Dirty old man at the gym

Ew! I would have kicked him in the face.
I havent had anyone creep on me like that, i mean sometimes people stare but oh well so do I. The weirdest thing that ever happened to me at the gym was some guy just comes strolling into the womens locker room. He acted surprised after a second when (I guess) he realizes that hes in the wrong locker room....then just laughs and walks out. Actually thats happened twice to me at planet fitness. Maybe they need to label the rooms better. Anyway, thank goodness neither myself or any other poor woman was naked or anything.

I've been stark naked at they Y and had a women INTENTIONALLY walk into the men's dressing room "to check on her son" and refuse to leave till she found he was in back showering. This is a common scenario.
I was a single father and raised a daughter. Had I done this in the women's locker looking for my daughter, I would have ended up spending a few months or years behind bars.

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Hahaha, you wouldn't believe that stuff that happens in the female locker room.

One time at my gym, I just got out of the shower and was walking back to my locker when I saw this older lady (maybe like 55-60) with one leg propped on the bench and a handheld mirror in her hand, plucking away at her vajayjay. I was permanently scarred.
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omg...lol...wtf?

Years ago I used a company gym and there was a guy with pierced nipples who would run shirtless on the treadmill. I found it painful just to look at him. They instituted a policy requiring that you wear a shirt when you work out. His answer to that was to put on a shirt and then roll it up behind his head so it covered only his shoulders and his back, leaving his chest bare again.

I suppose I could have complained, but he never bothered me, so I decided to let it go.

Nipple piercings and sweaty shirt rubbing while working out can be really irritating, especially if they are still healing. They can take 6mo to a year or more to heal depending on the person. Perhaps not as creepy as it may seem .

Nipple piercings and sweaty shirt rubbing while working out can be really irritating, especially if they are still healing. They can take 6mo to a year or more to heal depending on the person. Perhaps not as creepy as it may seem .

Ah, I never thought of that. I just thought he was showing off!

You older guys who are actually good people and not pervy -- don't take it personally. The thing is, women don't know when you are a great guy and when you are a perv because both start out the same way, and some women get so much negative attention that they'd rather have none at all than risk it.

My guess is that guy in the gym was seeing if he could push her boundaries; if he'd succeeded, he'd have gone on to push 'em a little farther at some point.

My daughter is 27 (looks 18 and is 5 feet tall and 100 pounds, cute as anything) and men in their 50s or older have blown kisses at her, touched or attempted to touch her, and said nasty things walking by...she's pretty upfront about giving them the finger or telling them what pervs they are. Not everyone is as assertive as she is, though. The thing is, she's friendly and doesn't let this get to her, but some guys think a smile or friendly chit-chat means they can cross the line. Shyer or unassertive women would rather just not deal with it AT ALL (that was me when I was young...now that I'm in my 50s, I'm invisible and LIKE it).

And if you think the gym is bad, working in a hospital is worse. I went to nursing school in my 40s and would often trade patients so the 18-20 year olds wouldn't have to deal with the pervy old guys who'd try to grab them or make obscene comments during a bed bath. Younger guys rarely ever pull crap like that in a hospital setting.

I would have kicked the old fart the minute he touched me!

The thing is, she's friendly and doesn't let this get to her, but some guys think a smile or friendly chit-chat means they can cross the line. Shyer or unassertive women would rather just not deal with it AT ALL (that was me when I was young...now that I'm in my 50s, I'm invisible and LIKE it).

This. Sorry normal guys, this is why I never smile at guys in public. Because for every couple normal guys who will just smile back, there are always creepers who take that as me now being totally open to all sorts of gratuitous comments.

I don't mind that men will be checking me out at various points in my life. Just prefer they try to get their looks in while I'm not noticing (or at least keep it brief, not an open-mouthed stare for a lengthy amount of time, jeez), and definitely don't say anything.

I had to kick out a guy once. He would strategically position himself acroos from our inner-thigh machine and be there most the time....just starring. I swear the next step was bringing binoculars.

If you don't know that machince, here it is. You get the idea.

I had to kick out a guy once. He would strategically position himself acroos from our inner-thigh machine and be there most the time....just starring. I swear the next step was bringing binoculars.

If you don't know that machince, here it is. You get the idea.

THis machine was moved permanantly to the women's area of my gym and faces a wall with no walking space.

From the other side, , , it's pretty disheartening to see women freeze like a deer in the headlights when they accidently make eye contact with you. Get this freaky, "Oh, God. He looked at me. I need a shower." expression on their face. I'm 54 years old, extroverted, happily married & WELL AWARE that I have no chance with you, even if I wanted to. So what say we can actually make eye contact, have casual greetings or even a brief discourse without you thinking I'm a PERV? Hmmmm?

dude there is a slight difference between making eye contact and going up to some chick and tickling her feet while saying giggite giggite goo goo ....i mean come on...

^^^ This!! I still laugh every time I read giggity giggity goo goo...:laugh:

Oh my god what a strange guy! I'd definitely report him to the gym. Work out or get out!!!

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