unknowledgeable when it comes to dieting

Hi all! The one thing that always stops me from continuing to try and lose weight is dieting. I have no idea what I'm looking for when I shop and I wind up buying a ton of lean cuisines that leave me hungry. This in turn makes me give in and eat more which then leads to eating bad foods. Any tips? Also, I don't know anything about protein supplements. It seems like these are more for people who are already fit and looking to bulk up. Am I correct in this assumption or should I, as an overweight woman, be looking into protein as well. Thanks in advance!
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  • melaniecheeks
    melaniecheeks Posts: 6,349 Member
    Ready meals like Lean Cuisine will be much less filling than real food cooked by yourself - do you cook at all?

    You don't need protein powders or supplements.

    Could you set your diary to public so that we can offer more helpful advice based on what you're eating?
  • kikicooks
    kikicooks Posts: 1,079 Member
    Try to stay away from those processed lean cuisines, they aren't very healthy or filling. I do occasionally eat them when I'm in a hurry but do your best to make your own meals. You don't need protein supplements but if you are strength training and require more protein its a quick way to get them in. When you cook up meals, make extra for lunch leftovers. A crockpot sure can be an easy way to do that. Cook up chicken, soups, chilis, whatever you like. Just do your best to eat balanced meals. Eating foods high in protein, fiber & healthy fats will help keep you full. Poke around people's diaries for options, it can be a great help or for recipes I love Pinterest.
  • quirkytizzy
    quirkytizzy Posts: 4,052 Member
    One of the first things I had to do was take a look at the foods I always ate multiple servings of. Frozen dinners were among them - they are higher calorie and almost never fill me up with just one. So away those went, to be replaced with hand-made sandwiches and tortilla wraps. Cereal was another (that was like, almost a box a day for me.) So I didn't buy that anymore and switched to single serving oatmeal packs and fruit.

    A big part of that was that those foods never filled me up at a reasonable portion - so I had to switch those out for filling foods.Take a look at the serving sizes on food and become acquainted with how much a cup is, or 3/4 cup, etc. It makes not overeating a LOT easier.

    Because you're working with a limited number of calories, you'll naturally start reaching for the foods that will keep you fullest longest. More bang for your buck, calorie wise.
  • whey protein is good for cutting (loosing weight) with water. its important to eat regually, i like to eat every 2.5 - 3 hours. believe it or not but eating regually helps your body burn fats. make sure you get alot of fiber everyday also
  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,420 Member
    Just set your goals here and start logging your food - everything. Buy a digital food scale and start cooking your own meals. Study your food diary. We all had to teach ourselves.

    Set your Goal to "Lose one pound a week". (If you are more than 60 pounds overweight, you can use 2 pounds a week).

    Don't choose Sedentary unless you actually sit all day. If you have any kind of job, go to school or care for children at home, choose another activity level.

    This site has a lot of info, use it. Peruse the forums. It's a learning process like anything else.
  • MrsAgi
    MrsAgi Posts: 338 Member
    Buy real food, eat it, log it, stop when you reach your cal limit.

    To start with, just log what you normally eat and see what is unbelievably high and either substitute that, or have smaller portions. Take it in small steps, educate yourself as you go.
  • Mokey41
    Mokey41 Posts: 5,769 Member
    Set your budget and eat within it. There are no bad foods, just foods we eat too much of. You'll soon learn what fills you up, what has too high of a calorie count to make it worthwhile and which things you like and fit your budget.

    Even if it takes a few weeks to fine tune your eating plan it's no big deal. I think a great approach is to just log all your food for a week without trying to change anything. You can see what you eat that's costing you too much and either have smaller portions or cut it out.

    You aren't going on a diet, you're learning a new way to eat for life. If you look at it as a diet that goes on for a period of time then you revert back to your old ways you might as well save yourself the aggravation and just give up now.
  • krizz5u6
    krizz5u6 Posts: 64
    Hi I was totally unknowledgeable about it too, it's kind of trial and error. What works best for me is eating 6 small meals a day. breakfast lunch dinner should be 200-300 calories, with snacks in between (less than 200 cals). I try to eat 1,300 cals everyday and i don't eat back my exercise calories. For breakfast I eat oatmeal usually with almonds, a little bit of almond milk, some kind of fruit (berries, half a banana, etc), and truvia. Lunch is usually a wrap with flat outs (or some other kind of healthy bread that is around 100 calories) with lean low sodium turkey, 1 laughing cow light, and 1 tblsp hummus, and lettuce and tomato with carrots and another tblsp of hummus on the side. For dinner it's either a salad or some kind of protein with veggies. Snacks can be either cottage cheese with fruit (fat free), greek yogurt with fruit (fat free and plain flavored), or an egg with a small apple, or protein bars (I like the kind bars they are healthier and filling with mostly nuts and fruit, nothing artificial). Protein is not just for people who are already fit, anyone can use it. You can use it as a snack or after a workout. I mix it with almond milk sometimes after a workout. There are different kinds of protein, whey protein is pretty good and not too expensive (you want to look at how much sugar is in the protein as well). The best kind of protein is Casein protein as it digests slower (which means you stay full longer), unfortunately it's more expensive. I get musclepharm from bodybuilding.com they usually have a 4 lb. one on sale and the flavors are really good right now I have cookies n cream but vanilla is good too. Also try not to eat too many carbs after your second snack. If you have any questions feel free to message me or whatever, hope it helped (sorry if i bombarded you with info), also feel free to check out my diary.
  • Mokey41
    Mokey41 Posts: 5,769 Member

    Don't choose Sedentary unless you actually sit all day. If you have any kind of job, go to school or care for children at home, choose another activity level.

    Sedentary doesn't mean lays around like a sloth all day, it means someone with a desk job or going to school who doesn't spend the day doing physical labor. If you are on your feet all day at your job like a teacher or salesperson you would be lightly active. You track your exercise separately so that doesn't factor in to your activity level.
  • cmeiron
    cmeiron Posts: 1,599 Member
    Don't diet.


    Eat real food.

    Try to make your own meals as much as possible.

    Eat delicious foods that you enjoy.

    Learn what foods will keep you full (e.g., proteins, fats, fibre) and provide you with enough energy for the day.

    Learn what a real serving size is. Use your scale. Measure everything.

    Log your food in your diary.

    Keep your intake below your expenditure, and keep your macros more or less on track.
  • Laura42012
    Laura42012 Posts: 180 Member
    I wind up buying a ton of lean cuisines that leave me hungry.

    I would try sampling out simple meals that you like. In lieu of things like lean cuisines, I would have a turkey burger (which is relatively easy to make). Or I pick up a spinach salad from costco on a weekly basis, where the portion is HUGE and fills at least 1-3 meals of my week.
  • clarkeje1
    clarkeje1 Posts: 1,641 Member
    Try researching some recipes online. I started at kraft.com. They have a healthy living section and the meals are easy to make and quick. Keep coming here and reading the forums. You will get more educated on how to eat well as you go. I'm still learning a ton each day and I have a long way to go.
  • MinnieInMaine
    MinnieInMaine Posts: 6,400 Member
    Hooray! I discovered the same problem ("dieting") and figured out that it's ok to eat the foods I like, I just need to tweak them a little. I still make casseroles but try to cut down on the rice/pasta, cut down on the meat (and/or use leaner meat) and bulk back up with more veggies. For regular meat and potato meals, I only have a little of the starch side and eat more veg and meat. But most important was figuring out proper portions. You can still have things like pizza but instead of having half a large, only have a couple slices of a medium. You can have chocolate but intead of having a king sized Snicker bar, get some good quality dark chocoalte and only have a square or two.

    We're all different so you have to find what works for you as far as food choices but in general, foods higher in protein (lean meats, eggs, cheese/dairy, legumes) and higher in healthy fats (nuts, nut butters, avocado, etc) will help keep you full longer. For instance, instead of having a salad of just veg with fat free dressing, add some chicken, cheese, egg and a full fat dressing and you will likely stay full much longer. It can be freaky at first to think of all the calories but if it saves you from snacking later, your intake should be lower in the long run.

    In my case, I also found that eating breakfast helped a lot. I used to skip it and just have coffee and not eat until I was starving at 9 or 10am. Now I eat breakfast at 8am at the latest most days. If I don't, I find that I'm much hungrier later in the day and end up munching on things I shouldn't.

    Planning and packing can be great tools. Plan out your meals including snacks and pack your lunch and a few extra snacks that fit into your calories to keep you away from the bad snack stuff. Think outside the box on this one - aside from the usual nuts, yogurt and fruit I also pack oatmeal and keep a box of Cheerios in my desk. If I've got a sweet craving, a handful of Peanut Butter Multi-grain Cheerios can really do the trick. Yum!

    That's all off the top of my head.. Feel free to send me a friend request if you'd like.
  • I just started to reuse the diary so there isn't much in there. I do cook but I feel like I make fatty things when I do.
  • TeaBea
    TeaBea Posts: 14,517 Member
    Types of food that help you stay full .... longer

    Protein ..... supplements are not necessary for the average person.

    Sources: meats, poultry, seafood, dairy, beans, whole grains, nuts

    Fat .... there are healthy (good for you) fats

    Sources: olive oil, nuts, nut butters, avacado

    Fiber ...think of "bulk" .... fiber takes awhile for your body to digest ... and keeps you regular

    Sources: whole foods (not processed) .... veggies, fruits, whole grains

    Stick with as many whole foods as you can. Try to get some protein with every meal. For some it's a combination at every meal. I feel like I need to eat protien with something.... straight protien doesn't cut it.
  • Lightbulb1088
    Lightbulb1088 Posts: 189 Member
    They have a recipe section on here also. But I stay away from all the prepackaged stuff most of it is high in sodium.
    here is an idea;
    I set aside 1 day a week to cook and I made 2 or 3 meals and then reheat them over the week. Some weeks we have turkey sandwiches and salads. There are so many good things to eat that are fresh and taste way better. I also buy frozen veggies and fruits to make qusick easy meals. Clean eatting has lots of recipes. Food tv has lots of good ones too.
    I was where you are a couple of years ago. You Can do this. :)
    Good luck!
  • melaniecheeks
    melaniecheeks Posts: 6,349 Member
    If you can cook - that's great! If you're ready to experiment and have some fun in the kitchen then you're half way there.
  • bgraz1994
    bgraz1994 Posts: 56 Member
    Lean cuisinies are definitely not your best option. You need to be eating whole, healthy foods and all your macro nutrients.
    Here's an example:

    Breakfast:
    -1/2 greek yogurt
    -1/2 frozen berries
    -10 almonds, sliced

    Morning Snack:
    -banana
    -1 tbsp peanut butter

    Lunch:
    -Whole wheat wrap
    -1 egg (over east/scrambled)
    -raw spinach
    -8 baby carrots

    Snack:
    -1/2 cup mixed raspberries/blueberries
    -dark chocolate (small portion ie 2 one inch squares)

    Dinner:
    -Salmon
    -1/2 cup brown rice
    -mixed veggies, lightly sauteed in garlic

    Snack:
    -4 whole wheat crackers
    -4 thin slices of mozarella cheese
  • cmeiron
    cmeiron Posts: 1,599 Member
    I just started to reuse the diary so there isn't much in there. I do cook but I feel like I make fatty things when I do.

    The diary will give you a better sense of how much you're actually eating, and where your calories are coming from. It's useful for teaching yourself how to make better choices during the day. It takes some practice, but you can do it!

    Also, fat is not the enemy! It's important to get healthy fats into your meals every day. It's your calories that are the most important thing to watch. That said, fats are generally high in calories so they can cut into your daily calorie allowance pretty quickly. There are lots of ways to tweak high-fat recipes to bring it down a notch if you need to. Use less oil than called for, use cooking spray instead if you can, reduce the amount of cheese or cream used, replace heavy cream with lower-fat or even milk, bake or broil instead of fry...in many sweet dishes you can replace butter or oil with things like yogurt, applesauce, pumpkin or mashed bananas. There are lots of work-around that let you keep enjoying the foods you love!
  • GrnEyes839
    GrnEyes839 Posts: 74 Member
    I think the biggest thing to remember is you're you...not like everyone else. Your body is yours, so all of the advice in the world will be just that.. advice. Learn what makes YOU full, what makes YOU feel satisfied. Experiment. Try new things. If you hate it, it will be a chore. If you make small steps in the right direction you'll thank yourself for it later. If you're going to be embarrassed to write it, don't bite it. Journal everything, and above all else, love yourself in the process no matter what that ridiculous scale says...
  • jlapey
    jlapey Posts: 1,850 Member
    The first mistake you are making is "dieting". A diet is a temporary way of eating until you reach a certain goal. The problem is once you stop the diet, you lose your goal. Make lifestyle changes: eat reasonable portions of healthy, whole foods that you prepare yourself. Allow for occasional treats. If you eat well, MOST of the time, then there is no reason to fear celebrations, holidays or even an occasional dessert just for fun.
  • crystalflame
    crystalflame Posts: 1,049 Member
    Trying to figure out what to eat can be really hard. When I first started out, I cooked a lot of Mediterranean food because I knew it was generally good for you. Lots of lean protein (chicken and fish), healthy fats (olive oil and nuts), and complex carbs (brown rice, whole grains, veggies). I got comfortable with cooking. I learned about portion sizes. I learned how much one tbsp of olive oil was, how much 4 oz of chicken was, how much a cup of rice was, how much it took to satisfy me, and how that relates to my caloric needs. Once I had that foundation in place, I started exploring and experimenting with other cuisines. I did more research about nutrition. I added back in foods I had cut out of my diet because I had misconceptions about them - for example, I thought beef was bad because it was higher-cal than chicken and had saturated fat (<- not actually evil!), but it's just about eating a reasonable portion of it and fitting it in your calories.

    Mediterranean recipes are generally good - they're easy to find online. Sites like eatingwell.com and skinnytaste.com are good resources for lower-cal, filling meals as well. Find a place to start and go with it =)

    ETA: About protein: protein powder is great if you're having a hard time getting enough protein in your day. I wouldn't hit my protein macro if I didn't use it, and protein is really important when you're in a deficit because it helps you retain muscle (you only want to lose fat!). You don't need it, but it's an option if you want it. If you get one, look for one that's mostly protein and low-carb.
  • melaniecheeks
    melaniecheeks Posts: 6,349 Member
    Can we have alike button for Crystalflame's post please?
  • Jewel0124
    Jewel0124 Posts: 119 Member
    Are the foods you're cooking unhealthy or is your method of cooking unhealthy?
  • mdcoug
    mdcoug Posts: 397 Member
    Here are some quick, very general tips to help with your grocery shopping:

    1. Shop the perimeter of the store: produce, meat, dairy, etc. Most of what you need will be there.
    2. Eat whole grains instead of refined. Example: Brown rice instead of white rice; whole wheat bread instead of white bread; whole grain pasta instead of regular pasta.
    3. Read the labels closely! For example, don't be tricked by "multi-grain." It's not the same as "whole-grain."
    4. Fill your plate with 1/2 veggie, 1/4 protein, 1/4 carbs. (it's better to identify specific % targets, but this is a good starting point for managing your portions)
    5. Start using MFP to log your food and see how different choices give you different results.
    6. Go grocery shopping with a list

    Eventually you'll want to start looking into some of the other tools out there to help you decide what's right for you, but if you just start trying to use whole foods instead of the processed foods, you'll be better prepared to absorb all the other information.

    The easiest thing for me to do for our family is some sort of marinated meat on the grill, pasta and salad, like this:

    Greek Chicken breasts: http://www.theblackpeppercorn.com/2012/04/greek-marinade-for-grilled-chicken/
    Basic salad with green leaf lettuce (romain, spring mix, spinach, etc. are better than iceberg), throw in whatever veggies you and your family like
    Spaghetti Noodles tossed with olive oil, parmesan and sliced olives
    Add a nice glass of milk and I have a well-rounded meal.

    Just switch out marinade, protein, veggie and starch for more variety.

    One last thing and I'll shut up: I (try) to write out a menu each weekend and then write my shopping list, based on what's on sale at the grocery store. I'll go shopping on Sunday WITH THE LIST (and my reusable bags, I always forget those darn bags), so I'm not trying to decide in the store what I'm doing for meals.

    HTH!
  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,420 Member

    Don't choose Sedentary unless you actually sit all day. If you have any kind of job, go to school or care for children at home, choose another activity level.

    Sedentary doesn't mean lays around like a sloth all day, it means someone with a desk job or going to school who doesn't spend the day doing physical labor. If you are on your feet all day at your job like a teacher or salesperson you would be lightly active. You track your exercise separately so that doesn't factor in to your activity level.

    Mokey, you've argued that point before when I say that. If you actually figure out your needs, the Sedentary setting here on this site is still too low in my opinion. That is the one flaw I find with the calculator here. Well, that, and the fact it lets people eat below their BMR when they choose "Lose 2 pounds a week" even if they only have 30 pounds to lose. I will continue to say this, and you can continue to argue - but I stand my ground.
  • Sarauk2sf
    Sarauk2sf Posts: 28,072 Member

    I don't think it's a good idea to post these links for a beginner, convoluting them with more numbers and ratios and math... can be demotivating and make them feel like a failure i they can't stick to a "specific" ratio...

    You may want to click in the links - the first link does not say to stick to a specific ratio.

    OP: keep it simple. Eat what you would normally eat, just portion control it. Look at what you are eating and swap things out where necessary to give you a better 'food bang for your buck'. You do not need protein powder unless you are falling short of your protein goal with your food - it is just to supplement it if you need it.
  • Sarauk2sf
    Sarauk2sf Posts: 28,072 Member

    Don't choose Sedentary unless you actually sit all day. If you have any kind of job, go to school or care for children at home, choose another activity level.

    Sedentary doesn't mean lays around like a sloth all day, it means someone with a desk job or going to school who doesn't spend the day doing physical labor. If you are on your feet all day at your job like a teacher or salesperson you would be lightly active. You track your exercise separately so that doesn't factor in to your activity level.

    Mokey, you've argued that point before when I say that. If you actually figure out your needs, the Sedentary setting here on this site is still too low in my opinion. That is the one flaw I find with the calculator here. Well, that, and the fact it lets people eat below their BMR when they choose "Lose 2 pounds a week" even if they only have 30 pounds to lose. I will continue to say this, and you can continue to argue - but I stand my ground.

    I also found that sedentary =/= desk job. Sedentary is really sedentary, as in pretty much housebound. I have a desk job and outside of the gym very inactive and based on my results, I was higher than lightly active.