Guys, what weight do you like?

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  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    i think that women should stop replying to this question as it is clearly for guysssss. Men should actually answer the question with something REAL. Reality is way more harsh than the b/s replies that you are getting :)
    actually I think you are incorrect.

    There is no "one size fit's all"
    What a majority of men want from a woman is not whatever "harsh reality" I am just guessing.

    It's the ideal you have put on yourself.
  • Feisty_Red
    Feisty_Red Posts: 982 Member
    I was gonna go with the weight that has a pulse..did someone already say that? :drinker: :drinker:
  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
    In to find out the one answer that says what every single guy likes.
  • Amanda21202
    Amanda21202 Posts: 210 Member
    My man said he likes curves, he doesn't want me to be skinny. He likes something to grab hold of :bigsmile:
  • gungho66
    gungho66 Posts: 284 Member
    24/7 horny , i got have you now trumps what you weigh any day. just sayin
  • willwillywilson
    willwillywilson Posts: 229
    Seriously? OK ladies so what weight do you like? I'm 237lbs and get NO looks. Ever. Men are mostly flexible about size but from my experience women want fit guys or nothing. Size 8 is fine. My guess is you're looking for Brad Pitt and are just unhappy you're not finding him.
  • Drussander
    Drussander Posts: 266 Member
    I like "healthy".
  • yourenotmine
    yourenotmine Posts: 645 Member
    42 (sadly only the nerds will guy this)

    42 is always the answer.

    Wait... only nerds know this? Aww man... *kicks rock*
  • Rayman79
    Rayman79 Posts: 2,009 Member
    I like them black girls, I like them white girls
    I like them Asian girls, I like them mix-raced girls
    I like them Spanish girls, I like them Italian girls
    I like the French girls and I like Scandinavian girls
    I like them tall girls, I like them short girls
    I like them brown haired girls, I like them blonde haired girls
    I like them big girls, I like them skinny girls
    I like them carrying a little-bitty weight girls

    I like all teh girlz!

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  • soleilxo
    soleilxo Posts: 202
    I never said there was an 'ideal'. There definitely is not. I am just saying that men (and women too!) are more selective than what can be drawn from the posts.

    i think that women should stop replying to this question as it is clearly for guysssss. Men should actually answer the question with something REAL. Reality is way more harsh than the b/s replies that you are getting :)
    actually I think you are incorrect.

    There is no "one size fit's all"
    What a majority of men want from a woman is not whatever "harsh reality" I am just guessing.

    It's the ideal you have put on yourself.
  • Irish_Chica
    Irish_Chica Posts: 295
    1. Men like women of all shapes and sizes.
    2. What your sister said is downright insulting and not ok. She needs to know that.
    This!! Set a goal that you will be happy with! Not what you think men or anyone else wants you to look like. By trying to look the way you think men want you to look it will just make you frustrated. Because as your body changes you will become more attactive to some men but at the same time less attractive to others. Just do you and be happy with yourself. :smile:

    Great advice! You taken?????
  • Tricep_A_Tops
    Tricep_A_Tops Posts: 319
    1. Men like women of all shapes and sizes.
    2. What your sister said is downright insulting and not ok. She needs to know that.
    This!! Set a goal that you will be happy with! Not what you think men or anyone else wants you to look like. By trying to look the way you think men want you to look it will just make you frustrated. Because as your body changes you will become more attactive to some men but at the same time less attractive to others. Just do you and be happy with yourself. :smile:
    rd

    Great advice! You taken?????
    Yes i am!! :wink: :love:
  • Irish_Chica
    Irish_Chica Posts: 295
    1. Men like women of all shapes and sizes.
    2. What your sister said is downright insulting and not ok. She needs to know that.
    This!! Set a goal that you will be happy with! Not what you think men or anyone else wants you to look like. By trying to look the way you think men want you to look it will just make you frustrated. Because as your body changes you will become more attactive to some men but at the same time less attractive to others. Just do you and be happy with yourself. :smile:
    rd

    Great advice! You taken?????


    Yes i am!! :wink: :love:


    Lucky lady????
  • micl86
    micl86 Posts: 48
    its really all about what you like as a woman, guys like a woman that is totally comfortable with her body. We on the other hand like all types of woman. Ive dated all shapes and sizes.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    I never said there was an 'ideal'. There definitely is not. I am just saying that men (and women too!) are more selective than what can be drawn from the posts.

    i think that women should stop replying to this question as it is clearly for guysssss. Men should actually answer the question with something REAL. Reality is way more harsh than the b/s replies that you are getting :)
    actually I think you are incorrect.

    There is no "one size fit's all"
    What a majority of men want from a woman is not whatever "harsh reality" I am just guessing.

    It's the ideal you have put on yourself.

    An individual man or an individual woman will be selective in what he or she is attracted to, yes. But as a group, you can't say that all 3.5 billion men on this planet are attracted to the same body type. That just isn't true. If it were true, then only women with that body type would be in relationships.
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    I think I am going to start keeping a spreadsheet with my answers to common topics so I don't have to re-type it each time.

    I have dated women of various sizes, from less than 100 lbs to over 200lbs...from 5'2" to 6'0" - brunette, blonde, red haired, short haired, long haired, A cup to D+ cup, etc. etc, etc.

    each one of them i found to be smart, funny, fun, beautiful, and downright sexy. i was willing to give anyone a chance (not now, that I am married to a wonderful woman) - why would i limit myself and miss the chance of meeting someone amazing?
  • Ivey05131980
    Ivey05131980 Posts: 1,118 Member
    I asked my man this question. He told me that it's not really about weight, but about shape, how she carries it. He agreed that really fat and really skinny are not attractive to most men. Men like womanly, shapely bodies...healthy. Marilyn Monroe is an example of what MOST men find most attractive. Hourglass, looks like she could bear children..not fat..not skinny. Women tend to think that men like women much thinner than they actually do (Some men do like the waif look, but that is not common). There are also men who LOVe really large women.

    Anyway..he said hourglass or pear shape is most desirable regardless of weight. Most unattractive being apple shaped or rectangle, as they appear unfeminine to him. So..if a woman is a good BMI...but an apple, she would still be LESS attractive than a woman who is 20 pounds overweight but hourglass. Make sense???

    This 100%!
  • FullOfWin
    FullOfWin Posts: 1,414 Member
    42 (sadly only the nerds will guy this)

    I get it, and I am not a nerd.
  • Meg_78
    Meg_78 Posts: 998 Member
    Although my sister says "Bones are for dogs." Personally, what do you men think? :blushing:

    Any woman who says something like "bones are for dogs" is in my mind going to be either a> overweight and bitter about it or b> jealous that they don't get any attention or c> got more baggage than the titanic

    Personally, athletic/fit build is hot

    Win.
  • amann1976
    amann1976 Posts: 742 Member
    yuck i dont want a woman whose chest is flatter than mine and who is all skin and bones. i prefer them "chunky fit"
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    yuck i dont want a woman whose chest is flatter than mine and who is all skin and bones. i prefer them "chunky fit"

    Is that really necessary? "Yuck"??
  • micheleld73
    micheleld73 Posts: 914 Member
    You can't please everyone all the time. When I felt fit at 122 lbs., my boyfriend said I needed to lose 5-10 lbs. When I felt "pleasantly plump" at 140 lbs. one of my guy friends said I looked desirable. My goal is to look they way I think is attractive
    and anything else can take a hike.
  • amann1976
    amann1976 Posts: 742 Member
    You can't please everyone all the time. When I felt fit at 122 lbs., my boyfriend said I needed to lose 5-10 lbs. When I felt "pleasantly plump" at 140 lbs. one of my guy friends said I looked desirable. My goal is to look they way I think is attractive
    and anything else can take a hike.

    perfect response....


    btw i think you look great in your pics
  • Rum_Runner
    Rum_Runner Posts: 617 Member
    I never understand these posts!!!! :angry:

    Guys and gals..... everyone is different. Everyone comes in different shapes and sizes and everyone's idea of "perfection" is also different. While there is a trend of certain aspects that the majority finds appealing - the answer is - "depends on the person".

    I think for both sexes - attitude goes much further than skinny/fat/short/tall/lean/muscular/etc!!
  • Priincess_Natalie
    Priincess_Natalie Posts: 367 Member
    "bones are for dogs" just irritates the life out of me. I've been rather thin/underweight most of my life and I assure you, I've never had any trouble, at all, getting male attention. I'm an athletic build now and still not having any trouble in that department. I have overweight friends who have loving men that wouldn't change them for anything. I have obese friends who have men that prefer their women at a larger size. All men are as different as our shapes and sizes.

    "bones are for dogs" is about as tasteless as someone saying "fat is for whales". It's ignorant and hateful.
  • justgowithit17
    justgowithit17 Posts: 1,392 Member
    honestly your sister is probably jealous of you! that saying is so stupid! your sister seems really insensitive, some people just have naturally small builds. they can't help it. anyways, size 8 is a great healthy size! if you're healthy and confident, you will have no problem attracting guys. and even if a guy doesn't like you because you're too small, then he's a shallow jerk.
  • sunsnstatheart
    sunsnstatheart Posts: 2,544 Member
    Perhaps you should inform your sister of the following logically flawless argument:

    All Bones are for Dogs
    All Men are Dogs
    Then . . . ? Anyone, anyone?

    :-)
  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
    Perhaps you should inform your sister of the following logically flawless argument:

    All Bones are for Dogs
    All Men are Dogs
    Then . . . ? Anyone, anyone?

    :-)

    But I hear women like the bone too....
  • kukspuks
    kukspuks Posts: 60
    Guys, thanks for your wonderful posts. But, a lot of them are mocking what my sister told me. She didn't tell me this because she's jealous of me, or she wants me to be different. She didn't. The reason why she tells me this is because she's my sister. She doesn't want me to feel depressed that guys don't like me. She's only telling me what SHE heard from older people, and her boyfriends. One of her boyfriends says he likes them thin, while the other one side I shouldn't worry at all because a size 12 is his type of thing. What she told me didn't insult me at all. I take a *lot* of advice from her. :smile:
  • keithmustloseweight
    keithmustloseweight Posts: 309 Member
    honestly your sister is probably jealous of you! that saying is so stupid!

    Yep going well so far
    your sister seems really insensitive, some people just have naturally small builds. they can't help it. anyways, size 8 is a great healthy size! if you're healthy and confident, you will have no problem attracting guys.

    Yes these are reasonable points. I concur

    and even if a guy doesn't like you because you're too small, then he's a shallow jerk.

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