Secret Motivations???

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  • Posts: 4,375 Member

    +10 points for you!! :flowerforyou:

    :blushing: :blushing: :blushing:
  • Posts: 256 Member
    M secret motivation is to get as much weight off so I am lightweight when I ride motorbikes.
  • Definitely to look amazing while in reverse cowgirl...oh, and I need to be light enough, agile enough, and comfortable enough to pull off the "stand and carry" position. We nailed that second one so I think I'll add wheelbarrow to the list. :)
  • Posts: 4,375 Member
    Definitely to look amazing while in reverse cowgirl...oh, and I need to be light enough, agile enough, and comfortable enough to pull off the "stand and carry" position. We nailed that second one so I think I'll add wheelbarrow to the list. :)

    :love: :love: :love:
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    She might have been.
    But then again, it's the internet so you never really know.

    I've said it before and I'll say it again: The internet needs a sarcasm font!
  • Posts: 7 Member
    To be the friend who gets hit on! and maybe go on some dates! :tongue:
  • Posts: 1,067 Member
    It's not so secret... but, one of my less talked about motivations is that I want to find a boyfriend... and, I really feel ugly the way I am now. The main reason, though... the one I always talk about... is that I want to be healthy (which is SOOOO true).
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    Definitely to look amazing while in reverse cowgirl...oh, and I need to be light enough, agile enough, and comfortable enough to pull off the "stand and carry" position. We nailed that second one so I think I'll add wheelbarrow to the list. :)

    ^^Love it! I suggest lots of yoga to limber up. You might like;
    http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/

    For me....
    I'm freaking out a bit with the whole turning 40.. but my ex married a chick who's 30..I will look way hotter than her. way.
  • Posts: 1,067 Member
    I don't want to end up like my Dad...although he was a great Father and my best friend...he died at the age of 64 due to complications from his Diabetes. He's my secret motivation.

    My dad is my motivation, too. For the same reason. Although, he hasn't died yet... but, it seems like it's just a matter of time. He's only 57.
  • Posts: 121
    I didn't realize there was another motive.
  • Posts: 195 Member

    I'd say mission accomplished however there is nothing wrong with wanting to be Sexier.

    aww thank you :D x
  • Posts: 195 Member
    To be the friend who gets hit on! and maybe go on some dates! :tongue:

    ahh this should of been added to my reason too! i get told im lucky to have a good looking best friend (luckily my best friend is ace, was on a night out and she threatened smack the guy) ive always been the 'friend' the nice person lol xx
  • Posts: 654 Member
    I want to try out (and make) the local LFL (lingerie football league) team. The boys won't let me play on their flag football team, so I figure that would be one way to shut them up about playing like a girl. Hubby thinks I am joking everytime I mention it.
  • Posts: 192 Member
    LOL.... oh yes, I want to get a GF again....

    So does the hubby :laugh:

    *waits for the re-read and giggling to stop*

    :smokin:
    \

    hilarious
  • Posts: 192 Member

    I'm much less interested in sex when I'm heavier so no you're not the only one.
    Also, I'm so thnakful that my partner is weight concious too. Neither of us are sexy studs - too much physical damage from being heavy - BUT being smaller and more capable makes it much, much better. "It" being sex. ;)
    More confidence = more interest. So while I may never be top model sexy I can be more sexy because of my confidence and same for him. <3<3<3

    Awesome Post!
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    Sex life never really suffered no matter my size....it's dying now but that has nothing to do with weight lol that has to do with not having anyone worth while to sleep with

    Be the only in shape person on my mom's side
    Make all ex boyfriends' current flames a little uneasy/jealous (I'm still friends will all my ex's on FB)
    Way down deep, I'm shallow and don't even meet my own standards

    I think you have to be the most honest woman I have ever seen! lol
  • Posts: 192 Member

    Ummm.. I may be shallow or somthing, but I thought she was being sarcastic....

    Anyone else get that??

    Yeah that was my first thought that too, that she was just being sarcastic.
  • Posts: 192 Member

    ^^Love it! I suggest lots of yoga to limber up. You might like;
    http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/

    For me....
    I'm freaking out a bit with the whole turning 40.. but my ex married a chick who's 30..I will look way hotter than her. way.

    Great post and guessing you are already wayyyy. ;)
  • Posts: 1,428 Member
    I want to look sexy in that little black dress.

    :laugh:
  • Posts: 1,428 Member

    ^^Love it! I suggest lots of yoga to limber up. You might like;
    http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/

    For me....
    I'm freaking out a bit with the whole turning 40.. but my ex married a chick who's 30..I will look way hotter than her. way.

    Very educational. :)

    40 is wonderful and you're gorgeous.
  • Posts: 192 Member
    Just a bump, great response to this thread, didn't expect that, mostly because of the "well if I told you it wouldn't be a secret anymore attitude" I knew would be prevalent, but love that some people are sharing! It was very entertaining to read these after dinner last night!
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    When I walk in the room I want woman to be envious and I want men to want to stop at nothing to have someone like me. And when I look at myself I can finally say, damn they're right, I am that awesome, cause I am:happy: :tongue: :)
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    To look fabulous in clothes especially lingerie. To feel comfortable with my nakedness during sexy times! To look young and fresh for my 20 year high school reunion!
  • for everyone to mire me
  • Posts: 766 Member

    She might have been.
    But then again, it's the internet so you never really know.

    may be we should invent a sarcasm font
    i.e. bold, italic, underline and sarcasm!

    ( of course this would only work where html tags worked so wouldn't help here but i think it would improve the internet! )

    sorry off topic.
    I want to be the girl in pole dance class that people look at and are inspired by
    i want to be the 'hot, toned' friend not the big one or the one with 'the nice personality' ( thought i also dont want to be the bi@tch or not all the time :wink: ! :wink: )
    i want to FEEL sexy when i see myself in the mirror! :flowerforyou:
  • Posts: 1,034 Member
    To look fabulous in clothes especially lingerie. To feel comfortable with my nakedness during sexy times! To look young and fresh for my 20 year high school reunion!

    I'm sure you are there already.
  • Posts: 192 Member
    To look fabulous in clothes especially lingerie. To feel comfortable with my nakedness during sexy times! To look young and fresh for my 20 year high school reunion!

    Yeah I agree and think you are already there. Amazing loss over the past 18 months!!! Congratulations!
  • Posts: 152 Member
    I wanna be able to feel sexy with my shirt off!! Go to a party and take my shirt off and everyone want to touch my abs lol.


    no im just kidding, I just want to feel better about myself if I ever were to bring a girl home I don't want the night to end when I get naked. lol
  • Posts: 148 Member
    My secret "out" life goals

    Out run a speed zombie.
    Out wrestle a bear.
    Out swim a shark.
    Out fvck your ex.
    Out live the rest.

    I love this!!! :drinker:
  • Posts: 192 Member
    Have to say another one, I would love to walk on a beach with my shirt off and not feel self conscious. Now I am desperately Irish so there is no getting a tan with this blood so people will just have to deal with the whiteness, but I won't make them deal with fat. :laugh:
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