needing some boyfriend advice!

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  • MikeyD1280
    MikeyD1280 Posts: 5,257
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    are you dating here because Swedish guys all look like Dolph Lundren?

    dolph-lundgren.jpg
  • hellraisedfire
    hellraisedfire Posts: 403 Member
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    im single and willing to relocate....problem solved

    I've heard that one before... :wink: :drinker:
  • wildfirediva
    wildfirediva Posts: 212
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    Decide where you want to live, move there, and THEN find a boyfriend.

    Yeah what she said^^^
  • hellraisedfire
    hellraisedfire Posts: 403 Member
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    are you dating here because Swedish guys all look like Dolph Lundren?

    >.>
    I was hoping for one that looked like alex skarsgård but...
  • JingleMuffin
    JingleMuffin Posts: 543 Member
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    im single and willing to relocate....problem solved
    there you go. & sweden is by far the best country in the world to live in. right infront of denmark.
  • gwenmf
    gwenmf Posts: 888 Member
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    Decide where you want to live, move there, and THEN find a boyfriend.

    This
  • Honey7c70
    Honey7c70 Posts: 5 Member
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    I agree with RunInTheMud....That's a smart lady!
  • MikeyD1280
    MikeyD1280 Posts: 5,257
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    Alexander+Skarsgard+True+Blood+Season+4+Premiere+sNAkK84a99Xl.jpg

    is this what your boyfriends now look like?
  • pawnstarNate
    pawnstarNate Posts: 1,728 Member
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    eh...he never liked you that much and just used you for a lil sack action. The "im not moving" is just the easy way out. But, like the other said.....Move and then get a boyfriend
  • hellraisedfire
    hellraisedfire Posts: 403 Member
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    nope. give me two weeks and he will though.

    *goes to pack bags now*
  • HiKaren
    HiKaren Posts: 1,306 Member
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    Wait until you actually move to the new country to find a boyfriend instead of trying to drag some poor guy along with you. No doubt the new guy will be much happier with his surroundings than an out-of-place guy would.
    Agreed.
  • MikeyD1280
    MikeyD1280 Posts: 5,257
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    nope. give me two weeks and he will though.

    *goes to pack bags now*

    ooo suki suki.. you live by me... NO we cannot date, I am sorry, I will not be moving to Sweden.. :laugh:
  • GinZing
    GinZing Posts: 5
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    There are only two ways that a relationship can end, You either break up or you die. If you can't talk him into commiting to going with you, you're going to have to break up. It sucks, ALWAYS. The alternative is for you both to live a life you don't really want. Once it's over, I'd take a break from dating. You're not only risking your heart, but you're setting the other person up to make a serious commitment or break their heart and that's not fair. If you're serious about moving (and it sounds like you are) wait until you've settled down where you want to be before you start getting emotionally invested in another guy, or at least wait until you're on the plane :)
  • hellraisedfire
    hellraisedfire Posts: 403 Member
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    nope. give me two weeks and he will though.

    *goes to pack bags now*

    ooo suki suki.. you live by me... NO we cannot date, I am sorry, I will not be moving to Sweden.. :laugh:

    :sad:

    you couldn't handle our alcohol content anyway!!
  • hellraisedfire
    hellraisedfire Posts: 403 Member
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    There are only two ways that a relationship can end, You either break up or you die. If you can't talk him into commiting to going with you, you're going to have to break up. It sucks, ALWAYS. The alternative is for you both to live a life you don't really want. Once it's over, I'd take a break from dating. You're not only risking your heart, but you're setting the other person up to make a serious commitment or break their heart and that's not fair. If you're serious about moving (and it sounds like you are) wait until you've settled down where you want to be before you start getting emotionally invested in another guy, or at least wait until you're on the plane :)

    you scared me with that first sentence. :tongue: I think I was just... surprised that I don't really keep this hidden from people. so I guess I get confused when people flipflop. oh well.
  • MikeyD1280
    MikeyD1280 Posts: 5,257
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    nope. give me two weeks and he will though.

    *goes to pack bags now*

    ooo suki suki.. you live by me... NO we cannot date, I am sorry, I will not be moving to Sweden.. :laugh:

    :sad:

    you couldn't handle our alcohol content anyway!!

    word.. I don't drink much..
  • hellraisedfire
    hellraisedfire Posts: 403 Member
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    word.. I don't drink much..

    good. hardware in wilkes-barre caught on fire not too long ago. :wink:
  • MikeyD1280
    MikeyD1280 Posts: 5,257
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    word.. I don't drink much..

    good. hardware in wilkes-barre caught on fire not too long ago. :wink:

    when I was single... boy did I LOVE that place... so much.. candy.... well look at that... BOOM... seems that you can let the baggage go!

    glad I can help.. now you're ready for Sweden!
  • marycmeadows
    marycmeadows Posts: 1,691 Member
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    move out of the area/country.... find someone that is already overseas!
  • hellraisedfire
    hellraisedfire Posts: 403 Member
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    haha thank you everyone :) I still feel like a jerk but at least you guys can make me laugh about it. :)

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