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  • Posts: 17 Member
    Don't worry about it. All she proved by posting it on Facebook was to prove to everyone how small and petty she is. She showed her true colors to everyone.
  • Posts: 53 Member
    Thanks for the kind words, everyone. On the plus side, I was so angry this morning I ran an extra long interval at the gym this morning.

    Sounds like her unpleasantness is having positive results! Seriously, she's jealous and lashing out, you should let her get to you. Keep up what works and enjoy yourself.
  • Posts: 4,585 Member
    Wow.

    I kind of know how you feel. I don't have a good relationship with my sister either. She never asks me how I'm doing, she never reaches out unless she needs something and she has never congratulated me for anything. The straw that broke the camels back was when I got accepted to an amazing and highly competitive business school program and she didn't even acknowledge the news (I saw her a week after acceptance), much less say "congrats." She's too busy being a victim to care about anyone else.

    I used to be really disappointed, but I've decided that there is no sense in hoping for a change. I'm not sure if this is where you are at with your sister, but sometimes you need to just move on for your own health and happiness. I know that if anything dire ever happened to mine, I would be there. But I won't deal with the unnecessary drama and meanness anymore.
  • Posts: 706 Member

    HAHA i love this idea!!

    PERFECT!!!
  • Posts: 137 Member
    The sweetest revenge?? SHowing up to the next family function in a sexy dress and heels. Her stunned silence will be music to your ears. KEEP GOING GIRL!
  • Posts: 251 Member
    Wow! Just....wow.

    If I were you...I would print out the cartoon...blow it up BIG time...and put it on your wall to keep you going!!!!! And send her a thank you note...saying, "Thanks for the inspiration, sis! Love ya!" But that's just me. smh...

    ** This is funny ** I would do the same thing and my next goal would be to look even better and hotter the next time I saw her. :laugh:
  • Posts: 6 Member
    Sounds, like jealousy. Maybe you should ask her to come workout with you. Maybe she needs your help to get where you are.
  • Posts: 257 Member
    Turn the other cheek...move on...and post something nice and sisterly...you know the nice quotes that we view all day on FB!! She'll get the message!
  • Posts: 251 Member
    Thanks for the kind words, everyone. On the plus side, I was so angry this morning I ran an extra long interval at the gym this morning.

    There you go!! Use her actions to push yourself in the right direction.
  • Posts: 1,837 Member
    I suspect that cartoon says a lot more about her than it does about you. So take the attitude "that does not apply to me" (because it doesn't) and carry on.

    I love the idea of subtly getting her back by "innocently" giving your niece something really noisy or messy. haha
  • shes JEALOUS!!!! well done u and that was nasty keep posting pics of urself looking great. keep up the gd work.:bigsmile:
  • Posts: 1,100 Member
    Jealousy.
  • Posts: 78 Member
    Some people are so miserable that they just have to try to bring others down. Don't let her get to you! <3
    I completely agree, and what's with that F.B. pic....looks like she's portraying you as a big boozer as well! I'm a twin too & can't imagine a twin sister behaving so BADLY! Feel free to friend me :-))
  • Posts: 4 Member
    A drum set would work better!
  • Posts: 113 Member
    Buy your niece a puppy. That'll teach her.

    YES! haha
  • Posts: 3,628 Member
    Thanks for the kind words, everyone. On the plus side, I was so angry this morning I ran an extra long interval at the gym this morning.

    Lemons into lemonade ...... good job rising above it :drinker:
  • Posts: 239 Member
    Don't waste your time on the haters
  • Posts: 323 Member
    you are doing great
    try hard not to trip on her meanness too much - but it is so hard I know at our house my sister is referred to as "she who shall not be named"

    You are doing great! ^^And this is my house too ^^ :happy:
  • Posts: 42 Member
    Wow! Just....wow.

    If I were you...I would print out the cartoon...blow it up BIG time...and put it on your wall to keep you going!!!!! And send her a thank you note...saying, "Thanks for the inspiration, sis! Love ya!" But that's just me. smh...

    Love, love this one...good advice
  • Posts: 29,136 Member
    just ignore it..

    whet you let her get in your head she wins...

    not responding and just continuing will frustrate the hell out of her...
  • Posts: 41 Member
    It's called jealousy!
  • Posts: 52 Member
    Sorry to say this about your sister, but what a @!#ch. You have to focus on all the positive responses you got from your family!!
  • Posts: 436 Member
    wow...she isnt very nice!!
  • Posts: 436 Member

    This is sound advice, and I definitely understand what you're saying. But I've been laughing at myself all my life, trying to deflate the pain out of fat jokes. I finally feel like I don't HAVE to laugh at myself because I've worked hard not to be the butt of the joke. But I hear you; I can't control her actions, just my reactions. Thanks for the input.

    This....is a VERY good way of taking it (maybe hard to follow thru on, tho, huh?). Here for you, lovely lady xx
  • Posts: 391 Member
    All I can say is jealousy got the hang of her and she lost her sense by posting that on a public social networking site because that reflects SO BADLY on her and basically says pretty much nothing about you... I feel kind of sorry for her. But then again you mentioned that you guys don't have a good relationship to start with. You almost never like ANYTHING about your enemies, so that says it! Infuriating and juvenile? Yes. Worthy to get sad over? HELL NO.

    Congrats on the amazing dedication to your health and bettering yourself :) Inspirational!
  • Posts: 35,719 Member
    i would put a comment on the picture, something like 'OMG, i didnt have a bottle in my hand ALL night , did i?!', or 'wow. my boobs look perky!'

    everyone else is right, she is jealous, simple as!

    keep up the good work!
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