Big Beautiful Women

jillyk89
jillyk89 Posts: 240 Member
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Where are my sexy bigger girls at!? Lets motivate each other ;-)
Stay beautiful... There's more to love.
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  • HeatherSBrighterFuture
    HeatherSBrighterFuture Posts: 27
    I'd say I fit this description at the moment <3 However, I am sure looking forward to being a not so big beautiful woman, too!
  • leslienator
    leslienator Posts: 2
    I am in! definitely big and beautiful!.. lets get healthy ladies!
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    If you're happy being large and having more to love then why are you here?
  • jillyk89
    jillyk89 Posts: 240 Member
    Oh for sure me too... But curves are good for the imagination ;-) heheh
  • Fitnin6280
    Fitnin6280 Posts: 618 Member
    Yea! I am so here!
  • KenosFeoh
    KenosFeoh Posts: 1,837 Member
    To be honest, I'm not fond of the BBW designation.
  • Fitnin6280
    Fitnin6280 Posts: 618 Member
    If you're happy being large and having more to love then why are you here?

    It's a motivation thing. You can still love yourself and want better.
  • mercedesbenz5979
    mercedesbenz5979 Posts: 132 Member
    BBW here, but i can't wait to get a little more shape to me... instead of the circle shape :P
  • KAYRRIE
    KAYRRIE Posts: 201 Member
    Lol, I'm def a big girl and would love to have others similar to me as friends so we can encourage each other. It's a long road but I can't wait to see that finish line. Every pound I lose I feel great. So ladies, you're more than welcomed to add me.
  • jillyk89
    jillyk89 Posts: 240 Member
    I'm here to get healthier obviously and to lose weight
    People that are larger can still be healthy and beautiful, so relax. ;-)
  • KAYRRIE
    KAYRRIE Posts: 201 Member
    I'd say I fit this description at the moment <3 However, I am sure looking forward to being a not so big beautiful woman, too!

    They should add a like button here so I can click "like" on posts like yours :)
  • murparay
    murparay Posts: 1
    So true
  • ashesfromfire
    ashesfromfire Posts: 867 Member
    If you're happy being large and having more to love then why are you here?

    Well, my goal weight is 160, at only 5'5" thats still a little over weight but gosh dang do I look sexy at that weight! I've been thinner and don't like the way I look smaller than stat. That being said, my start weight on this site was somewhere north of 240. I love being bigger, but not THAT big. BBW for life! :heart:
  • BoomstickChick
    BoomstickChick Posts: 428 Member
    If you're happy being large and having more to love then why are you here?

    To get healthy?
  • Fitnin6280
    Fitnin6280 Posts: 618 Member
    Oh holy cow people! If you don't like the topic of the thread, just don't comment!! Good Grief!!!!!!!!!!! I think the OP just ment for this to be fun. Not to get her head bit off. Get over yourselves!
  • lithezebra
    lithezebra Posts: 3,670 Member
    I have nothing against skinny people! I'm just saying my body could never ever be like that.
    I think everyone is beautiful in there own way. I wasn't putting down anyone or anyone's body type.

    You'd be surprised. When I was heavier, certain people would say that I was big boned, which made me think I couldn't be slender, ever. I'm actually not big boned, and my tiny waist gives me a curvier waist-hip ratio than I had before. I like being lean. Since you're here, you might as well adopt a positive attitude about your goals. You're beautiful now, and you'll be beautiful at your goal weight too.
  • jenilla1
    jenilla1 Posts: 11,118 Member
    ...There's more to love...

    :laugh: Bahahaha! As if love was measured on a scale. This phrase always cracks me up.
  • lilmissymoo90
    lilmissymoo90 Posts: 324 Member
    im big but not very beautiful lol =P
  • jillyk89
    jillyk89 Posts: 240 Member
    LOL
  • Audities
    Audities Posts: 9
    Toothpick is not thin or skinny or healthy. Let's not pretend that underweight is any more healthy than overweight. Let's also not pretend that thin isn't much more socially acceptable than fat. Fat shaming happens way way more, but thin shaming isn't cool either - I'm sure we can ALL agree on that.
    Natural bodies are fine, but anorexia nervosa is a real problem and the vast majority of the affected are women! It is the most fatal mental disorder (including depression!). 1 in 100 women have an eating disorder, but that is not the same as being naturally thin.
    Naturally thin women may have their ribs showing, but malnourished women have concavities between their ribs because their bodies have eaten through their muscles.
    Now I have a friend who is SOOOOO thin, but it is her natural body and it looks good on her.
    I, on the other hand, will always have big boobs and big hips and a belly no matter what I weigh. My wrist measures 7.5" and I was called fat when I weighed 102 lbs.
    Different people have different size frames and it's all good.
    All sizes are attractive, as long as a person is happy and healthy!
    Now whatever we call ourselves or however we identify should be encouraged as long as it is positive.

    So having said that, I will always be "thick", even at my goal weight and the weight my doctor says is healthy for my frame size. (don't trust height/weight charts that do not take small, medium, and large frames in to account)
    Someone will always put you down to make themselves feel better. I just try to remember that when someone is mean to me, they must hate awesome :)

    And I really don't think the original poster was trying to do anything other than encourage those of us with larger frames to feel a sense of camaraderie.
    The Sisterhood only exists if we make it. Horizontal aggression is one of the biggest disappointments in a woman's life. Let's all just try to be supportive of each other.
  • Twilightsunflower
    Twilightsunflower Posts: 324 Member
    currently still big and beautiful working on a little less to love... motivation is always a bounce :)
  • Fitnin6280
    Fitnin6280 Posts: 618 Member
    im big but not very beautiful lol =P

    You are absolutely beautiful!! :flowerforyou:
  • MearaTackling30
    MearaTackling30 Posts: 7
    Hey ya'll I have been at this for a little more than a week and I have one hundred fifty pounds to lose, so feel free to friend me! Because while I am definitely beautiful I have a long way to go and would love to have some friends on here with journeys as long as mine!
  • buffermarie
    buffermarie Posts: 54 Member
    Yes.... RELAX! Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes :)
  • SStrauss79
    SStrauss79 Posts: 124 Member
    I am currently a BBW...will not be staying this way. But for now it is what I am and will love myself while I continue on my healthy lifestyle journey. Thank you OP for reaching out to others that may be at a similar place in their journey. Sometimes it is helpful to have friends who are at the same place as you in this journey or have been here before and can relate to where you are coming from. For those who have never been here or have forgotten where there journey started...oh well, move on.
  • lilmissymoo90
    lilmissymoo90 Posts: 324 Member
    im big but not very beautiful lol =P

    You are absolutely beautiful!! :flowerforyou:

    you are my new best friend lol
  • fayeonherway
    fayeonherway Posts: 204
    Not all fat people hate themselves and consider themselves ugly. I for one think I am absolutely beautiful. I have others who agree (not that I need validation, got over that a long time ago). BUT because I love myself, I am determined to be the best me possible and that includes physical, mental and emotional well being.

    I'm on MFP not because I hate myself, I'm here because I love myself too damn much!

    To all the big girls out there, good luck to you on your lifestyle change. Add me if you'd like!
  • jillyk89
    jillyk89 Posts: 240 Member
    Love <3
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    If you're happy being large and having more to love then why are you here?

    It's a motivation thing. You can still love yourself and want better.

    True. It was just a question. It seems that some of you have read a "tone" into this that did not exist.
  • unapologeticallyemma
    unapologeticallyemma Posts: 134 Member
    Hello there lovely ladies!!!! Hope you're all well!

    I'm a big girl, who is always going to be big because its the way my body is built but it doesn't mean I have to be fat as well, looking forward to be being a big beautiful fit and healthy woman!!!!

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