how come i see girls checking me out (psychologist welcome)

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  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
    <~~Reads, lifts, kayaks.
    <~~Is a woman.

    Just keep doing what you'e doing. you'll meet a girl.

    If you are ever in miami lol

    Eh, i'm one of those divorced mom types you don't want. I'm just saying there are women out there who are into what you're into. Just be patient.

    Yeah me too... and I'm 36... just roll me into a grave now...
  • Oh this made me giggle.
  • MercenaryNoetic26
    MercenaryNoetic26 Posts: 2,747 Member
    Apparently you're not interested just because someone is interested. That's normal.

    Agreed.
  • twanthe1
    twanthe1 Posts: 407
    It happens everyday bro - just another day.
  • MercenaryNoetic26
    MercenaryNoetic26 Posts: 2,747 Member
    maybe you want a girl thats av challenge, not the ones you can easily get.

    Agree with this too.
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    Cause you're afraid they will realize how small your ................. nm. I probably can't say it without getting a strike.








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  • sz8soon
    sz8soon Posts: 816 Member
    Massengill or Summers Eve?
  • Trueray
    Trueray Posts: 1,189 Member
    Move to Canada problem solved.
  • iulia_maddie
    iulia_maddie Posts: 2,780 Member
    Cause you're afraid they will realize how small your ................. nm. I probably can't say it without getting a strike.








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    Small hamstrings? Are you suggesting OP doesn't work legs?
  • Barbellerella
    Barbellerella Posts: 1,838 Member
    DYEL brah?
  • matt2442
    matt2442 Posts: 1,259 Member
    DYEL brah?

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  • SwimFan1981
    SwimFan1981 Posts: 1,430 Member
    DYEL brah?

    :laugh:
  • kms1320
    kms1320 Posts: 599 Member
    Have confidence, not cockiness. Be sociable and friendly. Don't use lines. You don't know a thing about the women looking at you unless you talk to them. They like what's on the outside, so you have a foot in the door, but trust me, that only gets you so far. Just be yourself. Unless "yourself" really is shallow and screams "look at me" too loudly. (Unicycling and juggling? c'mon man! Unless you want to pick up girls at a circus, that's a little overkill) Remember.. boys have swagger. Men have class. Approach every woman like they are special, because they are. Then you really can find the one that's right for you.
  • calibriintx
    calibriintx Posts: 1,741 Member
    Apparently you're not interested just because someone is interested. That's normal.

    i always meet these beautiful women, but most of them dont have no goals or hobbies in life other then shopping and going clubbing.
    its like ive stopped talking to them since all of them are the same.

    Sounds like you're looking in all the wrong places. Go here: http://www.meet-an-inmate.com/

    You're welcome.
  • wldrose75
    wldrose75 Posts: 128
    actually learning to juggle, but now im just going about 1 miles on my uni non stop. next is to play guitar and ride it. later on i will get a 36' wheel uni. then the ladies will surely respond

    You're going to find your lifemate at the circus? That's great!! :laugh:

    As for those of us that are 35+ not being your cup of tea... Your lose, dude. We're the ones with the money. :tongue:
  • Have confidence, not cockiness. Be sociable and friendly. Don't use lines. You don't know a thing about the women looking at you unless you talk to them. They like what's on the outside, so you have a foot in the door, but trust me, that only gets you so far. Just be yourself. Unless "yourself" really is shallow and screams "look at me" too loudly. (Unicycling and juggling? c'mon man! Unless you want to pick up girls at a circus, that's a little overkill) Remember.. boys have swagger. Men have class. Approach every woman like they are special, because they are. Then you really can find the one that's right for you.
    How U doin'?! :wink:
  • raychulj
    raychulj Posts: 458 Member
    Because you like men?
  • furenaef
    furenaef Posts: 157 Member
    actually learning to juggle, but now im just going about 1 miles on my uni non stop. next is to play guitar and ride it. later on i will get a 36' wheel uni. then the ladies will surely respond

    You're going to find your lifemate at the circus? That's great!! :laugh:

    As for those of us that are 35+ not being your cup of tea... Your lose, dude. We're the ones with the money. :tongue:

    rather find a lifepartner that loves me in a circus then go out with women just because they have money
  • furenaef
    furenaef Posts: 157 Member
    Apparently you're not interested just because someone is interested. That's normal.

    i always meet these beautiful women, but most of them dont have no goals or hobbies in life other then shopping and going clubbing.
    its like ive stopped talking to them since all of them are the same.

    Sounds like you're looking in all the wrong places. Go here: http://www.meet-an-inmate.com/

    You're welcome.

    LoL!
  • furenaef
    furenaef Posts: 157 Member
    Have confidence, not cockiness. Be sociable and friendly. Don't use lines. You don't know a thing about the women looking at you unless you talk to them. They like what's on the outside, so you have a foot in the door, but trust me, that only gets you so far. Just be yourself. Unless "yourself" really is shallow and screams "look at me" too loudly. (Unicycling and juggling? c'mon man! Unless you want to pick up girls at a circus, that's a little overkill) Remember.. boys have swagger. Men have class. Approach every woman like they are special, because they are. Then you really can find the one that's right for you.

    i dont know were ppl think i cant get girls from, OP wasnt about "how to pick up women" but about me not finding women worth the time other then the casual " wana head back to my apt and watch a movie"
  • kms1320
    kms1320 Posts: 599 Member
    Have confidence, not cockiness. Be sociable and friendly. Don't use lines. You don't know a thing about the women looking at you unless you talk to them. They like what's on the outside, so you have a foot in the door, but trust me, that only gets you so far. Just be yourself. Unless "yourself" really is shallow and screams "look at me" too loudly. (Unicycling and juggling? c'mon man! Unless you want to pick up girls at a circus, that's a little overkill) Remember.. boys have swagger. Men have class. Approach every woman like they are special, because they are. Then you really can find the one that's right for you.

    i dont know were ppl think i cant get girls from, OP wasnt about "how to pick up women" but about me not finding women worth the time other then the casual " wana head back to my apt and watch a movie"

    That's just it man, talk to them. get to know them. Don't go back to your apartment to watch a movie. Get through the first layer. You said in your first post that you don't even respond to them staring anymore. Why not start with smiling back and making eye contact? Leave the clothes on for 2-3 dates.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    Why? Because you are a beta.
  • Barbellerella
    Barbellerella Posts: 1,838 Member
    DYEL brah?

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  • Sharkington
    Sharkington Posts: 485
    How do you know all the women checking you out won't be interesting to you if you can't even approach one? You're not going to find anyone interesting if you can't deal with the fact that you're going to meet a few boring people along the way.

    I would offer more advise, but I'm late for my nightly shopping and clubbing ritual. <3
  • sorry op, i gotta hit da club!
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    [img]http://i827.photobucket.com/albums/zz200/Abbys_Road/Use Me/yeaaahokay.gif[/img]

    Maybe the OP is an introvert, maybe he has had negative experience approaching woman, maybe he lacks confidence but what I see is he is reaching out for support and backing him into a corner making him feel less than isn't kind.. this is something that we all experience, he was just brave enough too share..I encourage you too face you fears and take a chance at asking for a #.

    You should all feel ashamed of yourselves..
  • Ed98043
    Ed98043 Posts: 1,333 Member
    [img]http://i827.photobucket.com/albums/zz200/Abbys_Road/Use Me/yeaaahokay.gif[/img]

    Maybe the OP is an introvert, maybe he has had negative experience approaching woman, maybe he lacks confidence but what I see is he is reaching out for support and backing him into a corner making him feel less than isn't kind.. this is something that we all experience, he was just brave enough too share..I encourage you too face you fears and take a chance at asking for a #.

    You should all feel ashamed of yourselves..

    He didn't say he had trouble approaching women, he just said he's not interested enough in them because all the beautiful women he meets "don't have no goals or hobbies in life other then shopping and going clubbing". No one's picking on the poor shy guy here. He's actually kind of a jerk. It always helps to read the whole thread before jumping to conclusions.
  • Fozzi43
    Fozzi43 Posts: 2,984 Member
    Older women sometimes have more experience.
    Don't knock us oldies..we're hot.
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  • Xiaolongbao
    Xiaolongbao Posts: 854 Member
    i always meet these beautiful women, but most of them dont have no goals or hobbies in life other then shopping and going clubbing.
    its like ive stopped talking to them since all of them are the same.

    Excellent observation. They are all exactly the same. Sorry you'll just need to date the uggers ones (oh what? they've got personality and aren't interested in you), become gay (damn, so many of those gay guys are beautiful and love shopping, maybe that won't work) or settle for a life of love with your own hand.

    Looks like the hand it is.