What's your love language?

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  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    Physical
    Acts of Service
    Physical

    *raises hand* pick me pick me

    Only if you take me out too lunch first
  • oliviamariex
    oliviamariex Posts: 28
    Physical touch is first and Quality time is second.
  • laughingdani
    laughingdani Posts: 2,275 Member
    A tie for first.

    8 - Words of affirmation
    8 - Quality time

    A tie for second.

    6 - Physical touch
    6 - Acts of service

    Last place.

    2 - Receiving gifts. (no surprise there)
  • crawford4398
    crawford4398 Posts: 441 Member
    Acts of Service is 1 st

    Then Quality Time is 2 nd
  • xDawnsgrace
    xDawnsgrace Posts: 436
    7Words of Affirmation
    9Quality Time
    0Receiving Gifts
    4Acts of Service
    10Physical Touch

    LOL
  • StheK
    StheK Posts: 443 Member
    Acts of Service (9)
    Quality Time (7)
    Words of Affirmation (7)
    Physical Touch (6)
    Gifts (1)

    The politics of gifts are just too obnoxious. Not worth it. And I like physical touch with the right people, but I don't equate it with love because I think an awful lot of people just like the touch without the love. Words of affirmation are nice but they often make me uncomfortable. Quality time is wonderful but I'm also a loner... so Acts of Service it is! The way to my heart? Go out of your way to make my life easier or more enjoyable! I guess it makes sense, considering I've been a single mom for the past 20 years.
  • olDave
    olDave Posts: 557 Member
    I read that book last year. Interesting ideas for sure. :smile:
  • nolachick
    nolachick Posts: 3,278 Member
    Beer
    Pizza
    Acts of service

    sounds easy enough. lol. wait what kinds of services are we talking here? lol
  • Brianna72994
    Brianna72994 Posts: 887
    Words of affirmation and quality time
  • zrmac804
    zrmac804 Posts: 369 Member
    Interesting quiz, thanks for sharing! I'm:

    11 Quality Time
    7 Physical Touch
    6 Words of Affirmation
    6 Acts of Service
    0 Receiving Gifts


    My results for Number 1 and 2 were unexpected. But the part about gifts being meaningless to me was very accurate. Frankly, gifts often make me feel guilty about the wasted resources and obligatory false gratitude. My family usually "gifts" each other with charitable donations instead :smile:
  • michellekicks
    michellekicks Posts: 3,624 Member
    8 Words of Affirmation
    8 Quality Time
    3 Receiving Gifts
    8 Acts of Service
    3 Physical Touch

    Evidently I'm high maintenance :huh:
  • Micahroni84
    Micahroni84 Posts: 452 Member
    words of affirmation followed closely by physical touch.
  • caspergirl7
    caspergirl7 Posts: 590 Member
    Just did this quiz with the hubs a few weeks back...mine is Acts of service...his is physical touch and quality time..

    It's amusing really...cuz I'm working two jobs right now so I legit get excited to come home and see the dishes done...when I find a mess, I get sad and just go to bed. Now if I wasn't sad and heading to bed all grumpy, I'd probably be more in the mood for some quality time..

    It's a good read for any couple, IMO.

    Haha!! We are in the same boat!!! : )
  • Rhonnie
    Rhonnie Posts: 506 Member
    Has anyone else got a '12'? I see lots of 9's and a few 10/11's but no 12's. I got a 12 for quality time!

    Bout 9, 9 n a half

    Physical touch or acts of service? ;)
  • significance
    significance Posts: 436 Member
    I'm hard to please. I want all five. The test confirmed this: all 6s, apart from a 5 for receiving gifts and a 7 for acts of service.

    I hated that the test assumed that my husband doesn't do anything around the house without being asked. He easily does his share.
  • Bronx_Montgomery
    Bronx_Montgomery Posts: 2,284 Member
    I already knew before I took the test. Physical Touch.
  • significance
    significance Posts: 436 Member
    A lot of people seem to be down on people who like gifts. Bear in mind that they don't have to be expensive gifts. I get a warm fuzzy feeling every time my husband picks up a pretty pine cone or sea shell and gives it to me when we are out walking. I don't keep them and he doesn't expect me to, but I love the affection of the gesture. I still remember fondly the home-made valentine's day cake (crumbly chocolate cake with bright red icing) that he gave me in our first year together. Giving gifts to the people I love is also important to me.
  • Manda86
    Manda86 Posts: 1,859 Member
    Mine is Acts of Service, husband's is Words of Affirmation/Physical Touch.

    We just have to put extra effort in to speak each other's language. Works out okay, though.
  • GlutesthatSalute
    GlutesthatSalute Posts: 460 Member
    BUMP
  • pudadough
    pudadough Posts: 1,271 Member
    10 Words of Affirmation
    7 Quality Time
    3 Receiving Gifts
    3 Acts of Service
    7 Physical Touch


    I think that fits me pretty well.
  • Tiggerrick
    Tiggerrick Posts: 1,078 Member
    Physical touch
    Quality time

    The rest score low. I don't believe people, so words of affirmation many times feel like lies, gift giving stresses me out, and acts of service is my job, so I get paid for it. Love is free... or so they say (bullcrap).
  • liesevanlingen
    liesevanlingen Posts: 508 Member
    I've read the book before, so the quiz results didn't surprise me at all. My husband's are almost identical. We're lucky that way.

    9 Physical Touch
    8 Quality Time
    6 Words of Affirmation
    5 Acts of Service
    2 Receiving Gifts
  • EDesq
    EDesq Posts: 1,527 Member
    My Score: TOTALLY on point!

    Your Scores

    6 Words of Affirmation
    9 Quality Time
    1 Receiving Gifts
    8 Acts of Service
    6 Physical Touch
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  • MeeshyBW
    MeeshyBW Posts: 382 Member
    Very accurate:

    4 Words of Affirmation
    8 Quality Time
    8 Receiving Gifts
    1 Acts of Service
    9 Physical Touch

    I'm lucky as hubby helps out loads round the house. He's a good melon! :)
  • supertracylynn
    supertracylynn Posts: 1,338 Member
    Took the quiz again just to see.
    Discovered that the wording needs to be changed if your relationship is good because a lot of those things I don't "wish for" or "want more of" because I already get what I need/want.

    Here are my results though.
    11 Physical Touch
    10 Quality Time
    5 Acts of Service
    4 Words of Affirmation
    0 Receiving Gifts

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