iv never had a girlfriend dont laugh

AsrarHussain
AsrarHussain Posts: 1,424 Member
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I have never had a Girlfriend LOL dont laugh i know it may seem weird but iv kind of lost the hope of finding the right one i tried numerous times even when i was young i tried and got rejected maybe 1 day LOL
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  • Bakkasan
    Bakkasan Posts: 1,027 Member
    You are 21 man, no need to rush but have faith, there are enough people to go around!
  • orangelobster
    orangelobster Posts: 151
    Rejection is part of a single man's life. Join the club. Even the best looking men get rejected all the time. Sometimes the girl is not rejecting YOU, they are rejection the situation. Don't take it personally, and don't be bitter. This just part of life.

    Go where the girls are, cast a wide net, be friendly, be interesting, learn how to make small talk, try to understand their point of view.

    dude, she is out there somewhere, wondering where on earth you are....make sure you aren't in the basement playing COD instead of meeting her.
  • FahadNaseem
    FahadNaseem Posts: 80 Member
    Same boat, dude.. lol
  • desiv2
    desiv2 Posts: 651 Member
    You would be surprised how many people are in the same boat. Including me!
  • bmqbonnie
    bmqbonnie Posts: 836 Member
    I was 19 before I ever dated, then boyfriend was 20 so don't worry. Focus on doing cool shiz and it'll happen.
  • angelams1019
    angelams1019 Posts: 1,102 Member
    Don't worry babe! Its not all its cracked up to be!! lol I was in a relationship for 8 years and I'm happier now single than I EVER was in that relationship! :)
  • IronPlayground
    IronPlayground Posts: 1,594 Member
    The ladies love punctuation!
  • Chief_Rocka
    Chief_Rocka Posts: 4,710 Member
    You would be surprised how many people are in the same boat. Including me!

    Far too many women are, IMO.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    dont be sad - you only really start getting good at dating in your late twenties when you have a better idea of what you want. then you're like no no no no no no yes wait no no no no no maybe yeah oh yeah hell no btch please omg crazy lady quit dating no more dating no no no no no ok this one for a really really long time ok no not you anymore no no wait..... YOU.
  • _DaniD_
    _DaniD_ Posts: 2,186 Member
    The ladies love punctuation!

    Really unnecessary.
  • FitBeto
    FitBeto Posts: 2,121 Member
    The ladies love punctuation!

    and asphyxiation
  • jennyrebekka
    jennyrebekka Posts: 626 Member
    I have never had a Girlfriend LOL dont laugh i know it may seem weird but iv kind of lost the hope of finding the right one i tried numerous times even when i was young i tried and got rejected maybe 1 day LOL

    how come YOU can laugh, but We can't...?
  • sweebum
    sweebum Posts: 1,060 Member
    I have found with both sexes that the number 1 thing for attraction? Confidence! Be confident in yourself and outgoing even when you don't really feel like it. People are naturally attracted to happy, confident people.:flowerforyou:
  • kirstencorren
    kirstencorren Posts: 32 Member
    dude, she is out there somewhere, wondering where on earth you are....make sure you aren't in the basement playing COD instead of meeting her.


    Exactly! While gaming is awesome, you need to be social. You'd be surprised at the people you meet. Good luck darlin!
  • emilyc85
    emilyc85 Posts: 450 Member
    I dated a guy for awhile that I had been his first girlfriend, and everything else... He was 27 when I met him. He was wonderful, but we just didn't click. But he had told me that he had given up all hope of ever finding anyone. Since we dated, he has dated other women.

    There is no reason to give up hope :) There is someone out there for you, there are several billions of people on this Earth :)

    Don't fret, you are young :) Sometimes, these things just take time!

    Good luck to you! :D
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    if you want one: send them junk shots, give them wine, bacon and massages.
  • 1ConcreteGirl
    1ConcreteGirl Posts: 3,677 Member
    If you feel the need to inform the ladies of what a "shish" is, I can't say I'm too surprised. That lands you right square in my friendzone territory.
  • fightininggirl
    fightininggirl Posts: 792 Member
    I am in the same boat as you also. the same line you would be pretty if you weren't so chubby.
  • halobender
    halobender Posts: 780 Member
    send them junk shots, give them wine, bacon and massages.
    Whoa whoa whoa ... he didn't say he was looking to get married right out of the gate.
  • BurtHuttz
    BurtHuttz Posts: 3,653 Member
    I was your age when
    nah, nevermind I don't need to be writing about that on the internet.
  • avasano
    avasano Posts: 487 Member
    Well back when people hung out in person, went over to each other's homes and talked face to face it was easier. Wait, I still do that, lucky me!
  • johnny059qn
    johnny059qn Posts: 163 Member
    The ladies love punctuation!

    Really unnecessary.

    ^^ ...and yet, you used a period. I think the point was made. lol
  • wwstewart
    wwstewart Posts: 135 Member
    I have found with both sexes that the number 1 thing for attraction? Confidence! Be confident in yourself and outgoing even when you don't really feel like it. People are naturally attracted to happy, confident people.:flowerforyou:

    This. A thousand times. When I was single, I wasn't worried about finding a girlfriend. I had plenty of confidence, and I didn't need anyone to validate my existence. It will come in time. It took me a long time to figure out that confidence was the number one thing that I needed. It paid off. A lot. And now, I'm happily engaged to someone that is way hotter than I will ever be considered. :D lolz
  • Serendipityunt
    Serendipityunt Posts: 120 Member
    My high school best friend (male) couldn't get a girlfriend for a very long time. He went through high school and college mostly single. Then on his third year of work after college (I think he was 25), he met a girl there and they started dating. They got married two years ago. I always tease him about marrying the first girl he dated, but some people are that lucky sometimes :wink:
  • vim_n_vigor
    vim_n_vigor Posts: 4,089 Member
    Talking about shishing probably doesn't help.....
  • Tdacks
    Tdacks Posts: 136 Member
    if you want one: send them junk shots, give them wine, bacon and massages.

    :noway: :drinker: :laugh: :smooched:
  • emyishardcore
    emyishardcore Posts: 352 Member
    I've been single my whole life. I haven't even had my first kiss yet:laugh: I don't think it's a big deal because I'm happy this way. Lots of people told me that it's pretty strange and uncommon but whatever.
  • erinxo13
    erinxo13 Posts: 892 Member
    It's cool. I've never had a boyfriend and I'm older than you ha.
  • theblondetrick
    theblondetrick Posts: 192 Member
    It's really not that big of a deal.I have never had a boyfriend either.I'm a virgin at 19,it is kinda weird,but,whatever.
    Just because I haven't found anyone who is right for me,doesn't mean that I never will.
    I also realized that I'd rather be single than dating *kitten* and boring guys.
  • sissiluv
    sissiluv Posts: 2,205 Member
    Never had a girl or boyfriend myself, though for some reason people seem to assume I'm taken if it ever comes up in conversation.
    Not sure I want one, or if I'll ever have one. I'm perfectly happy on my own with my friends. c:

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