single? valentines day?

whitneyps7
whitneyps7 Posts: 409 Member
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so im single, and its going to be valentines day soon,.....I dont know what I should do. I have been asked out...... but unless im "with" someone I wont go on a date on v-day, just how I am, also all my friends are taken or married and I would defiantly not want to be the 3rd wheel. so what could I do alone? maybe rent a movie and just hang out? any ideas? what are all my single MFP buddies doing for vday?
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  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Hit the bar, have a good steak.
  • MightyDomo
    MightyDomo Posts: 1,265 Member
    Date would be fun regardless of the day, but if you would rather be alone. Have a nice dinner, get a movie you've been meaning to see and relax.
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    It's just a normal day. Do what you would usually do.
  • whitneyps7
    whitneyps7 Posts: 409 Member
    Date would be fun regardless of the day, but if you would rather be alone. Have a nice dinner, get a movie you've been meaning to see and relax.

    the thing for me is i dont like being out on vday because of all the "love" stuff around it annoys me, i guess im not a "lovey" type of person haha and not to mention i dont like the guys who have asked me out and i would hate to be viewed as a couple when we are definatly not lol. maybe movie and wine wth my kitties? lol
  • whitneyps7
    whitneyps7 Posts: 409 Member
    Hit the bar, have a good steak.

    a heart shaped steak to myself????!!! helllllllls ya!!!:laugh:
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    the thing for me is i dont like being out on vday because of all the "love" stuff around it annoys me, i guess im not a "lovey" type of person haha and not to mention i dont like the guys who have asked me out and i would hate to be viewed as a couple when we are definatly not lol. maybe movie and wine wth my kitties? lol

    Hang at home with a friend or something, or alone with the cats. Wine is always good.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Hit the bar, have a good steak.

    a heart shaped steak to myself????!!! helllllllls ya!!!:laugh:

    Yes m'am. A fine flllet your beer of choice.
  • christabel6
    christabel6 Posts: 173 Member
    I held an antivalentines party, got a few single friends round, cooked a nice meal. (Two of them later ended up married but hey, what can you do.)
  • ajswriter
    ajswriter Posts: 117 Member
    I found a meetups.com activity to go to in my area with other single peeps--wine tasting, movie, dinner. :) Just don't let yourself sit at home feeling bummed out. Keep it moving! :)
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    You do realize that a date on valentines day is not an automatic "you must have sex" thing, right?
  • whitneyps7
    whitneyps7 Posts: 409 Member
    Hit the bar, have a good steak.

    a heart shaped steak to myself????!!! helllllllls ya!!!:laugh:

    Yes m'am. A fine flllet your beer of choice.
    i think i might make a heart shaped steak and get some beer or wine and jus kick it at home with the kitties maybe do some painting? that sounds pretty darn good to me :)
  • kimbolay7
    kimbolay7 Posts: 96 Member
    I dont mind being single tbf, ill have plenty of years worth of valentines day in the future so treat yourself on the years your single lol! I am going to watch Die hard as its out in the cinema in the UK that day and eat popcorn and lindor chocolate. Can't think of anything better really! :laugh:
  • sillygoosie
    sillygoosie Posts: 1,109 Member
    I'm going to throw my cat around and toss some confetti.
  • whitneyps7
    whitneyps7 Posts: 409 Member
    You do realize that a date on valentines day is not an automatic "you must have sex" thing, right?

    haha yes and woulndt matter cause i dont have sex sooooo that would suck for them if they were assuming that lol
  • runwmeNC
    runwmeNC Posts: 612 Member
    I found a meetups.com activity to go to in my area with other single peeps--wine tasting, movie, dinner. :) Just don't let yourself sit at home feeling bummed out. Keep it moving! :)

    That's a cool idea
  • whitneyps7
    whitneyps7 Posts: 409 Member
    I found a meetups.com activity to go to in my area with other single peeps--wine tasting, movie, dinner. :) Just don't let yourself sit at home feeling bummed out. Keep it moving! :)

    That's a cool idea

    that is a cool idea!!!!!:tongue:
  • HardRockCamaro
    HardRockCamaro Posts: 147
    It's just a normal day. Do what you would usually do.

    This.
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    You do realize that a date on valentines day is not an automatic "you must have sex" thing, right?

    haha yes and woulndt matter cause i dont have sex sooooo that would suck for them if they were assuming that lol


    Then why not just go on a date? It's just another Thursday like any other...
  • whitneyps7
    whitneyps7 Posts: 409 Member
    You do realize that a date on valentines day is not an automatic "you must have sex" thing, right?

    haha yes and woulndt matter cause i dont have sex sooooo that would suck for them if they were assuming that lol
    I meant "with" as in like a realationship like boyfriend/girlfriend "I love you" kinda thing lol :)
  • whitneyps7
    whitneyps7 Posts: 409 Member
    You do realize that a date on valentines day is not an automatic "you must have sex" thing, right?

    haha yes and woulndt matter cause i dont have sex sooooo that would suck for them if they were assuming that lol


    Then why not just go on a date? It's just another Thursday like any other...

    because I dont even like them, Im not going to accept an invitation to go on a date and have them pay for everything and feel uncomfortable sitting in a reastraunt with 150 other ppl who are all in love when i am not. its not just another day to me so if thats anyones opinions thats fine but its not mine, perhaps if i actully liked them i may consider it lol
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    You should have explained that you were asked out by someone you do not want to go out with in the first place. I probably wouldn't have even responded.
  • firstsip
    firstsip Posts: 8,399 Member
    You do realize that a date on valentines day is not an automatic "you must have sex" thing, right?

    haha yes and woulndt matter cause i dont have sex sooooo that would suck for them if they were assuming that lol


    Then why not just go on a date? It's just another Thursday like any other...

    because I dont even like them, Im not going to accept an invitation to go on a date and have them pay for everything and feel uncomfortable sitting in a reastraunt with 150 other ppl who are all in love when i am not. its not just another day to me so if thats anyones opinions thats fine but its not mine, perhaps if i actully liked them i may consider it lol

    What if he's the one and you just don't know it yet?
  • whitneyps7
    whitneyps7 Posts: 409 Member
    You should have explained that you were asked out by someone you do not want to go out with in the first place. I probably wouldn't have even responded.

    i did 5th post down
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    i think i might make a heart shaped steak and get some beer or wine and jus kick it at home with the kitties maybe do some painting? that sounds pretty darn good to me :)

    Hell, that sounds good to me too!
  • whitneyps7
    whitneyps7 Posts: 409 Member
    You do realize that a date on valentines day is not an automatic "you must have sex" thing, right?

    haha yes and woulndt matter cause i dont have sex sooooo that would suck for them if they were assuming that lol


    Then why not just go on a date? It's just another Thursday like any other...

    because I dont even like them, Im not going to accept an invitation to go on a date and have them pay for everything and feel uncomfortable sitting in a reastraunt with 150 other ppl who are all in love when i am not. its not just another day to me so if thats anyones opinions thats fine but its not mine, perhaps if i actully liked them i may consider it lol

    What if he's the one and you just don't know it yet?

    i would. ive known him almsot 3 years he knows i dont like him like that yet he asked me out on vday....the other one i know i dont like lol
  • doughnutwretch
    doughnutwretch Posts: 498 Member
    You do realize that a date on valentines day is not an automatic "you must have sex" thing, right?

    haha yes and woulndt matter cause i dont have sex sooooo that would suck for them if they were assuming that lol

    Sex is fun. A lot of fun.
  • firstsip
    firstsip Posts: 8,399 Member
    You do realize that a date on valentines day is not an automatic "you must have sex" thing, right?

    haha yes and woulndt matter cause i dont have sex sooooo that would suck for them if they were assuming that lol


    Then why not just go on a date? It's just another Thursday like any other...

    because I dont even like them, Im not going to accept an invitation to go on a date and have them pay for everything and feel uncomfortable sitting in a reastraunt with 150 other ppl who are all in love when i am not. its not just another day to me so if thats anyones opinions thats fine but its not mine, perhaps if i actully liked them i may consider it lol

    What if he's the one and you just don't know it yet?

    i would. ive known him almsot 3 years he knows i dont like him like that yet he asked me out on vday....the other one i know i dont like lol

    Haven't you ever seen Pretty in Pink? He could be your Ducky.
  • whitneyps7
    whitneyps7 Posts: 409 Member
    You do realize that a date on valentines day is not an automatic "you must have sex" thing, right?

    haha yes and woulndt matter cause i dont have sex sooooo that would suck for them if they were assuming that lol

    Sex is fun. A lot of fun.
    ya i know, i dont not have sex because i think its not fun, i dont because of other moral reasons.
  • whitneyps7
    whitneyps7 Posts: 409 Member
    You do realize that a date on valentines day is not an automatic "you must have sex" thing, right?

    haha yes and woulndt matter cause i dont have sex sooooo that would suck for them if they were assuming that lol


    Then why not just go on a date? It's just another Thursday like any other...

    because I dont even like them, Im not going to accept an invitation to go on a date and have them pay for everything and feel uncomfortable sitting in a reastraunt with 150 other ppl who are all in love when i am not. its not just another day to me so if thats anyones opinions thats fine but its not mine, perhaps if i actully liked them i may consider it lol

    What if he's the one and you just don't know it yet?

    i would. ive known him almsot 3 years he knows i dont like him like that yet he asked me out on vday....the other one i know i dont like lol

    Haven't you ever seen Pretty in Pink? He could be your Ducky.
    no ive never seen it....maybe on vday ill rent it? lol
  • doughnutwretch
    doughnutwretch Posts: 498 Member
    You do realize that a date on valentines day is not an automatic "you must have sex" thing, right?

    haha yes and woulndt matter cause i dont have sex sooooo that would suck for them if they were assuming that lol

    Sex is fun. A lot of fun.
    ya i know, i dont not have sex because i think its not fun, i dont because of other moral reasons.

    My guess is because the opportunity has never been presented to you

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