and they say guys are the jerks?

guitarguyshred
guitarguyshred Posts: 482 Member
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I think its funny how women seem to get off the hook when it comes to certain situations, but if it was turned around the guy is a horrible person lol. im just saying this because ive had women lie to my face, cheat on me, have the depth of a puddle when it comes to compassion or empathy, have the maturity of a 5yr old in a relationship,or just generally use me for a couple weeks until they move on to the next dude because they are so insecure that they can't be without a guy for 2 seconds. I suppose most guys wouldn't really care about all that but i actually do, im tired of trying to have a functional long term relationship, giving it my all, only to have it fall apart do to a girls immaturities and insecurities.

With all that said I know that some women actually have the emotional ability to have a long term relationship and care about someone else other than themselves. Heres to the good women out there and ill find one...one of these days lol
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  • coliema
    coliema Posts: 7,646 Member
    Cheers! :drinker:
  • ISABELCOADY55
    ISABELCOADY55 Posts: 113 Member
    I don't think it's a case of gender, more people in general. No matter what nationality, gender, sexuality, race, religion, or hair colour, you're going to find knob heads everywhere.
  • kamiAK
    kamiAK Posts: 100 Member
    sounds like you are attracting and picking the wrong women. ..maybe stop choosing based on their looks
  • ArroganceInStep
    ArroganceInStep Posts: 6,239 Member
    QQ
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    Cheers! :drinker:

    Nice resurrection spell.

    What's your magic level?
  • strikerjb007
    strikerjb007 Posts: 443 Member
    Don't take this the wrong way, but you are 24 years old. You have a whole life ahead of you. Stop thinking long term and go with the flow. If you feel that way, chances are, you are not emotionally independent because when you are, a woman or two leaving is not a big deal. Took me years to understand this.
  • coliema
    coliema Posts: 7,646 Member
    Cheers! :drinker:

    Nice resurrection spell.

    What's your magic level?
    I was cheering for the "Heres to the good women out there" part.

    Magic level-it's high.
  • twelfty
    twelfty Posts: 576 Member
    Don't take this the wrong way, but you are 24 years old. You have a whole life ahead of you. Stop thinking long term and go with the flow. If you feel that way, chances are, you are not emotionally independent because when you are, a woman or two leaving is not a big deal. Took me years to understand this.

    i'm starting to realise this
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    Cheers! :drinker:

    Nice resurrection spell.

    What's your magic level?
    I was cheering for the "Heres to the good women out there" part.

    Magic level-it's high.

    Dang I missed that bit, I thought OP was just ranting :laugh:

    Impressive, I hope oneday to have the same mastery of Wizardy as you do.
  • mhcoss
    mhcoss Posts: 220
    dude disconnect yourself from caring.

    If a woman leaves you its HER loss, not yours.

    If a women shows any sign of flakeyness walk the phuck away.

    Stop putting them on a pedestal their chit stinks too.

    You man up and women will probably find you more interesting as well.
  • MM_1982
    MM_1982 Posts: 374
    I think its funny how women seem to get off the hook when it comes to certain situations, but if it was turned around the guy is a horrible person lol. im just saying this because ive had women lie to my face, cheat on me, have the depth of a puddle when it comes to compassion or empathy, have the maturity of a 5yr old in a relationship,or just generally use me for a couple weeks until they move on to the next dude because they are so insecure that they can't be without a guy for 2 seconds. I suppose most guys wouldn't really care about all that but i actually do, im tired of trying to have a functional long term relationship, giving it my all, only to have it fall apart do to a girls immaturities and insecurities.

    With all that said I know that some women actually have the emotional ability to have a long term relationship and care about someone else other than themselves. Heres to the good women out there and ill find one...one of these days lol

    223470580_YouMad_xlarge.jpeg
  • coliema
    coliema Posts: 7,646 Member
    Cheers! :drinker:

    Nice resurrection spell.

    What's your magic level?
    I was cheering for the "Heres to the good women out there" part.

    Magic level-it's high.

    Dang I missed that bit, I thought OP was just ranting :laugh:

    Impressive, I hope oneday to have the same mastery of Wizardy as you do.
    Enroll into Hogwarts. You can do it, I have faith in you.
  • weightedfootsteps
    weightedfootsteps Posts: 4,349 Member
    I don't think it's a case of gender, more people in general. No matter what nationality, gender, sexuality, race, religion, or hair colour, you're going to find knob heads everywhere.
    well spoken :drinker:
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
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  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    Cheers! :drinker:

    Nice resurrection spell.

    What's your magic level?
    I was cheering for the "Heres to the good women out there" part.

    Magic level-it's high.

    Dang I missed that bit, I thought OP was just ranting :laugh:

    Impressive, I hope oneday to have the same mastery of Wizardy as you do.
    Enroll into Hogwarts. You can do it, I have faith in you.

    Thanks I'm only a half-blood but I'll give it a shot.
    Just got my yew and phoenix feather wand the other day, what wand does a master wizard such as yourself use?
  • Momf3boys
    Momf3boys Posts: 1,637 Member
    I don't think it matters what their gender is. My ex husband was a cheating douche bag, my ex boyfriend was so insecure I couldn't go to the bathroom without him standing outside the door waiting for me to come out...male or female...if they have issues, they don't know how to be in a relationship. Stop searching for Miss Right...she will show up when you least expect it... :tongue:
  • twelfty
    twelfty Posts: 576 Member
    don't think that quite applies if the girl he's supposed to allow cry on his shoulder has cheated on him lol
  • Kerri_is_so_very
    Kerri_is_so_very Posts: 999 Member
    Remember the one common denominator in all of "these women" is YOU! What are YOU going to change to make the next "relationship" better? I would revisit your "selection" process first!
  • strikerjb007
    strikerjb007 Posts: 443 Member
    I personally don't agree with the whole... "the women you choose are wrong." Most women and men put up a show for a few months so it's not impossible to date a *kitten* and not realize it until it's too late.

    What you need to learn is how to spot them early. Women (and I suppose men) give you red flags. You need to read them quickly and run as soon as you see them.

    Another thing is that as Kerri pointed out, the common denominator is YOU. Chances are, it is you the one that needs to change. Take each break up as an opportunity to grow cuz at the end of the day, all you are left with is you.

    And remember, not all relationships are meant to last. And just think, there are too many women in the world to worry about a few. If you don't believe me, check any dating site.
  • tlkrallman
    tlkrallman Posts: 82
    Don't take this the wrong way, but you are 24 years old. You have a whole life ahead of you. Stop thinking long term and go with the flow. If you feel that way, chances are, you are not emotionally independent because when you are, a woman or two leaving is not a big deal. Took me years to understand this.


    Coming from a woman my age, I completely agree. As we all mature, so do our priorities, responsibilities, and the things we want out of life change. You're very young still.... enjoy every minute. Date lots... and don't settle to just be with someone.
  • coliema
    coliema Posts: 7,646 Member
    Cheers! :drinker:

    Nice resurrection spell.

    What's your magic level?
    I was cheering for the "Heres to the good women out there" part.

    Magic level-it's high.

    Dang I missed that bit, I thought OP was just ranting :laugh:

    Impressive, I hope oneday to have the same mastery of Wizardy as you do.
    Enroll into Hogwarts. You can do it, I have faith in you.

    Thanks I'm only a half-blood but I'll give it a shot.
    Just got my yew and phoenix feather wand the other day, what wand does a master wizard such as yourself use?

    Black Ash Twist Wand.
  • skinnyinnotime
    skinnyinnotime Posts: 4,078 Member
    I think you need to choose your women more carefully. Good luck!
  • ArroganceInStep
    ArroganceInStep Posts: 6,239 Member
    don't think that quite applies if the girl he's supposed to allow cry on his shoulder has cheated on him lol

    I know, I just really wanted to use that damn post already. RMOG has been stuck in my head for a while now, lol
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    A lot of people have had crappy relationships. All of your relationships will end with a breakup unless/until you find "the one."

    I wouldn't be so callous as to blame you for the selection of women. But I will say that getting angry over it is one thing, to stay angry about it and let it consume you or dictate how you feel towards women in general is another. Because getting mad will not have someone un-cheat on you, nor will it stop the next one from doing it if she wants. Ironically, all it will do is make you a more difficult person to date.
  • jayche
    jayche Posts: 1,128 Member
    I think its funny how women seem to get off the hook when it comes to certain situations, but if it was turned around the guy is a horrible person lol. im just saying this because ive had women lie to my face, cheat on me, have the depth of a puddle when it comes to compassion or empathy, have the maturity of a 5yr old in a relationship,or just generally use me for a couple weeks until they move on to the next dude because they are so insecure that they can't be without a guy for 2 seconds. I suppose most guys wouldn't really care about all that but i actually do, im tired of trying to have a functional long term relationship, giving it my all, only to have it fall apart do to a girls immaturities and insecurities.

    With all that said I know that some women actually have the emotional ability to have a long term relationship and care about someone else other than themselves. Heres to the good women out there and ill find one...one of these days lol

    223470580_YouMad_xlarge.jpeg
  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
    sounds like you are attracting and picking the wrong women. ..maybe stop choosing based on their looks

    So have an ugly and emotional wreck of a girlfriend?

    What about positives?

    :laugh:
  • Hendrix7
    Hendrix7 Posts: 1,903 Member
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  • Greenrun99
    Greenrun99 Posts: 2,065 Member
    dude who let the chick in here with the emotions/feelings!

    Just kidding

    Your young, most of the girls you maybe meeting are at bars/clubs or at parties.. as those young girls are fun, most are just looking to party and not have anything serious.. You may need to look elsewhere if this is where you are picking up girls, or go for the quiet ones that hang with their friends and not the ones grinding on the dance floor with 5 guys at once.

    As for the girls that can't be single, ya at that age most girls boyfriend jump because they are afraid of being alone.. you can't really spot them unless you know them for a long period of time.
  • soldier4242
    soldier4242 Posts: 1,368 Member
    This is an epic win. Fantastic post.

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