To all the men who think they are nice, take the Fedora test

Take a break, have some coffee and perhaps enjoy some chocolate cake as well and then return with a better mindset before attempting the "Self Righteous" attitude with me.

PS - Don't forget to log it though...

On a serious note...OP I understand where you are coming from but do realize we are all but human...we all have flaws and some of us still need to experience life before being mature enough to make rational decisions. I have seen people get married time and time again at a young age only to get divorced 10 years later as they grew as person and realize what they really want out of life.

I am 25 so having a high sex drive it is obvious I would be more focused on the visual aspect of a woman and after spending years together I would become attached and love her in a much deeper level then I wouldn't even care if her breasts were dragging behind her.

However at your age I would expect much more of you than attacking us all on site, you chose this platform and I am challenging you into a debate...not getting personal and calling you names.

As for being the "Nice" guy...what is it? Being the doormat or the fact of respecting someone?

You actually seemed to feel very attacked, you were quite angry as your previous responses made very clear, and as i said prompting me to respond as i did. You didn't sound very intelligent in those responses, again prompting me to respond as i did. And i did also feel angry, because you were missing the point, and speaking about women as being 'apes' if they don't shave their legs every single day to please you.

I am a strong debater, so apologies for shooting you down in flames, and you feeling like i needed to cool off when perhaps it was yourself feeling very personally attacked. I do not like it when people make throwaway remarks about rape and sexual harassment, i feel i need to make it very clear that none of that is ok. And while, yes, i am aware that women do this too, the statistics are heavily in favour of men being the main perpetrators of sexual violence. Heavily. But i was in no way saying ALL men do this, i was responding directly to comments people posted.

However this if off the point of the original post, so let me explain again:

I never attacked men, the topic doesn't attack men, it is a link to a blog where men who continually go on about how nice they are turn out to not be so 'nice' by their clear responses on a dating website. they are contradicting themselves. it is humorous. i'm sure there is a female equivalent but i happen to be a straight female and therefore this is the website in regards to dating men that was sent to me.

I found it amusing because i regularly see men post topics on MFP in this exact 'chitchat' section about how nice they are, but the chicks only want to be friends with them, and they seem to think it is because 'women only want to go out with dbags'. As though they should be rewarded for being nice, which in fact is not nice behaviour. they can feel sad for themselves, but perhaps, as the blog makes clear, there may be other reasons as to why women you want to sleep with don't want to sleep with you, and those reasons are clearly evident in the contradictory responses. such as maybe you aren't as 'nice' as you thought you were.

The questions are directly from the dating website.

If you have never seen the website or did not get the point of the blog, then i am sorry you were offended.