Guys, if the heels make the gal taller than you?

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  • rorosaw
    rorosaw Posts: 360 Member
    Personally, I don't care if I'm taller than a guy. I love how wearing heels makes me feel. I feel sexy, more confident. Now, if the guy I was dating had an issue with his height, I wouldn't wear heels because it wouldn't make him feel good about himself. And I'm all about making sure he feels better, more confident.
  • sunkisses
    sunkisses Posts: 2,365 Member
    I've never encountered this issue. I could wear sky-highs and still be shorter.

    We represent the Lollipop Guild, yo.
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  • MrBrown72
    MrBrown72 Posts: 407 Member
    Doesn't bother me at all. It just makes it easier to show off the hotness I brought with me. :smokin:
  • ilookthetype
    ilookthetype Posts: 3,021 Member
    I'm 5'9" and have to be honest... I'm the one that hates being taller than the dude.

    I'm 5'4" and it doesn't happen often, but I had one bf who I couldn't wear heels with simply because I hated being taller.
  • ilookthetype
    ilookthetype Posts: 3,021 Member
    Double post fail :(
  • Beatrix0810
    Beatrix0810 Posts: 138
    Meh, my bf dated a girl right before me who was 6'3" (He's 6'1") and he wasn't bothered by it at all. He makes comments to me, however, like "I like your size" and "I like how small you are" (I'm 5'4"), but I get the feeling that it's less about height for him and more about the person.

    That being said, I'm a lot more shallow than he is and wouldn't date someone as tall as, or shorter than me. I tried once and it just felt wrong....

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  • solpwr
    solpwr Posts: 1,039 Member
    I think it's more important for girls. At least in my case.

    I don't care how tall a girl is in relation to my height. I'm short for a male, 5-8.

    I dated a girl 5-7 but she didn't like wearing heels with me. I didn't care.

    I actually am attracted to tall women generally speaking; but really it's not about height.
  • Justjoshin
    Justjoshin Posts: 999 Member
    Sexy factor outweighs the height problem all day long in my opinion.

    Granted, I'm 6'1" so my wife has to wear some monster heels to be taller than me
  • Swimgoddess
    Swimgoddess Posts: 711 Member
    I'm 5'8.5", hubs is somewhere between 6' & 6'1". First relationship I had were both he and I felt comfortable when I was wearing heels around him (I was young then when we met and always self-conscious before.)

    As much as I love to rock a pair of heels and feel sexy around him, for the most part this summer I'd wear some really cute minimalist sandals/flip-flops and he'd stick with either running shoes or some really thick Reefs flip flops that would put at least another 1" or so difference between us which made me want to jump his bones every time! Probably because it put me at the perfect height to admire his broad shoulders and get closer to the source of where that Hugo Boss scent was emanating from... one whiff of that and my knees are jello and I start giving "pretty-please" eyes. You know, the kind that scream I'm not listening to a word you're saying because all I'm thinking about is you taking me right now!

    Where were we? Heels, yes... sorry 'bout that.
  • _beachgirl_
    _beachgirl_ Posts: 3,865 Member
    At 5'4" and with an average 3-4 inches of heel, I have never been taller then a guy I've been with, I like tall guys, so don't see it happening!
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    Not for me. If my husband were that close in height, I just wouldn't wear heels. But thankfully, he's 6'2" and I'm 5'8"...I can wear any kind of heels.
  • firefightinflip
    firefightinflip Posts: 215
    Easier to motorboat...

    Wouldn't matter to me.

    ^^this
  • voluptas63
    voluptas63 Posts: 602 Member
    Man friend is 6'3 :) I'm only 5'7. I can wear my pornstar shoes and still be shorter!
  • MisterDubs303
    MisterDubs303 Posts: 1,216 Member
    I don't care if she's taller than me, as long as she can't beat me at arm wrestling.
  • femmerides
    femmerides Posts: 843 Member
    a good friend of mine is like 6'1" or 6'2" and she rarely wears heels. however, her boyfriend of 10 years is only 5'8" i think. they're super cute together. :-)
  • jukemaster
    jukemaster Posts: 49 Member
    My wife is around 6' 1" or 6' 2" and I'm 5' 10". I love her height without the heels, but I think she looks super hot with the heels too. I have no qualms with being shorter by a few inches or half a foot. I love it, to be honest.
  • starracer23
    starracer23 Posts: 1,011 Member
    I'm 5'8" my hubster is right at 5'11"...I wear 4in heels from time to time...he thinks I'm dead sexy and I'm rockin' it.

    I have people ask all the time "Aren't you tall enough? Why do you wear those shoes?!?"

    I so want to tell them - Cause I'm a sexy beeotch and I wear the shoes I want to wear...sorry that you feel like all you can wear are orthopedic flip flops and sandals with velcro...
  • Missevanston
    Missevanston Posts: 361 Member
    ooh ooh i've always wanted to know this one!!!!

    i tried to preempt this saituation from occurring by employing a 6' or taller rule. i'm considering having a sign (or shirt) made that says "must be 72" or taller to ride".

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: LOVE THAT! Good one!
  • futurefitgirl88
    futurefitgirl88 Posts: 284
    i'm 5'5 and my bf is 6'2.....yeah so even with heels !!!
    I would not wanna date a guy shorter than me (or shorter than 6 feet!) like my men tall!!
  • Missevanston
    Missevanston Posts: 361 Member
    I am 5 '11 and I always wear heels! I love my heels and it makes me taller than my husband. I don't he likes it much.
  • YukonJoy
    YukonJoy Posts: 1,279 Member
    i'm 5'5 and my bf is 6'2.....yeah so even with heels !!!
    I would not wanna date a guy shorter than me (or shorter than 6 feet!) like my men tall!!

    I don't date guys under 6' either. Or 6"

    BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA
  • Enforcer25
    Enforcer25 Posts: 350 Member
    Never been an issue, I'm 6'4" and my wife is 5'3", even before that I never dated a girl who was 6' or taller.
  • CountryDevil
    CountryDevil Posts: 819 Member
    Me being 6' I have not ran into an issue. But I don't think it would be an issue for me.
  • outersoul
    outersoul Posts: 711
    I'm in the minority here. I'm short, 5'7", but I have no problems dating a woman taller than me in heels or out of heels. I've dated 6ft women before. I'm just confident and height plays no role in it for me. I love a woman in heels. It's sexy.
  • AdissonMaeAmes
    AdissonMaeAmes Posts: 1 Member
    I'm 5'4 and my boyfriend is 5'11 is it okay if I wear heels? Will that make me taller than him? And what height of heel lol
  • justgowithit17
    justgowithit17 Posts: 1,392 Member
    I'm 5'4 and my boyfriend is 5'11 is it okay if I wear heels? Will that make me taller than him? And what height of heel lol

    dang! way to bump a year and a half old thread! :bigsmile:
  • highheeldiva01
    highheeldiva01 Posts: 1,206 Member
    Im 411 even n my favorite 6 inch heels im never taller than a guy lol
  • foxro
    foxro Posts: 793 Member
    Well....step to it then !!!
  • RandiLandCHANGED
    RandiLandCHANGED Posts: 630 Member
    Not for me. If my husband were that close in height, I just wouldn't wear heels. But thankfully, he's 6'2" and I'm 5'8"...I can wear any kind of heels.
    Same here, but I'm 5"5. Even when I'm 5"10ish with heels I feel awkward around him because I'm so used to being way shorter.
  • twanthe1
    twanthe1 Posts: 407
    Heel threads never die.
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