Need brutally honest opinions please

Can anyone tell a difference between these two pictures? None of my friends have said anything, so maybe I look just the same? I dont see much difference either.

photostream

8225857436

i dont think the pictures are working

http://www.flickr.com/photos/39028124@N06/8225880092/

http://www.flickr.com/photos/39028124@N06/8225857436/
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  • firefoxxie
    firefoxxie Posts: 381 Member
    Are you for real? o.o
    There's a big difference...
  • djames92
    djames92 Posts: 990 Member
    theres a difference its not small its just not huge because you dont have all that much to change
  • sophiemama
    sophiemama Posts: 62 Member
    I can absolutely tell a difference!
  • Rum_Runner
    Rum_Runner Posts: 617 Member
    Yes....big difference. Well done!!!! *high five*
  • charmarbobar
    charmarbobar Posts: 251 Member
    I notice a serious difference! Maybe your friends don't see it yet cause they see you often so it's harder to notice the change.

    Anyways, you look great!
  • JulieB_MN
    JulieB_MN Posts: 223 Member
    Yes I see a difference! Way to go!
  • maricash
    maricash Posts: 280 Member
    There is a major difference. Your friends may just not know what to say or if you want them to say anything. My friends don't really comment much on my weight loss, but I think it's because they know I would feel uncomfortable about it if they did.
  • Are you for real? o.o
    There's a big difference...

    Agreed! Nice job!
  • MDawg81
    MDawg81 Posts: 244 Member
    Even if no one has mentioned seeing a change, they HAVE to see it. If they don't see it, they are blind. Good job.
  • Dense113
    Dense113 Posts: 14 Member
    Holy, huge difference! Like someone said before you weren't very large before, but now your firmer, much more toned, definitely smaller in the waist, arms, thighs...pretty much all around. Way to go! You must be so proud!!! :)
  • ShiraDarling
    ShiraDarling Posts: 232 Member
    Are you kidding me? There is a HUGE difference! Can you not see it for yourself? You look like you have lost about 25-30lbs. If your friends haven't said anything or noticed, maybe it's time to find some new friends who are supportive- or at the very least friends who pay attention to what goes on around them.
  • Toninz
    Toninz Posts: 29
    I see a big change and I think you look fabulous now, congrats!
  • kaypat09
    kaypat09 Posts: 130 Member
    I definitely see the difference. I've lost a significant amount and some days I feel the same... It's hard to look at yourself every day and notice, because you see the changes take place so slowly!
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    Can anyone tell a difference between these two pictures? None of my friends have said anything, so maybe I look just the same? I dont see much difference either.

    photostream

    8225857436

    i dont think the pictures are working

    http://www.flickr.com/photos/39028124@N06/8225880092/

    http://www.flickr.com/photos/39028124@N06/8225857436/

    Absolutely. You look great. Good job.
  • Seriously? are your friends blind? either that or they're jealous and don't want to congratulate you, in which I'd be happy to do so. You look amazing and your had work def pays off.
  • Jonna13
    Jonna13 Posts: 288 Member
    Anyone who doesn't see a BIG difference is crazy! Like pp said, if your around them all the time they might not notice a change because they see you often and change is gradual. Either way, you look great!
  • firelle
    firelle Posts: 118 Member
    holy beep haha. Yeah sometimes people look at you and go ".... idk, did you change your hair?" It's because it wasn't something rapid and you know what? That's healthier =)
  • mamasmaltz3
    mamasmaltz3 Posts: 1,111 Member
    Wow! You look great. I can't believe nobody has said anything. Don't let it get you down.
  • bump
  • lauryn0392
    lauryn0392 Posts: 22 Member
    Wow thank you all of you for the lovely comments :) I know i shouldn't pay attention if other people don't notice, its just a bit disheartening when you loose 47lbs and go from obese to healthy and no one says a word. I know I still have quite a bit further to go but your comments mean a lot that all this work isn't just for nothing :)
  • mareeee1234
    mareeee1234 Posts: 674 Member
    OHH MY GOSH!
    AMAZING HUGE DIFFERENCE

    ...HOOWW HASN'T ANYONE SAID ANYTHING?!?!?!!? I don't understand!

    Well done - you should be extremelyyyyyy proud of yourself - honestly! You're an absolute babbbbeee!!!!!!:happy:

    The only reasons I can think for them not saying anything would be...
    a. they don't want to offend you or embarass you
    b. they are kinda jealous?

    Gah you look amazing!
  • You look great! =)
  • Skmellyg
    Skmellyg Posts: 158 Member
    you look amazing! And yes you can def. tell a difference!
  • Shannon2714
    Shannon2714 Posts: 843 Member
    Definitely! Great job!
  • nz_deevaa
    nz_deevaa Posts: 12,209 Member
    8225880092_a14de1b1ee_z.jpg

    8225857436_682b234130_z.jpg

    There you go.
  • Major difference; with or w/o my glasses on!!! GREAT JOB!!!
  • maggiewithfins
    maggiewithfins Posts: 75 Member
    Well done!
    Maybe people aren't saying anything because they think that it might be rude to comment on your weight. Also if it has been happening slowly, they might not notice it because they see you so often.
    Write down all the cool things that people have said here when they've seen your photos and put it somewhere that you look regularly. Because you've obviously worked hard and done really well, and should be proud!
  • alidathealien
    alidathealien Posts: 1 Member
    I see a huge difference! Your arms and legs are slimmer, your chest is smaller, and your whole middle seems to have firmed up, as someone above me said.
  • tetecia
    tetecia Posts: 75 Member
    There's a seriously obvious difference between those two pictures. i wonder why your friends say nothing.
  • AnnThereseRN
    AnnThereseRN Posts: 44 Member
    I agree. Maybe there is some jealousy or they do not want to embarrass you. You look so healthy and should be proud of yourself!