What is the most romantic thing a spouse can do for you?

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  • ShannonKN
    ShannonKN Posts: 152 Member
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    A guy I dated for a long time made 12 little cards cut out of red construction paper to look like roses and glued them into a white paper cone so that they would look like a bouquet. Inside of each of those cards, he wrote a reason why he loved me. I kept that for years. My husband (years later, not the same guy) likes to randomly surprise me with little things that make it clear he's been listening to me, sometimes better than I've been listening to myself. I think the most romantic part of any gesture that we do for each other is the extent to which my husband and I make a point to really make the other one feel appreciated and loved.
  • grandmastime
    grandmastime Posts: 57 Member
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    rub my feet and legs after a long day at work.
  • CaseyKrause
    CaseyKrause Posts: 3
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    Respect the fact that I am trying to loose weight and not make me five egg omelets and four pieces of toast for breakfast like he doesn't want me to succeed.
  • 2stepscloser
    2stepscloser Posts: 2,900 Member
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    For men, anything to do with sex is considered romantic :love:
  • PaleoChocolateBear
    PaleoChocolateBear Posts: 2,844 Member
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    For men, anything to do with sex is considered romantic :love:

    Throw in a sandwich afterwards and they can have my black card for a month
  • Justjamie0418
    Justjamie0418 Posts: 1,065 Member
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    Separate from me!

    AMEN!!!!

    But if I had a spouse that didn't totally suck- I would say the most romantic thing they could do is plan a day spent being lazy together, all snuggled up in bed. I'm relatively easy to please :laugh:

    I third, or 4th? this. and in doing so, LET ME SLEEP!
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,487 Member
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    oral

    FTW. Thank you, you are correct.
  • TheWiseCat
    TheWiseCat Posts: 297
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    Leave me alone.


    I <3 space
  • sally_jeffswife
    sally_jeffswife Posts: 766 Member
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    Hand written card on no special occasion.....or one time my hubby wrapped himself up in wrapping paper
  • m76b
    m76b Posts: 1,498 Member
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    put his name on my divorce papers???!!!!:drinker: :laugh:
  • MB_Positif
    MB_Positif Posts: 8,897 Member
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    Not fart. Clearly I have been married too long.
  • TheWiseCat
    TheWiseCat Posts: 297
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    oral

    FTW. Thank you, you are correct.

    Well if that isn't already customary in the relationship (both ways), I'd be ditching it.
  • 2stepscloser
    2stepscloser Posts: 2,900 Member
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    an entire weekend full of sex, food, sleep & more sex

    Need a "like" button. I guarantee this response was formulated by my hubby!
  • JJordon
    JJordon Posts: 857 Member
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    Zip her lips. I enjoy the sound of silence. I'm not much of a talker.
  • kf4vkp
    kf4vkp Posts: 164 Member
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    It's a very person specific thing.... For some people it's a massage, for some it's doing the chores so they don't have to, for some it will be watching the kids so that they can go have me time....


    You should talk to your spouse to find out what its their particular thing.
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,487 Member
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    FTW. Thank you, you are correct.

    Well if that isn't already customary in the relationship (both ways), I'd be ditching it.

    No, no, it's customary, but when you're married for a long time you have to make it seem more special by saying it's a romantic gesture. That way then there is less you have to do as customary romance cuz what is considered romantic by many is actually pretty stupid.

    You have to SELL it to your spouse as pure romance.
  • KellyRUNS2Bthinner
    KellyRUNS2Bthinner Posts: 13 Member
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    Lmao now that is funny. I dont believe in Romance. Give me a full day at the gym and an unlimited suppky of protein bars and shakes and go watch your football.
  • artickb22
    artickb22 Posts: 411 Member
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    Perfect romantic day: coffee on the back porch then hitting some trials for hiking followed by some fishing in the early afternoon and a baseball game at night. Yup, that'll do it!
  • tuckerrj
    tuckerrj Posts: 1,453 Member
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    DON'T make you guess what they want, OR make you wonder what you've done wrong this time. Dammit, men aren't mind readers. The "you should know what I want", or "you should know what you've done wrong" attitude is ridiculous!!!
  • KellyRUNS2Bthinner
    KellyRUNS2Bthinner Posts: 13 Member
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    Zip her lips. I enjoy the sound of silence. I'm not much of a talker.
    Lmao. I love the man answers.:smile::laugh:

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