Secret Motivations???

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  • dandksmommy
    dandksmommy Posts: 16
    to get rid of my BBB. That is where my belly is bigger than my boobs. I want to feel good again. I don't want to feel a roll around my waist as I sit in my car. I want to NOT buy a granny bathing suit this year because my belly is too big for a traditional one piece. After having twins, I know I will never be in a bikini, but a sexy one piece would be nice. Good luck to all.
  • DanaDark
    DanaDark Posts: 2,187 Member
    An improved sex life would be nice. In a slight way I guess it leads to that...

    I want to be skinnier/leaner to feel more confident. The confidence will help me not run away from the dating scene. Actually staying in the dating scene should, in theory, lead to a few encounters...
  • GiGiBeans
    GiGiBeans Posts: 1,062 Member
    Ok but shhh, don't tell. Fit back into my corsets and latex catsuit ;-)
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    Ok but shhh, don't tell. Fit back into my corsets and latex catsuit ;-)

    Pics please! :wink:
  • Linli_Anne
    Linli_Anne Posts: 1,360 Member
    My secret motivations are the bedroom costumes and role playing that I want to experiment with in the bedroom.
  • Scott_Chaput
    Scott_Chaput Posts: 114
    Better sex...

    We were both about 30 lbs heavier (I have a lot longer to go my wife is basically done) and just regular standard sex would leave us gasping for breath and very uncomfortable. To the point where I didn't really want to have sex because of how much work it was.

    I've lost 15 lbs in the last 30 days and in that time my wife and I couldn't be together due to a birth control issue and so when we finally could it was like night and day. We did a lot more stuff for a lot longer and we weren't winded at all. It was awesome...

    All that time at the gym doing cardio has worked out... I can only imagine what effect the next 30 lbs is gonna have.
  • Scott_Chaput
    Scott_Chaput Posts: 114
    My secret motivations are the bedroom costumes and role playing that I want to experiment with in the bedroom.

    You've got a lucky man.
  • MommaKit79
    MommaKit79 Posts: 852
    My husband's Ex Wife and her new husband!!! LOL!!!! IN a nut shell, She hates me bcz she thinks I stole her husband and he used to have a crush on me before any of that and I wouldnt even THINK about it!!!
  • katrwal
    katrwal Posts: 336 Member
    Ok but shhh, don't tell. Fit back into my corsets and latex catsuit ;-)

    glad i'm not the only one... although now i have to get a new corset - last one doesn't lace up tight enough!

    also - wearing thigh-high boots and a mini again - for my birthday in a couple of weeks :tongue: should lead to other {cardio} activities with my gorgeous husband...
  • ReclaimingSarah
    ReclaimingSarah Posts: 250 Member
    Look better than all the other Marine/Navy Wives living on base and around me. I don't wanna b in the group of the "typical" heavy military wife.

    ^THIS!^ When I started losing weight, my husband was inspired to also lose weight & join the Air Force. I'm about 30 lbs away from goal & we are moving to our first duty station in April. I am determined to get to goal before then!
  • TropicalFlowerz
    TropicalFlowerz Posts: 1,990 Member
    ..To make my Hubby's jaw fall on the floor,...and for my outside to match my inner athlete self!:wink:

    ....and for my Mom to stop giving me the .."We're all rooting for you honey.. " -- like I have Cancer or something!:huh: :grumble:
  • SofaKingRad_
    SofaKingRad_ Posts: 276
    I heard that every 30 lbs lost I gain an inch. So that means every 30 lbs lost, my wife gets an extra inch too :sick:
  • Cranktastic
    Cranktastic Posts: 1,517 Member
    1234 pretty much

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B-Wd-Q3F8KM
  • Derpina7
    Derpina7 Posts: 552 Member
    Aren't we all on here to look sexy as **** naked?! :drinker:
  • Fvaisey
    Fvaisey Posts: 5,506 Member
    To live long and prosper...
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
    batman

    oh wait. thats not a secret.
  • Brianna72994
    Brianna72994 Posts: 887
    To take better pictures, to look better in sexy clothes, etc.
    My boyfriend is also my motivation. We have never done... "stuff".. because I am too insecure about my body, so I always have to make up excuses. I want to finally be able to say yes to him for once
  • fakeplastictree
    fakeplastictree Posts: 836 Member
    I secretly want to be super hot.
  • BobinNC66
    BobinNC66 Posts: 192 Member
    If I told you, it wouldn't be a secret anymore.

    Psst, we won't tell anyone, promise! ;)
  • logicman69
    logicman69 Posts: 1,034 Member
    I want to be the guy that girls look at and say "Damn, I wanna tap that *kitten*"..
  • BobinNC66
    BobinNC66 Posts: 192 Member
    Was definitely a motivation. I've lost 45 lbs, and it has definitely made bedroom time with my husband more fun again.

    Very encouraging since that is my motivation!
  • NormalSaneFLGuy
    NormalSaneFLGuy Posts: 1,344 Member
    so I can ^%@ every hot piece of @%$ that I see.
  • BobinNC66
    BobinNC66 Posts: 192 Member
    To be a bit more adventurous in the bedroom, something im just not comfortable with because of my "size" :blushing:

    Right there with you!! Plus I don't want to feel like I might die afterwards!
  • apnovack
    apnovack Posts: 40
    I'd agree but i'ts no secret I want a hot body that makes my target audience drool!

    Yep that's my motivation too!
  • skinnybitchbarbie27
    skinnybitchbarbie27 Posts: 306 Member
    Concidering no one on this site knows me other than online*except one but she's been a friend for ages* My husband and I want to try a swingers club up in portland. Being married at such a young age I do not feel like I have been able to... ahem.. expierience the world and think that gonig to a sex club would be awesome. He is totally open and into it.

    :)
  • sammniamii
    sammniamii Posts: 669 Member
    LOL.... oh yes, I want to get a GF again....

    So does the hubby :laugh:

    *waits for the re-read and giggling to stop*

    :smokin:
  • BobinNC66
    BobinNC66 Posts: 192 Member
    Ok but shhh, don't tell. Fit back into my corsets and latex catsuit ;-)

    I hear ya, love corsets and I told my wife is she does this and looses what she wants to lose then I will buy her every corset we can find within 100 miles if she wants.
  • Casfarren
    Casfarren Posts: 26 Member
    To become as hot and sexy on the outside as I feel on the inside....and to end this 27yr single streak!
  • OkieinMinny
    OkieinMinny Posts: 834 Member
    If I told you, it wouldn't be a secret anymore.

    ^^ beat me to it!
  • joeysox
    joeysox Posts: 195 Member
    good point most people have other reasons they dont put down! im always being told i look 'nice' i want to be sexy instead of nice lol x
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