Uh no... I did a bad thing :(

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  • ChaseAlder
    ChaseAlder Posts: 804 Member
    I can't salvage a day once I've ruined it. If I'm over calories at lunch time, I'm eating what I want for dinner. I just start fresh the next day. I refuse to feel guilty about it. It isn't permanent, it's not how I eat every day, and it happens. Get it all out of your system and start fresh tomorrow.
  • CakePlate
    CakePlate Posts: 27 Member
    You are going to get a lot of the same advice, but here it is. Eat 5-6 times a day: it keeps your blood sugar even and keeps you from getting too hungry. Eat enough!! I think sometimes we just are trying so hard that we go to extremes - this is a journey not a race. Don't have any forbidden foods, and forgive yourself if you go over every once in a while. 500 calories - not the end of the world. Try again tomorrow and keep trying.
  • CakePlate
    CakePlate Posts: 27 Member
    OMG, I am laughing so hard!! Thanks for this. I wasn't even looking for inspiration and I found it.
    dont ever give up!!
    for christ's sake this weekend i drank in excess, i ate brats and brownies like crazy, and i have not worked out.

    yeah i feel like crap for doing it.
    but i have no plans on giving up on my diet.

    i did good earlier in the week to make up for it.
    losing weight/ changing your lifestyle/ dieting is not easy - there will be several great days and just as many bad days. just take them in stride and remind yourself of why you want to lose weight and get your *kitten* back on track.
  • sensitivegirl
    sensitivegirl Posts: 15 Member
    The difference between reaching your goals and not reaching your goals is to KEEP TRYING! Any path towards a goal will involve obstacles. Accept them and then move on. Start fresh tomorrow. Use the many ideas listed here about doing more exercise or trying to catch up on calories a bit. As long as you are having good days for the majority of the time, you will be making progress towards your goals! Tell yourself you will be on track tomorrow, and then make it happen. Good luck!
  • It happens to everyone. I don't think you need to try and "undo" what happened...but what you need to focus on is why you did it and to have a game plan when you are in this situation again. You can't change what has happened but you can be prepared if it happens again. The numbers mean nothing. Just realizing that you are an emotional eater is a victory in itself:smile: . We all come up against challenges with everything in our life...it's important to not beat yourself up over it. Good luck!
  • bjm21866
    bjm21866 Posts: 5 Member
    Weight is gained a little bit at a time.........your "mistake" was only one little bit........it takes many little bits to equal being overweight......just realize that you either choose to be the "mistake" or you choose to be a healthy weight, making that decision each and every day.....BTW......there are far less mistakes if you offset your calories with intense exercise every day:) Good luck. The sure way to continue the mistake is to dwell on it. So.........let go and move on.
  • 500 calories is only one-seventh of a pound. I wouldn't sweat it.
  • msliu7911
    msliu7911 Posts: 638 Member
    I weigh myself.

    Go "Oh My God! No No No No No No No No No!!!!"

    Spray windex all over the leftovers, and fill my fridge with so much fruit and Veg i cant even fit a lollipop in there.

    Na, just savour the moment, and start fresh the next day.

    Its all good. :wink:



    :laugh:
  • This happened yesterday -- I binged and ended up eating close to 3,000 calories in total. Eeek way over my limit.
    Anyway, I told myself to shake it off, learned from the experience (honestly I've never experienced anything so painful or uncomfortable, it was my first binge in almost 3 months so my body didn't like it!) and wrote about it. I thought about the trigger (stress, thinking about food ALL the time, also I have an eating disorder) and what I could have done instead.

    Today I woke up, went to the gym for an awesome cardio session and now I'm ready to eat healthily today :]

    Don't restrict the next day after you binge because that can lead to another one. Make healthier choices, like today I am not going to have any dessert unless it is small and I feel up to it because my poor stomach is bloated. I'm choosing lots of fresh vegetables and fruits and good protein sources.

    Also, DON'T weigh yourself! You're going to be heavier because of bloating and water weight, so there's no point. In the long run this one binge will NOT affect you at all. If you get right back on track it will be fine :]. I always try to drink lots of water the day after a binge and definitely exercise a little more -- more walking, etc. Don't over exercise to compensate for the binge because that can lead to a cycle of binge-purge through exercise.

    Basically just keep following the routine you followed pre-binge. I was eating very healthily and exercising regularly before I binged, and that's what I'm doing. You're always going to have little slip ups along the way and it will be fine in the end. In the long term this binge will be meaningless. It's only when you binge repeatedly that it becomes a huge problem and weight is really gained.
  • I wouldn't worry about it. We all have those days, here and there, as long as they are not frequent, it's A-OK.
  • BDani
    BDani Posts: 17 Member
    lol - I did the same thing tonight. Only, if makes you feel any better, I went over my day's calorie limit (1640) by a whopping 1,828! :embarassed:

    Tomorrow's weigh-in marks 4 weeks of eating healthier and using the MFP app. I only had to lose .25 lb more to reach an 8 pound loss in 4 weeks. But... tonight's dinner ended up being 14 maui waui (pineapple) chicken wings & 2 bacon/cheese potato skins (from wild wing) and 2 jos louis vachons. Yeah... after 4 weeks I lost it. I blame it on spending the afternoon with my teenager daughter shopping for clothes. :laugh:

    Ah well, I still lost a good bit of weight in 4 weeks and tomorrow's a new week. I'll just climb back in the saddle and be really good for another 4 weeks! :happy:
  • MrsC160
    MrsC160 Posts: 85 Member
    Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense. - Emerson
  • Graelwyn75
    Graelwyn75 Posts: 4,404 Member
    lol - I did the same thing tonight. Only, if makes you feel any better, I went over my day's calorie limit (1640) by a whopping 1,828! :embarassed:

    Tomorrow's weigh-in marks 4 weeks of eating healthier and using the MFP app. I only had to lose .25 lb more to reach an 8 pound loss in 4 weeks. But... tonight's dinner ended up being 14 maui waui (pineapple) chicken wings & 2 bacon/cheese potato skins (from wild wing) and 2 jos louis vachons. Yeah... after 4 weeks I lost it. I blame it on spending the afternoon with my teenager daughter shopping for clothes. :laugh:

    Ah well, I still lost a good bit of weight in 4 weeks and tomorrow's a new week. I'll just climb back in the saddle and be really good for another 4 weeks! :happy:

    I went over by about the same yesterday. In fact, I regularly go over by 1000 or so, but it seems to all balance out in the end and I still manage to keep my weight within a reasonable range. 500 calories is nothing. Most people have days in life where they overeat, though they probably only know from the feeling in their stomach and don't count calories, thus for them, it is a simple matter of thinking 'oops, I think I ate too much, better eat a little less tomorrow to give my belly a rest'.
  • ceh5200
    ceh5200 Posts: 12 Member
    don't dwell on it!! Binge eating is a cycle unfortunately but you need to stop it before the cycle continues!! when you have the first of the food you're trying to avoid tell yourself "okay, it's not over. I'll stop now" remember that just because you had one you didn't ruin it!
  • neanderthin
    neanderthin Posts: 10,217 Member
    Yeah, you've done it.
  • Queen_JessieA
    Queen_JessieA Posts: 1,059 Member
    I take a step back, evaluate and move on. Before I would just say screw it and keep eating. Now I can get it out of my system and move on. Life happens. Learn from it! Journey on!
  • apriltrainer
    apriltrainer Posts: 732 Member
    My "indulgence" turned into a binge because I ate while I was emotional, causing me to go about 500 calories over my daily goal. Whenever I get like this I just feel like I might as well give up, and that's where it always stops for me. I don't want a bad night to turn into completely falling off the wagon. What do you do to avoid a "snowball effect" when you've gone over your calories?

    If you were driving let's say, from New York to California but got lost in Indiana...would you go all the way back to New York? No, you would stop,perhaps ask directions and then get back on the highway and continue your journey.

    Same thing. you took a detour. Get back on the highway. Ok, perhaps you won't get there exactly on time but you will get there. YOU JUST have to get back on the highway and keep going.

    Think of the weight loss journey that way.

    What's more important is you string a whole bunch of good days together. Bad Days will happen. It's life. Don't let them push you off the highway.

    Detours will happen on this journey. Heck, maybe you will take a detour again when you hit Colorado...but the thing is...find the onramp. Keep Going. Do not stop.

    You can get back. Maybe a little late to your destination but keep heading forward. You will get there. California(insert goal here) is waiting for you!
  • benflando
    benflando Posts: 193
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  • kaylinn9
    kaylinn9 Posts: 112
    Happened to me just today too. I know it feels bad, but you cannot let it hinder you. The more you let it hinder you, the more it will continue to hinder you until eventually, it's going to take over your life and you won't ever lose the weight!

    Forget about it.

    Brush it off and don't do it again! Allow yourself one cheat day (that's not letting you go overboard, 200cal over your original budget is acceptable on a cheat day) is one way to reward yourself consistently for your self-control.

    Don't let this bother you!

    Keep your head up and your self-control higher. This takes time.

    I can't tell you how many times i've let it get to me. BUt you can't let it conquer you.
  • Aarjono
    Aarjono Posts: 228 Member
    I read here on the forums once that giving up after one bad day is like smashing your smart phone with a sledgehammer because you dropped it on the ground. Can't remember who said it, but it made sense to me. :flowerforyou:

    I like this. I need to remember it.