don't want to be known as the fat mom.

    I want to be able to walk across my room in my underwear knowing that my husband is seeing one sexy lady walking past him.

    I want to be in photos where I don't look like a whale.

    I want to provide a healthy example for my four daughters!

    I want to buy pretty bras and panties or sexy lingerie.

    I want to buy cute dresses and actually look good in them!

    I want to go hiking again without wanting to quit in the first 10 minutes!

    I don't want to be afraid to wear a bathing suit
  • DebraYvonne
    DebraYvonne Posts: 632 Member
    I want to do it for me!
    I don't want to be overweight!
    I don't want a muffin top in jeans.
    I want to wear a bikini.
    I want muscles.
    I want to be healthy.
    :smile:
  • MikeG2
    MikeG2 Posts: 97 Member
    I want to get in shape because I feel like I am an athlete inside, and not the overweight guy I was.
    I want to walk my daughter down the aisle, watch my son become a fine young man.
    I want to grow old with my wife.
    I want to enjoy life and not be frustrated by my weight slowing me down.
    I am competitive and want to excel at what I do.
  • To be able to wear my pre-pregnancy clothes (my son is 3). Honestly I'm comfortable with my body the way I am, but I don't have the money to buy a whole new wardrobe and I'm sick of only having a couple of pairs of pants that fit!
  • btwalsh132
    btwalsh132 Posts: 289 Member
    So I can golf with my son. To be able to take spring break with the family and take my shirt off at the pool with some confidence. Increased self confidence. Fit into some very nice suits in my closet. Set a good example for my kids. For my health. I want people to say "wow, he looks good!". To be known as a healthy and active person. To rid myself of back pain. To be able to say "told ya" to my Doctor during my next visit.
  • AggieFan2011
    AggieFan2011 Posts: 551 Member
    I had kind of started working on losing weight at the beginning of the semester when I randomly stepped on my roommates scale and saw that I was over 200 lbs, which for me had never happened before. But the defining moment for me was Halloween this year; it really made me want to step up my game. Some friends and I went out dancing and seeing all of those girls in their cute costumes and knowing that at the weight I am I could never wear them and look good was the final straw in motivating me to do something about it. Not that I necessarily want to wear any of those things, but the fact that I couldn't even if I did want to is what got me truly motivated. I remembered a girl in one of my classes had talked about the MFP app so I checked it out, and now here I am. :smile:
  • SunnyAndrsn
    SunnyAndrsn Posts: 369 Member
    I been thinking about why i want to lose weight... yeah its to look and feel healthy... but ultimately i want to be hot and sexy for when my man asks me to become his wife. I want to walk down that aisle looking fantabulous. Whats everyone elses dream??

    Ultimately, health. I want to have a long, fabulous life. Diabetes sucks, and I'm at high risk.
  • mrs_jatkins
    mrs_jatkins Posts: 13 Member
    I was told that at 49 I am too old to donate a kidney to my son. Later, I found out it was really because of my weight. If that wasn't a wake up call! I have been tested and am a great match. Im grateful that I still have time to get my act together for when the time comes.


    Wow! Thats motivational in itself!!! :flowerforyou: