Lost 56 lbs and no one noticed!!!

Hey, don't be discouraged!

I had a similar experience about 10 years ago. Over a period of about 6 months, I lost 50 lbs, and very proud of myself.
My husband (at the time), who was away alot over those 6 months, never commented on my weight loss or how much
better I looked. It wasn't until a mutual friend of ours commented on how wonderful I looked and what was my secret, that
he even noticed. Needless to say, the relationship didn't last....for other reasons as well, of course.

Now I'm married to a great guy who is very supportive and encourages me when I'm trying to lose a few pounds & get
into shape. At the same time, he tells me he loves me just the way I am! We both strive to look good for one another and
we want to live a long & healthy life, so that we can spend as much time together as possible.

So, chin up...if your family doesn't notice the wonderful change you've made in your life..that's their problem!
Be proud of yourself, walk with your head held high, and be happy with your accomplishment.

Congratulations,

Sandy

Fifteen years ago I was 170 pounds I had lost the same amount you have. The one person that I wanted to complement me was my husband. It never happened. In the fifteen years since then I managed to gain 100 pounds. I was so miserable that the one person I needed the most seemed not to notice or care. Little did I understand that this man loved me for me. Not my body. I wish I would have known that back then. We have been married 30 years this year. Our 2 sons are grown and living their own lives, my biggest fan and supporter is my husband, the one that loves me for me. Keep up the good work. You are doing this for you, and NO ONE ELSE!

That sucks! Do they know you are trying to lose weight? Are you wearing clothes that fit you or clothes that are still too big? I think there could be so many reasons and I do understand how you feel.

My sister-in-law has lost a bunch of weight this last year or so and looks fantastic. She really does, and she has worked SO hard. She deserves all the compliments and then some. But it bugs me because my MIL will talk about it all the time and never say a word about my weight loss. I haven't lost a ton of weight but I've lost about 17 inches from my body - 6 inches just from my waist. And I don't see her everyday or even every week so it should be noticeable. It is hard but you are doing great and we are very proud of you!

if it helps any, I saw someone today who I had seen in a few years and she didnt say one word about it. I went up to her, said hello , so and so, and she just looked at me, then looked at my name tag, ( she came into the store I work at) and said, "ohhh yeah, thats right, you work here" . then she went on to tell me what she was looking for. She said not one thing, not, ohh you have lost weight , nothing. and yes, I have lost almost 160 pounds since she last saw me.
She on the other hand had put some weight on, so maybe she was just uncomfortable with it??
Maybe your family is uncomfortable with your weight loss, and doesnt know what to say to you? somepeople are like that.

whatever the reasoning, just know that what you have done is wonderful, and you should be so proud of yourself!! dont let them bring you down, just look in the mirror and know how great your doing!

With your transformation, are you sure she realized who you were???

I say...to hell with the people who don't notice! You are doing great...and 56 lbs is nothing to sneeze at. Keep up the great work!

You are doing great! 56lbs is a big accomplishment. I hope that the next time you see them they notice and make nice compliments. I do kind of agree with some of the posts that maybe they don't want to offend you. I have had that happen before to me. People would say I looked like I had lost weight when I knew that I hadn't or when I had lost some they never said anything. I'm sure you look fantastic.

I have lost 100#'s and to this day my MIL hasn't said anything to me about it. She probably won't either. My SIL has lost 40 pounds by taking shots and such from a weight loss clinic and everybody raves about how good she looks. I just know that I am a lot healthier now than I was and I don't need a shot or pill to bring it off. Mine will stay off where she might have trouble keeping hers off. It's sad.

Wow, the butterfly is emerging!!!!! Congratulations, you are an inspiration. It is the same with me....Since starting before mfp, i've lost 30lbs...not one word said...maybe it isnt noticeable enough on the body, but I know it is on the face. Stick with it, and try not to let it bother you. You should be so proud and look at the support you get here! That's why we are here, for ourselves and for the support that we garner here. My hat's off to you!
"When things go wrong as they sometimes will;
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill;
When the funds are low, and the debts are high
And you want to smile, but have to sigh;
When care is pressing you down a bit-
Rest if you must, but do not quit.
Success is failure turned inside out;
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt;
And you can never tell how close you are
It may be near when it seems so far;
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit-
It's when things go wrong that you must not quit."
~ Unknown

Congrats to you that is a huge milestone. Please do not feel alone. Thats why we are all here bc we can all use encouragement and support. Remember you are doing this for yourself!!! Dont worry about them. You know what they say about family!!! So no worries and keep up the good work. We here on this website SALUTE YOU!!!! I hope you feel better and im sorry that that happened.