MFP Made Me Fat!

Junken_Diraffe
Junken_Diraffe Posts: 716 Member
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For real. Here's what happened...

I joined here in August 2011, weighing in at 215. I am 6' tall, just for reference. I was a size 18. I lost roughly 60lbs, and was down to 150-155, and a size 6/8. All good things.

But, I also made some awesome friends. Friends who taught me to love me whether I was 215 or 155 or somewhere in between. Now, I'm still fighting that battle every day, but I'm getting closer to that place. These friends tell me I look great. They tell me I'm beautiful. Also, I found a boyfriend on MFP. He is freaking amazing. He loves me like crazy and loves they way I look. He, too, tells me I'm beautiful. A lot.

THIS IS THE PROBLEM. I get all thin and hot, and people tell me that too much. Now, I'm complacent. I have stopped working so hard. I've slipped. You'll notice, in my ticker, that it says I've lost 48lbs. That's because I put some back on. I BLAME YOU, MFP. All you "friends" who let me think I'm great the way I am. This is on you. PLEASE, stop this craziness.

We're all here for the same reasons, right? Let's support each other. Let's not tell people they're "10/10 would bang" when they're clearly a 6 at best. Let's stop saying we'll "SMASH" a person you wouldn't give the time of day to in real life. Let's stop the empty compliments and false praise.

This girl right here needs to get her borderline chunky @ss back on track. PLEASE help me on this journey, guys!! (<~~For you, Jerry!)
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  • catrinaHwechanged
    catrinaHwechanged Posts: 4,907 Member
    haha....I kind of love you and I agree....though I totally partake in this behavior! :P
  • dirtnap63
    dirtnap63 Posts: 1,387 Member
    You is not hot, you is not special, you is not important!

    Better?
  • Junken_Diraffe
    Junken_Diraffe Posts: 716 Member
    You is not hot, you is not special, you is not important!

    Better?

    Closer. I'm special AND important. But you're right on about the hotness factor. THANK YOU! See, a TRUE FRIEND. :flowerforyou:
  • billsica
    billsica Posts: 4,741 Member
    You're not a special snowflake, work harder. You just happen to be 10/10, would *SMASH*
  • theCarlton
    theCarlton Posts: 1,344 Member
    We're all here for the same reasons, right?
    Yes, we're all here to pick up broads with poor self-esteem.
  • catrinaHwechanged
    catrinaHwechanged Posts: 4,907 Member
    We're all here for the same reasons, right?
    Yes, we're all here to pick up broads with poor self-esteem.

    Shhhh!! You weren't supposed to tell!
  • sewerchick93
    sewerchick93 Posts: 1,438 Member
    agree 100%, this damn community of support has boosted my ego so much I've gained too.

    I wish you all would be real and tell me I'm not that special snowflake you've made me believe that I am. :sad:
  • dirtnap63
    dirtnap63 Posts: 1,387 Member
    We're all here for the same reasons, right?
    Yes, we're all here to pick up broads with poor self-esteem.

    You say that like it's a bad thing....
  • Cadori
    Cadori Posts: 4,810 Member
    Happiness pounds are negated by happiness glow. Sorry. Still hot.
  • Bonita_Lynne_58
    Bonita_Lynne_58 Posts: 2,794 Member
    You is insane! Welcome to the Looney Bin. :flowerforyou:
  • dirtnap63
    dirtnap63 Posts: 1,387 Member
    You is not hot, you is not special, you is not important!

    Better?

    Closer. I'm special AND important. But you're right on about the hotness factor. THANK YOU! See, a TRUE FRIEND. :flowerforyou:


    Your welcome doll!
  • sewerchick93
    sewerchick93 Posts: 1,438 Member
    We're all here for the same reasons, right?
    Yes, we're all here to pick up broads with poor self-esteem.

    I don't swing that way, I'm looking for Joes with poor self-esteem.
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,486 Member
    We're all here for the same reasons, right?
    Yes, we're all here to pick up broads with poor self-esteem.

    You say that like it's a bad thing....

    Right, I need MFP or I'll go into my little cave and die cuz no one gave me a compliment. Don't ruin this for everyone..hahaha.
  • maab_connor
    maab_connor Posts: 3,927 Member
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    i'm sorry, what did you say?
  • Fozzi43
    Fozzi43 Posts: 2,984 Member
    <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< I wish people would tell me the truth...I see a heavy bottom shape..but I'm told I'm fine....
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    Since I am your height and currently at your starting weight, I say STFU! I'd kill to be your weight now! You look great and my opinion is not going to change.... now matter how much you think it should! :tongue:
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    Hell! My goal weight is still more than your current weight! :grumble:
  • grammysboy
    grammysboy Posts: 151 Member
    You're not so hot, and you're not fat...hell, I got bigger boobs than you and I'm an old guy!
  • artickb22
    artickb22 Posts: 411 Member
    First time I've ever been thankful I get my self worth from me and not an online community! Ha!
  • iAMsmiling
    iAMsmiling Posts: 2,394 Member
    You're a cow!
    For God's sake, tighten up will you?

    (That help?)
  • stevewynjones
    stevewynjones Posts: 1,052 Member
    ok.......you smell of wee and blow tramps.


    Better?

    And yes I would bang...

    xxxxxxx

    ( still my virtual wife...right? )
  • stevewynjones
    stevewynjones Posts: 1,052 Member
    <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< I wish people would tell me the truth...I see a heavy bottom shape..but I'm told I'm fine....

    ok...far too much bikini.

    you did ask....
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    Seriously though, OP, I have spent my entire life not caring what other people thought of me, and I was perfectly happy. Yes, at 300+ lbs, I was perfectly happy. I didn't decide to make a change until I decided that I wasn't happy with my size. The opinions of others are just opinions. What looks great to one person, might not look great to the next. If someone asks for an opinion I am usually honest. If I think my honest opinion might not be well-received then I keep it to myself. So maybe your friends really were being honest with you. Maybe the ones that thought, "hey she's getting chunky", just kept their opinions to themselves.

    Either way. The only opinions about you that matter are your own.
  • jackpotclown
    jackpotclown Posts: 3,275 Member

    This girl right here needs to get her borderline chunky @ss back on track. PLEASE help me on this journey, guys!! (<~~For you, Jerry!)

    Wow, I feel so validated in my efforts
    Journey-band-03_zps6b4e3320.jpg


    btw I don't see this borderlining chunk....and another thing.....get back to work \m/
  • Mavrick_RN
    Mavrick_RN Posts: 439 Member
    <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< I wish people would tell me the truth...I see a heavy bottom shape..but I'm told I'm fine....


    Maybe it's the camera angle that focuses on your thighs.
  • Music_is_my_soul
    Music_is_my_soul Posts: 792 Member
    i'm keeping my mouth shut!!! :/
  • Muddy_Yogi
    Muddy_Yogi Posts: 1,459 Member
    I dislike you OP. I would say hate but I fear being reported.
  • crossfit_lover
    crossfit_lover Posts: 230 Member
    Uh Katie Dear...you is LAZY! Get your *kitten* UP and do a circuit in record TIME, I expect to see this posted in your log TO-DAY..
  • catrinaHwechanged
    catrinaHwechanged Posts: 4,907 Member
    You're not so hot, and you're not fat...hell, I got bigger boobs than you and I'm an old guy!

    haha....nice boobs!! Them boobs alone get you a 9/10 :P
  • KodAkuraMacKyen
    KodAkuraMacKyen Posts: 737 Member
    Sorry, I couldn't hear you over your hotness. What?

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