Need Advice for Stay-At-Home Husband who is Unhappy

My feminist senses are tingling so much because of some of these comments, but I am going to be polite and not say anything!
To the OP, I hope some of us have been able to offer you a little help/advice/solace that will be effective!

This sound simialr my husband was in the cabinet business and suddenly the economy hit and i had to go back to work.
He got used to self employment-his own boss. When he had to take care of the kids. He was no longer the boss. My kids can control the our enviromment- they always want outside time. they never wanted to do what he wanted, and he couldnt keep a schedule with them. He went back to work and its not what he wanted but he settled and he prefered work than stay at home dad.
the was a time when i was paying daycare while he stayed home to do nothing. He needs to talk to you about why he is angry, or who he is angry at. He needs to find out why he's unhappy. If you force him to therapy they might just give him pill and that's not the answer. I forced my husband to a therapist cause i could not stand him. and he got pills that didnt work. The pills make you dependant on them and my husband doesnt like to take pills.