Have YOU ever been Stalked one MFP or else where?

lorijh72
lorijh72 Posts: 118 Member
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Have YOU ever been stalked on MFP....other social networks or in person!

This happened to me:

I believe this happened to me...the conversation was respectful but quite weird at times...as soon as any status change or if I made a comment on his status emails several...then it went from will you email again soon...I said if I have time after work I will but I'm not sure...then once I emailed...he would say to me....you promised you would email, I waited up for you, where was you... I woke up several time looking to see if you emailed...ok weird...then it was do you have any other progress pics what are you crazy...I did it one time then I thought this is crazy when he told me he looks at my profile many times a day...freakin me out a bit! My profile states Im a married woman with 2 kids and I have photos of hubby and I together...he said I thought you had a BF...I made this very clear that I have a husband...at first before the weirdness started I thought he was lonely and needed a friend to talk to but the the emails was strange...I really was considering deleting him he was acting very different then any of my friends on here but I thought well maybe I'm just over reacting and it's really nothing...so I talked to one of my most amazing long time male MFP friends...he said drop his azz and block him....I'm so glad I took the advice and dropped and blocked!!!

Tell me what you would do or if this ever happened to you!
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  • 2muchsauce
    2muchsauce Posts: 1,078
    Not yet...............not sure what I'm doing wrong either !!
  • farfoorah
    farfoorah Posts: 168
    I always get rid of stalkers by becoming their stalker...it's worked 100% of the time.
  • lorijh72
    lorijh72 Posts: 118 Member
    I always get rid of stalkers by becoming their stalker...it's worked 100% of the time.
    thats awesome lol!!!
  • SmartWhatever
    SmartWhatever Posts: 718 Member
    I'm currently accepting applications for stalkers.
    Must be motivated, committed and hard working.
    100 % bat *kitten* crazy a plus.
    Slacker stalkers need not apply.
  • carryingon
    carryingon Posts: 609 Member
    remove friend/ block user
    If someone tries to add you ask your friends for recommendations.
    When the person creates a new account block again. They may use a different name, but sometimes use the same pictures.:noway:
    It took me a while to get used to that aspect of being on here. I worry for the young girls on this site who may not know the difference between flattery and manipulation. :frown:
    All that being said I :heart: MFP and my MFP friends:flowerforyou:
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    Ah. Me. Someone mailed me a very... lovely...package to my home address. My fault.... I told him my last name and he quickly friended me up on every social network I existed on. I was pretty naive thinking that my info was fairly hidden. He's been blocked everywhere and told to take a flying leap.
  • LittleMiss_WillLoseIt
    LittleMiss_WillLoseIt Posts: 1,373 Member
    I'm currently accepting applications for stalkers.
    Must be motivated, committed and hard working.
    100 % bat *kitten* crazy a plus.
    Slacker stalkers need not apply.

    :heart: this!!
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    Many times its quite annoying .
  • Moosycakes
    Moosycakes Posts: 258 Member
    Stalked around a mall. Was offered marriage and tampered-with-looking chocolate. Accepted neither.

    Ran away, didn't give out details. It was freaky.
  • JenniTheVeggie
    JenniTheVeggie Posts: 2,474 Member
    Why didn't you just delete him once it became uncomfortable?
  • Kathy_TheVampireSlayer
    Kathy_TheVampireSlayer Posts: 189 Member
    i am not cool enough to be stalked :cry:
  • DaphneAtx
    DaphneAtx Posts: 153
    On here - the first time I posted on the boards I got 17 emails that day from the same guy. He kept telling me to email him and why didn't I have more pictures and then they got rude because I was apparently ignoring him and he was getting pissed off. I blocked him and he wrote me from another ID, so I blocked him there too.

    In real life - too long and upsetting to type.. He actually ended up stabbing my boyfriend and I came close to being hurt as well. The stalker is currently in prison. I don't wish that experience upon anyone at all.
  • Zylahe
    Zylahe Posts: 772 Member
    I always get rid of stalkers by becoming their stalker...it's worked 100% of the time.


    Hmm i married mine. Does that count?
  • Dub_D
    Dub_D Posts: 1,760 Member
    I was stalked by a boy in my high school. He used to look in my windows.
  • jay586
    jay586 Posts: 133
    nope still waitingthough lol
  • jay586
    jay586 Posts: 133
    I was stalked by a boy in my high school. He used to look in my windows.
    i understand why he did lol
  • IronDame
    IronDame Posts: 275
    I was stalked by a boy in my high school. He used to look in my windows.

    What about peen boy?
  • lorijh72
    lorijh72 Posts: 118 Member
    Why didn't you just delete him once it became uncomfortable?
    I thought at first he was lonely...he was appropriate...I felt at first he meant no harm... I then thought mmmm maybe it's just me over reacting...he was only my friend for under a week...no weeks or months...friended on Last Sunday by Thursday I felt uncomfortable and I finally deleted and blocked
  • elprincipito
    elprincipito Posts: 1,200 Member
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  • Dub_D
    Dub_D Posts: 1,760 Member
    I was stalked by a boy in my high school. He used to look in my windows.

    What about peen boy?

    That is still to be determined lol
  • lorijh72
    lorijh72 Posts: 118 Member
    On here - the first time I posted on the boards I got 17 emails that day from the same guy. He kept telling me to email him and why didn't I have more pictures and then they got rude because I was apparently ignoring him and he was getting pissed off. I blocked him and he wrote me from another ID, so I blocked him there too.

    In real life - too long and upsetting to type.. He actually ended up stabbing my boyfriend and I came close to being hurt as well. The stalker is currently in prison. I don't wish that experience upon anyone at all.
    OMGoodness that is horrible!!! So glad he's serving time!
  • lorijh72
    lorijh72 Posts: 118 Member
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    LMAO lol!!!
  • xnikkixsikkix
    xnikkixsikkix Posts: 64
    Several times when I was younger. One followed me for years, and managed to get every new screen name and email I had, leading me to believe it was someone I actually knew. It got to a point where I filed a complaint with my local police department, though nothing ever came of it. Eventually I learned to make myself was less accessible, and the problems subsided gradually.
  • chocl8girl
    chocl8girl Posts: 1,968 Member
    Never. And not for lack of trying to get a stalker, too. No one wants to stalk me. *kicks rocks*
  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,421 Member
    Thank goodness I have a really generic name IRL. Weird stalking *kitten* happens to me all. the. time.


    I refuse to believe it's me.
  • bridgelene
    bridgelene Posts: 358 Member
    Bwahahaha. I love you! (Oh ****. I hope that didn't come off as creeper or stalker-like :-p)
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  • ihateroses
    ihateroses Posts: 893 Member
    I had a prettttty serious stalker back in college when I worked as a hostess at a restaurant.

    He would come every night I worked (like he memorized my schedule) and would buy one drink at the bar, slowly sip it, and talk to me. First couple times I was nice and chatted with him (it would be obvious to any normal person that I am just being casually nice because I work there and its my job). After that I always became "busy" with something when he came in.

    Then one time I was walking to my car and I saw him sitting in his car in the parking lot....I went right back into the restaurant and had one of the guys escort me.

    He drove off and I never saw him again. Had to get escorted to my car for a while after that though, freaked me right the eff out.

    On the innnannets: I'm not worried, just block whoever comes off creepy right away. You don't need to give anyone a "chance" its not real life.
  • obsidianwings
    obsidianwings Posts: 1,237 Member
    Never happened. But if it was I would block straight away, can't be assed with that kind of stuff.
  • Bill_from_Philly
    Bill_from_Philly Posts: 83
    Nah fat guys like me rarely get stalked lol..hoping to lose enough weight to get a few stalkers tho!
  • WinnerVictorious
    WinnerVictorious Posts: 4,733 Member
    Never. And not for lack of trying to get a stalker, too. No one wants to stalk me. *kicks rocks*

    you have to know where to look.

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