MFP Made Me Fat!
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Junken_Diraffe
Posts: 716 Member
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For real. Here's what happened...
I joined here in August 2011, weighing in at 215. I am 6' tall, just for reference. I was a size 18. I lost roughly 60lbs, and was down to 150-155, and a size 6/8. All good things.
But, I also made some awesome friends. Friends who taught me to love me whether I was 215 or 155 or somewhere in between. Now, I'm still fighting that battle every day, but I'm getting closer to that place. These friends tell me I look great. They tell me I'm beautiful. Also, I found a boyfriend on MFP. He is freaking amazing. He loves me like crazy and loves they way I look. He, too, tells me I'm beautiful. A lot.
THIS IS THE PROBLEM. I get all thin and hot, and people tell me that too much. Now, I'm complacent. I have stopped working so hard. I've slipped. You'll notice, in my ticker, that it says I've lost 48lbs. That's because I put some back on. I BLAME YOU, MFP. All you "friends" who let me think I'm great the way I am. This is on you. PLEASE, stop this craziness.
We're all here for the same reasons, right? Let's support each other. Let's not tell people they're "10/10 would bang" when they're clearly a 6 at best. Let's stop saying we'll "SMASH" a person you wouldn't give the time of day to in real life. Let's stop the empty compliments and false praise.
This girl right here needs to get her borderline chunky @ss back on track. PLEASE help me on this journey, guys!! (<~~For you, Jerry!)
I joined here in August 2011, weighing in at 215. I am 6' tall, just for reference. I was a size 18. I lost roughly 60lbs, and was down to 150-155, and a size 6/8. All good things.
But, I also made some awesome friends. Friends who taught me to love me whether I was 215 or 155 or somewhere in between. Now, I'm still fighting that battle every day, but I'm getting closer to that place. These friends tell me I look great. They tell me I'm beautiful. Also, I found a boyfriend on MFP. He is freaking amazing. He loves me like crazy and loves they way I look. He, too, tells me I'm beautiful. A lot.
THIS IS THE PROBLEM. I get all thin and hot, and people tell me that too much. Now, I'm complacent. I have stopped working so hard. I've slipped. You'll notice, in my ticker, that it says I've lost 48lbs. That's because I put some back on. I BLAME YOU, MFP. All you "friends" who let me think I'm great the way I am. This is on you. PLEASE, stop this craziness.
We're all here for the same reasons, right? Let's support each other. Let's not tell people they're "10/10 would bang" when they're clearly a 6 at best. Let's stop saying we'll "SMASH" a person you wouldn't give the time of day to in real life. Let's stop the empty compliments and false praise.
This girl right here needs to get her borderline chunky @ss back on track. PLEASE help me on this journey, guys!! (<~~For you, Jerry!)
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haha....I kind of love you and I agree....though I totally partake in this behavior! :P0
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You is not hot, you is not special, you is not important!
Better?0 -
You is not hot, you is not special, you is not important!
Better?
Closer. I'm special AND important. But you're right on about the hotness factor. THANK YOU! See, a TRUE FRIEND. :flowerforyou:0 -
You're not a special snowflake, work harder. You just happen to be 10/10, would *SMASH*0
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We're all here for the same reasons, right?0
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We're all here for the same reasons, right?
Shhhh!! You weren't supposed to tell!0 -
agree 100%, this damn community of support has boosted my ego so much I've gained too.
I wish you all would be real and tell me I'm not that special snowflake you've made me believe that I am. :sad:0 -
We're all here for the same reasons, right?
You say that like it's a bad thing....0 -
Happiness pounds are negated by happiness glow. Sorry. Still hot.0
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You is insane! Welcome to the Looney Bin. :flowerforyou:0
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You is not hot, you is not special, you is not important!
Better?
Closer. I'm special AND important. But you're right on about the hotness factor. THANK YOU! See, a TRUE FRIEND. :flowerforyou:
Your welcome doll!0 -
We're all here for the same reasons, right?
I don't swing that way, I'm looking for Joes with poor self-esteem.0 -
We're all here for the same reasons, right?
You say that like it's a bad thing....
Right, I need MFP or I'll go into my little cave and die cuz no one gave me a compliment. Don't ruin this for everyone..hahaha.0 -
i'm sorry, what did you say?0 -
<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< I wish people would tell me the truth...I see a heavy bottom shape..but I'm told I'm fine....0
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Since I am your height and currently at your starting weight, I say STFU! I'd kill to be your weight now! You look great and my opinion is not going to change.... now matter how much you think it should!0
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Hell! My goal weight is still more than your current weight! :grumble:0
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You're not so hot, and you're not fat...hell, I got bigger boobs than you and I'm an old guy!0
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First time I've ever been thankful I get my self worth from me and not an online community! Ha!0
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You're a cow!
For God's sake, tighten up will you?
(That help?)0
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