Question for the ladies...
Lisa1971
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Do your hubby or boyfriend know how much you weigh? My husband has NO idea and I refuse to tell him until I'm at my goal. haha! I weigh more than he does and I HATE it! I'd be mortified if he ever found out!
Just wondering if your SO knows your weight?
Just wondering if your SO knows your weight?
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Hahaha I'm right there with you! I refuse to tell him. Lol it's a pride thing maybe. But we both admit we've let ourselves go over the last 10 years so we're both working on it.0
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Yes, my husband knows that I weigh about 17 pounds more than him currently.
We have been together for 16 years and married for 12. Nothing to hide and I am not ashamed of anything when it comes to my husband..............We have been through far worse than he and I knowing what each other weighs.0 -
My husband knows. I would prefer that he didn't because it's embarrassing! He only weighs 10lbs more than I do and he is extremely fit and muscular! And now that I'm pregnant, he will be at all my prenatal appointments and see my weight every time they weight me! Ugh!0
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He knows. We are both getting healthy and losing weight together.0
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I weighed more than him when we first started dating, but he gained weight. I was secretly happy lol but he does know how much I weigh0
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I'm about 10 lbs heavier than my bf. And yes, he knows my weight as well. For me, the scale is just a number. It may say 142 or 144 or even 150 at my highest, but he tells me I still look sexy to him. And to me that's all that matters.0
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My boyfriend now knows :blushing:
I have lost like 20 lbs since we started dating over a year ago and I always hid it from him.
Then we moved in together and things like that just weren't hidden. He decided he needed to drop a few since I was trying to be healthier. He also saw how much clothes I gave to goodwill because before I met him I was an additional 10-12 lbs heavier than when I met him. Now 30 lbs lighter...
He didn't judge...well maybe a little in his head hehe...but now we do weigh ins together and I can share my specific victories with him and vice versa.
I don't think guys have any idea how much women weigh to begin with and/or they grossly underestimate our weights. I'm 141 now, but I think he thought I was more like 125.
Really though, I would share it with him. Maybe you guys can start working on it together! It was scary for me, but I am glad I did it!0 -
He has no idea. The concept of "girl weight" is quite foreign to him. It's quite easy to guess the weight of a man (in my opinion), but near impossible to guess that of a woman since every woman weighs it differently. Just a few months ago we had a conversation which led to me saying "back when I was 200 pounds" and he was like "what, you weighed 200 pounds?!?!?" and he got a little green in the face. I didn't have the heart to tell him that 200 was after losing quite a bit of weight already. I figured when I have hit my goal, I will tell him how far I had to come to get there, how we weighed the same and how much harder it was for me to drop than he. We weighed the same or close to it for quite a while (sometimes I would even weigh more) and that was something both he nor I would want the other to know. I'm now 25 pounds less than him, but he doesn't know that....he just knows that I'm looking good again like my old self.0
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He knows. We are both getting healthy and losing weight together.
Ditto! We have a our weekly weigh-in chart taped to the inside of the medicine cabinet - so we can hold each other accountable. Yeah I was embarrassed at first for him to see how much I weigh, but in the long run it's done us BOTH good so we can support each other!0 -
I always lied about my weight by like 5 to 10 pounds but recently I told him my exact weight and my goal weight. It was scary and I think he was kind of like wow you weigh a lot more than me but he liked the fact that I was honest with him. He weighs 160 and is 6'0 and I weighed 194 and i'm 5'8". It's embarasing to weigh more than your husband or boyfriend :blushing:
I'm glad I told him the truth though because now I can tell him how much I lost and be excited about it. Before I would lie about how much I was losing too lol I was bad0 -
Really though, I would share it with him. Maybe you guys can start working on it together! It was scary for me, but I am glad I did it!
My husband is stick thin and the most unhealthiest man on the planet when it comes to his eating habits. He's never want to give his diet an overhaul or even work out. I am on my own but that's okay! I am the one who cooks dinner and even though he eats it he always complains that it's "too healthy." haha.0 -
No my hubby nor my boyfriend know how much I weigh.:laugh:0
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I didn't tell my husband for a long time. We have been married for 4 years and he just found out what my true weight is probably about 6 - 8 months ago . I have gained about 40 pounds since we met 5 years ago which is MAJORLY depressing. He still outweighs me by about 40 pounds but he is a really big muscular guy. He has never had anything negative to say about my weight though so I love him for that - he says he still finds me attractive (although I don't know how!).0
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I tell my husband because he's my best friend. When the scale is going up, he's my biggest support and encouragement in words and actions to help me get it back down. And when it goes down, he is the one that celebrates with me.0
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My ex husband (but still my best friend) knows, and has always known. When we started dating 10 yrs ago, we were both at 145. I started gaining weight, and he still said I was sexy. It wasn't until this past year (after we got divorced) that he said that I was actually looking fat. I know he said it because he cares and knows that I needed a kick in the *kitten*. But the funny thing is, in the last 3 years, he slowly gained weight and is also at 179. We have gained the same amount of weight since we met --- and he is my gym partner now and we are both working to get healthy again.0
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Of course he does!
...and he keeps commenting how much my body is changing...
such a good man!0 -
I tell my husband because he's my best friend. When the scale is going up, he's my biggest support and encouragement in words and actions to help me get it back down. And when it goes down, he is the one that celebrates with me.
Ditto ... I give my husband the play by play! His encouragement helps keep me going. I know he'll love me no matter what weight I'm at, and him knowing keeps me honest.0 -
oh hell no...I'm 5'10 and not small at all..my bf is 5'5 and like 125 lbs...no way in hell I'd let him know how much he outweighs me...I told him when I get to my goal weight I'll tell him lol0
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Sharing your weight with your hubby or boyfriends is the hardest thing I think us girls will have to do. But if they love you, they wont care how much you weigh even if it is more than them. They will be there for you to encourage your weight lose. When I first met my Fiance back in 06 we weighed about the same which was like 170 for me which is a good weight for me being 5'11. Same for him since he is 5'10.
Then when we got pregnant with our first I weight about 200. I gained 50lbs and my baby was right there with me lol. The lowest I got down to was 215, after my first son. Then 2 yrs later when I got pregnant with our second boy, I was right around 230. Then got all the way up to 275 at 9months pregnant. Now weighing in at 229. 3 months after my son was born.
My point is, he was by my side the whole time, pregnant or not, cuz the year in a half between my pregnancies, I was 50lbs heavier than when we met, and he treated me just the same, never loved me any less just because I was bigger. I think telling you significant other is the best thing you can do, because they are or should be your closest friend, and your biggest support system.0 -
Do your hubby or boyfriend know how much you weigh? My husband has NO idea and I refuse to tell him until I'm at my goal. haha! I weigh more than he does and I HATE it! I'd be mortified if he ever found out!
Just wondering if your SO knows your weight?
omg I wud never tell my bf my real weight~ he has tried to guess and it was actually right at my goal weight so I just smiled at the fact that he has no idea and I will never tell him. When I started MFP I weighed 190, he weighed 200...hell no!
oh and did I mention he's a complete gym rat and in very good shape! yet he has never ever criticized me about my weight, he still tells me how beautiful and sexy I am. Thank goodness he likes curvy girls lol. He would never want me to be skinny nor would I - I love my lady humps0 -
I've been married to my husband almost 5 years now... he knows. That was NOTHING compared to showing my credit report when we got married! LOL! When he loved me and supported me through that I was pretty sure that he could love me through anything. My husband is 6'2 - I'm 5'2... when we met we weighed the same amount 250. When I started this journey - my first goal was to get back down to that... I reached it last week. Don't ya know that all the healthy cooking took its toll on him too... he now weighs 239! Oh well... eventually I'll weigh less than him!
Sometimes it really bothers me that I weigh more than he does... then he reminds me that I carry a lot of weight in my chest and that I have hips.... then he points out that I have more muscular legs than he does.... it's all good.
I'm good with him knowing... the fact that he knows... he sees me naked... AND he still loves me? It makes me feel pretty darn secure in my marriage!0 -
I used to tell my husband but the more I gained the more he gained. We have been married 3 1/2 years. I gained 15 pounds and he's gained 40! he has no interest in weight control or weight loss but I do so I usually update here. I seem to share my victories more with the pets since they're the ones that walk with me or watch me workout. :laugh:0
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I'm comfortable with numbers, unlike a lot of women, so yes, my boyfriend knows. He now weighs more than I do, after my 20 lb weight loss... and he's 6 inches taller. It kinda sucks but when I weigh and see a loss, I can tell him how much I weigh and he'll congratulate me... I was 150 when we first started dating and I got to 180 3 months later... so I'm 10 lbs away from where I was when we met.
I agree with all the women saying their husband or man is their biggest support. I wouldn't say my bf is my BIGGEST support but he definitely encourages me. The other day, he texted me and asked how I was. I told him I was frustrated with my weight, and he told me, "Baby, you're beautiful. Don't worry about it, it'll come off as long as you keep working hard." I instantly felt better. :bigsmile:0 -
My husband has always known generally how much I weigh, not because I ever told him. He was a paramedic for 17 years and is VERY GOOD at etimating weight. I really hate that about him! I am not a very private person, but my weight is one thing I DO NOT share with ANYONE...except my doctor.0
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he knows wha ti weigh but it dont bother me...hes more embaressed because hes over weight n he knows im losing weight so i know hes trying to lose weight secretly but wont admit it when i ask him if hes trying to lose weight! ....n i thought girls were worse with that type of thing!0
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I've been with my SO for 6 years and he knows and has always known how much I weigh. Will I get on the scale in front of him? No.0
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I've been with my SO for 6 years and he knows and has always known how much I weigh. Will I get on the scale in front of him? No.
LOL - me either. It's one thing for him to "know" - another thing for him to see... kinda like pooping... I'm pretty sure he knows that I "do" - he just doesn't need to "see" me do it! LOL!0 -
I've been with my SO for 6 years and he knows and has always known how much I weigh. Will I get on the scale in front of him? No.
LOL - me either. It's one thing for him to "know" - another thing for him to see... kinda like pooping... I'm pretty sure he knows that I "do" - he just doesn't need to "see" me do it! LOL!
That is the strangest thing I have ever heard!!! What's the big deal? My bf's usually still in bed but it's like he has a 6th sense for knowing when I'm naked...so as soon as I step on the scale, I know he's peeking. It doesn't bother me. Why should it?0 -
Do your hubby or boyfriend know how much you weigh? My husband has NO idea and I refuse to tell him until I'm at my goal. haha! I weigh more than he does and I HATE it! I'd be mortified if he ever found out!
Just wondering if your SO knows your weight?0 -
I've been married 30 yrs and my husband has NEVER known my weight! I tell him how much I've lost and he's excited for me and tells me he can tell but I just cannot tell him verbally my weight. I guess it's shame. He loves me anyway and has always loved me regardless of my weight. He has always been very thin. Was teased about his size all his life until the last 10 or 15 yrs. He has the skinny genes, I have the fat genes. We have 3 grown kids. The girls are both small....as in 108 lbs each. (we're shorties). My son is heavy. He is not tall either. He looks just like me. I really believe we have genetic tendencies that we have to fight to overcome. I have learned that I can NOT eat tons of carbs as I would like. My son has the same tendency. My daughters on the other hand, both eat alot of carbs but like their father but do not gain too much weight. One daughter is a vegetarian and eats ALOT of carbs. I truly believe that our genes do dictate what kind of diet we can eat.
But NO, my husband does not know my actual weight and won't unless I can get down to a reasonable size.0
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