I don't get it

SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
On my FL, there are several friends who are the most intelligent and highly educated people. Yet, when we converse on walls or in PMs, or even when they make or reply to forum posts, they really dumb down their language. What's up with that? Is it a leftover defense mechanism from when they were in school and had to play dumb to fit in with the cool crowd? Laziness?

Do you have any thoughts?
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  • matt2442
    matt2442 Posts: 1,259 Member
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  • sunsnstatheart
    sunsnstatheart Posts: 2,544 Member
    How long have you been on MFP?
  • AlongCame_Molly
    AlongCame_Molly Posts: 2,835 Member
    How long have you been on MFP?

    ^^ THIS
  • Mr_Bad_Example
    Mr_Bad_Example Posts: 2,403 Member
    itz bcuz intrnet makes u dum
  • nayla1984
    nayla1984 Posts: 17
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    . Hahaha
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    I'm the opposite. I'm stupid and uneducated, but always post in a way that will trick people into thinking I'm clever. My parents help me with the big words.
  • Ed98043
    Ed98043 Posts: 1,333 Member
    Is it mostly women playing dumb? Some do that because they think it's what men want.
  • Amazon_Who
    Amazon_Who Posts: 1,092 Member
    I find many people dumb down their language online. I blame texting and Twitter.

    Have a big word from me: Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    Probably because the internet is quick and casual, and not at the top of anyone's priorities (no one gets paid to do this).
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    How long have you been on MFP?

    I would say since August 2012
  • kimosabe1
    kimosabe1 Posts: 2,467 Member
    Shi*talking about your friends just isn't cool bro! I am very happy u aren't my friend!
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    Is it mostly women playing dumb? Some do that because they think it's what men want.

    Why the hell would they want dumb? :shrug: (Yes, I want new smileys) I like to actually interact with people on a level that doesn't annoy the p!ss out of me. I have low tolerance for dumb.
  • 1ConcreteGirl
    1ConcreteGirl Posts: 3,677 Member
    Is it mostly women playing dumb? Some do that because they think it's what men want.

    Yes.

    100 years ago.
  • chessgeekdavidb
    chessgeekdavidb Posts: 208 Member
    I find many people dumb down their language online. I blame texting and Twitter.

    Have a big word from me: Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious

    How about

    λοπαδο­τεμαχο­σελαχο­γαλεο­κρανιο­λειψανο­δριμ­υπο­τριμματο­σιλφιο­καραβο­μελιτο­κατακεχυ­μενο­κιχλ­επι­κοσσυφο­φαττο­περιστερ­αλεκτρυον­οπτο­κεφαλλιο­κιγκλο­πελειο­λαγῳο­σιραιο­βαφη­τραγανο­πτερύγων
  • besaro
    besaro Posts: 1,858 Member
    cough d!ck cough
  • ScatteredThoughts
    ScatteredThoughts Posts: 3,562 Member
    Probably because the internet is quick and casual, and not at the top of anyone's priorities (no one gets paid to do this).

    You sound like my boss. :grumble:
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    Shi*talking about your friends just isn't cool bro! I am very happy u aren't my friend!

    More for me, thanks.
  • mmddwechanged
    mmddwechanged Posts: 1,687 Member
    I'm the opposite. I'm stupid and uneducated, but always post in a way that will trick people into thinking I'm clever. My parents help me with the big words.

    Really??? Cus you had me totally fooled! I was always dumbfounded by your amazing intelligence:)
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    Shi*talking about your friends just isn't cool bro! I am very happy u aren't my friend!

    ???? When did I ever talk smack about my friends? I said they are highly intelligent and many overly educated. That's talking *kitten*? I'm including myself in this group as well. I have 4 degrees, with an overall gpa of a 3.87. Yet, when I am confronted with people dumbing down, I find myself doing the same thing. I've always been a chameleon of sorts, and adapt my language to match those with whom I am conversing. It's not something I try to do. It's something that happens. It's kind of like the principle of mirroring behavior to deescalate intense situations, or to control the mood of a conversation.
  • AllonsYtotheTardis
    AllonsYtotheTardis Posts: 16,947 Member
    Is it mostly women playing dumb? Some do that because they think it's what men want.

    Why the hell would they want dumb? :shrug: (Yes, I want new smileys) I like to actually interact with people on a level that doesn't annoy the p!ss out of me. I have low tolerance for dumb.

    Might want to avoid the cleanse threads then.
  • Ed98043
    Ed98043 Posts: 1,333 Member
    Is it mostly women playing dumb? Some do that because they think it's what men want.

    Why the hell would they want dumb? :shrug: (Yes, I want new smileys) I like to actually interact with people on a level that doesn't annoy the p!ss out of me. I have low tolerance for dumb.

    But...men only like women who flip their hair and giggle and talk about shopping and their latest mani-pedi, right? Intelligent, opinionated women are either uppity or "intimidating".
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    cough d!ck cough

    You mean duck, right?
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    Probably because the internet is quick and casual, and not at the top of anyone's priorities (no one gets paid to do this).

    You sound like my boss. :grumble:

    :tongue:
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    Is it mostly women playing dumb? Some do that because they think it's what men want.

    Why the hell would they want dumb? :shrug: (Yes, I want new smileys) I like to actually interact with people on a level that doesn't annoy the p!ss out of me. I have low tolerance for dumb.

    Might want to avoid the cleanse threads then.

    Trust me. I do. I avoid those and I avoid the ones with the <1200s and the fads, and the Dr. Oz posts.
  • sunsnstatheart
    sunsnstatheart Posts: 2,544 Member
    How long have you been on MFP?

    I would say since August 2012

    Meh, then it should be obvious that people dumb their conversations down for entertainment, and to communicate more effectively with the masses. Wow, I never thought I'd use the term "masses!" MFP is negatively affecting my world view . . .
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    Is it mostly women playing dumb? Some do that because they think it's what men want.

    I missed that day in charm school apparently.
  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,420 Member
    Is it mostly women playing dumb? Some do that because they think it's what men want.

    Why the hell would they want dumb? :shrug: (Yes, I want new smileys) I like to actually interact with people on a level that doesn't annoy the p!ss out of me. I have low tolerance for dumb.

    But...men only like women who flip their hair and giggle and talk about shopping and their latest mani-pedi, right? Intelligent, opinionated women are either uppity or "intimidating".

    Yes. They are also intimidated easily.

    Whatever floats your kayak.
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    Is it mostly women playing dumb? Some do that because they think it's what men want.

    Why the hell would they want dumb? :shrug: (Yes, I want new smileys) I like to actually interact with people on a level that doesn't annoy the p!ss out of me. I have low tolerance for dumb.

    But...men only like women who flip their hair and giggle and talk about shopping and their latest mani-pedi, right? Intelligent, opinionated women are either uppity or "intimidating".

    I don't know. Not in my book. Those are the annoying ones. I "snapped" at a very dear person to me for acting that way today. I find it intolerable when women act that way. Don't misunderstand me; I think it is ok to talk about those things if they are important to the person. Just don't squelch the important things.
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    How long have you been on MFP?

    I would say since August 2012

    Good guess.
  • chessgeekdavidb
    chessgeekdavidb Posts: 208 Member
    Is it mostly women playing dumb? Some do that because they think it's what men want.

    Why the hell would they want dumb? :shrug: (Yes, I want new smileys) I like to actually interact with people on a level that doesn't annoy the p!ss out of me. I have low tolerance for dumb.

    But...men only like women who flip their hair and giggle and talk about shopping and their latest mani-pedi, right? Intelligent, opinionated women are either uppity or "intimidating".

    Only the dumb men :wink: