How do you feel about your S/O watching porn?

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  • _EmmaStrong_
    _EmmaStrong_ Posts: 648 Member
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    I don't have an SO, but if I did, it would not bother me! Besides, it may give him some great ideas! :wink:
  • brevislux
    brevislux Posts: 1,093 Member
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    I'd actually prefer it if my boyfriend enjoys watching porn and pleasures himself without me. It's nothing but healthy sexual appetite.
    But I would be bothered if the porn is degrading to the participants or I know they're treated badly, and obviously if there's exploitation of animals or children we're done.

    I will never check his search history or anything of the sort. That's very disrespectful.
  • MrsBikiniBound
    MrsBikiniBound Posts: 120
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    He watches it, I watch it, we watch it together- and i feel pretty darn good about it....but I don't know if we are a "typical" couple LOL
  • Faye_Anderson
    Faye_Anderson Posts: 1,495 Member
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    we grew up around it being everywhere, and in many cases started viewing it at much younger ages due to its accessibility.


    Don't know where you grew up but that definitely wasn't the case for me!
    That being said it wouldn't bother me, if that's what he wanted to do he could get on with it, I know he doesn't though :smile:
  • petersonabt
    petersonabt Posts: 518 Member
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    I watch it, he watches it, we have spent most of our relationship apart so its bound to happen. however even when he is home, we watch it together. I feel like toys or anything thing else it helps "spice" things up.
  • cazzer69
    cazzer69 Posts: 162 Member
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    I'm one of the odd blokes that finds it borin.
    The plotlines are terrible :)

    But seriously, its a bit like watchin a cooking show. Its not as much fun as eating the food is it?
  • Crankstr
    Crankstr Posts: 3,958 Member
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    mmm
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
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    I watch it for the stories. It's really upsetting how Jorge's not admired for his hard work and intellect by his mean boss lady.

    And Johnny never seems to get an actual cash tip, even tho he always gets the pizza there on time! I only watch because I am waiting for Johnny to get his first tip.
  • brilkscharrer
    brilkscharrer Posts: 1
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    My boyfriend watches it and that's fine with me, just as long as I don't have to hear about it lol. Because I understand that I can't always be there, ya know.
  • SoViLicious
    SoViLicious Posts: 2,633 Member
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    I think it's fine.

    Why you interested?

    Hehe
  • BeachGingerOnTheRocks
    BeachGingerOnTheRocks Posts: 3,927 Member
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    I watch it for the stories. It's really upsetting how Jorge's not admired for his hard work and intellect by his mean boss lady.

    And Johnny never seems to get an actual cash tip, even tho he always gets the pizza there on time! I only watch because I am waiting for Johnny to get his first tip.

    And OMG! How does she stay so skinny? That's a lot of damn pizza.
  • Crawkins
    Crawkins Posts: 32
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    I have never been a big porn fan.
    That being said if I had a so who wanted to watch it together I would do it for him but it does not turn me on.

    I could stomach the porn made for women though. It is gentler and not so vulgar.

    There is so much I dont like in porn, like when the girl spreads her butt cheeks to reveal a big gaping black hole...that is gross
    or when she spreads her lips so far apart you can see her ovaries....not hot

    Also it seems so violent. I have never really enjoyed it and Ihate when people put it on at a party or bar. It makes me uncomfortable.

    I am 35 I dont know if that makes me old or a prude or what, porn is just not my cup of tea.

    If my so wanted to look at it by himself i wouldnt mind. I would feel a little inadequate if he were watching something I couldnt provide, like barely 18 videos (I will never be that young), or bondage videos (yeah right to that), or body functions videos (no golden showers here or pudding cups).... I would wonder if he needed something I would not be comfortable giving/doing.

    I don't think that makes you a prude. I think it makes you comfortable with yourself and being able to admit what you do and don't enjoy!

    I'm very encouraged to see so many couples who have transparency and trust in their relationships! It's so healthy to just be honest, regardless of personal feelings.
  • 257_Lag
    257_Lag Posts: 1,249 Member
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    I wise person once told me this - It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, as long as you come home for dinner!
  • SoViLicious
    SoViLicious Posts: 2,633 Member
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    Watched together is fun. But when it gets to private browsing and hiding thing... well then I think there is a problem. I don't mind at all if my hubby watches it.
  • AsellusReborn
    AsellusReborn Posts: 1,112 Member
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    As long as it's not watched to the exclusion of intimacy with me, why on earth would I care? And on the same token, as long as it's not to the exclusion of intimacy with him, why should he care? Like anything else you can obsess and over-do it, but it can also be fun, it can be a good way to destress, it can add spice or provide an outlet when one partner isn't up to intimacy that night. Being who freak over porn...I just don't get it, I guess. As long as it's in healthy moderation...who cares?
  • EmmaJean7
    EmmaJean7 Posts: 163 Member
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    My husband an I do not allow porn into our marriage. We look as marriage and sex as a Holy thing God has set apart between husband and wife and its to create oneness and intimacy between each other. We believe when Jesus said "if a man looks at a woman and even lusts after her in her heart he commits adultery.." (Obviously is works the other way around for women) it lets in sin or gives satan a foothold in our marriage that drives us apart instead of bringing us together like God intends. I knoe this will not be te popular answer but I wanted to add my 2 cents :) we are born again christians so I guess you could say its for moral reasons yea. I've seen porn and addiction to porn cause to many destroyed relationships...
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
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    I don't care. Of course I like to be included but if not... also not a big deal.

    Of course I say that today when I'm in a great confident mood. Some days when I'm feeling like shamu, I'm not as big a fan.

    The real fun is our own..
  • NobodyInParticular
    NobodyInParticular Posts: 352 Member
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    To follow that up ^^^

    Porn rocks. I watch it. All the time. It's great.
  • Swanz21
    Swanz21 Posts: 42 Member
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    Watch the movies from the 70's and 80's and dig those groovy background music tracks
  • HealthyWarrior
    HealthyWarrior Posts: 394 Member
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    Doesn't bother me at all. Honestly I watch more porn than he does lol :blushing:
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