Would This Violate Girl Code?
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Go get yours.0
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I wasn't even aware there's a girl code. But re: the situation...I don't believe there's a one-size-fits-all rule. Instead, I'd review the facts of each situation and then make a judgement call. In this case, without additional information? I'd probably go for it.0
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There is a girl code? I thought it was every chick for herself?0
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The first rule of "girl code" is you never talk about the girl code! :$
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Would it affect your relationship with your sister? That would be the only thing I'd take into consideration.0
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talk to your sister about it. if she's cool with it, then go for it. if she's iffy about it, convince her to be cool with it. if she's downright AH HELL NAH about it, then you may have a dilemma.0
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If it bugged me that an ex was dating someone I know OF, I would say I have issues.0
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If you don't consider her a friend, you don't owe her anything. Do it.0
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How likely are you to take him to family gatherings?
Are you ok with him hittin on her in the kitchen during the next wedding your @?
If it's not a concern....then be up for the rebound.0 -
Would it affect your relationship with your sister? That would be the only thing I'd take into consideration.
bingo.0 -
The first rule of "girl code" is you never talk about the girl code! :$0
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no. Thats fair game. go get him.0
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Hypothetically:
You are talking to a guy who you really like, but are worried that it may violate "girl code." This guy used to date a girl you are acquainted with. The girl is good friends with your sister, but she is not your friend and you don't talk. However, you met the guy when THEY were dating so you don't want to step on her toes seeing as she is close to a family member. Would you call it off in the name of girl code, or just do what you want seeing as she isn't your friend?
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I'm a straight up kind of person and I would go straight up to her and ask her what she thinks. Mostly because it's your sisters friend and if there's any stuff between them as a result it will get on you. I've done this straight up approach before more than once, and the first time I got my ex out of it and that relationship was great and her friendship we worked together and had mutual friends my best friend was her new beau's sister. The second time was my current hubby. First case the girl said, well clearly he's not into me so I don't see why not, second case was a case of mutual disinterest and her actually feeling he was better suited for me since I was his most ardent cheerleader during their "trial period" while she had other guys in her rotation. She and I were right, he is very well suited for me.0 -
Girl code doesn't apply if you're not friends and you didn't home-wreck. Enjoy him!0
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Would it affect your relationship with your sister? That would be the only thing I'd take into consideration.
bingo.
^^^this and if she is okay - then go for it. besides, it seems to be his is interested in you.0 -
if this dude and this chick only recently broke up and your sister may be dealing with a grieving friend, i would evaluate things. you don't want to create a situation for your sister or have it effect your relationship with your sister.
but if its old news and/or your sister doesn't care, then go for it.0 -
Yeah, if she’s not your friend, it’s a no-brainer in my opinion… As long as your sister’s relationship with this girl isn’t collateral damage.0
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All is fair in love and war!0
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The only time girl code would apply in this situation is if he was her ex HUSBAND.
Get it. And if she goes and whines to your sister about it, tell her to put her big girl panties on and come directly to you.0 -
Even if she WERE your friend, you aren't in high school anymore!
She isn't currently seeing him, then it is all fair play.0
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