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  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    There are no games per se, mmmkay? The thing is the chase...from either side. Until you get to a level state where love is in the air, you gotta be just a tad elusive. Bait him...then.....bammmmm.....bring down the crazy hammer!

    How did you become so wise? You could seriously make girl fall for you:blushing:

    Years of unrequited love and rejection my dear!

    Dude, we could be twins.
  • MidwestAngel
    MidwestAngel Posts: 1,897 Member
    I'm the patient type, so I would wait for him to contact me. If he doesn't text or call, he wasn't that interested in me and I'm moving on.
  • There are no games per se, mmmkay? The thing is the chase...from either side. Until you get to a level state where love is in the air, you gotta be just a tad elusive. Bait him...then.....bammmmm.....bring down the crazy hammer!

    How did you become so wise? You could seriously make girl fall for you:blushing:

    Years of unrequited love and rejection my dear!

    Dude, we could be twins.

    You guys are pros.
  • bregalad5
    bregalad5 Posts: 3,965 Member
    There are no games per se, mmmkay? The thing is the chase...from either side. Until you get to a level state where love is in the air, you gotta be just a tad elusive. Bait him...then.....bammmmm.....bring down the crazy hammer!

    How did you become so wise? You could seriously make girl fall for you:blushing:

    Years of unrequited love and rejection my dear!

    Dude, we could be twins.

    Awww hugs for the two of you.
  • NormInv
    NormInv Posts: 3,303 Member
    There are no games per se, mmmkay? The thing is the chase...from either side. Until you get to a level state where love is in the air, you gotta be just a tad elusive. Bait him...then.....bammmmm.....bring down the crazy hammer!

    How did you become so wise? You could seriously make girl fall for you:blushing:

    Years of unrequited love and rejection my dear!

    Dude, we could be twins.

    Awww hugs for the two of you.

    Ummm......Im gonna have to ask you to come and work on Saturday...mmm
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    But what if I like playing with my prey?

    I get this I really do, and I think there is a lot of that right now.
  • sarahg148
    sarahg148 Posts: 701 Member
    There are no games per se, mmmkay? The thing is the chase...from either side. Until you get to a level state where love is in the air, you gotta be just a tad elusive. Bait him...then.....bammmmm.....bring down the crazy hammer!

    How did you become so wise? You could seriously make girl fall for you:blushing:

    Years of unrequited love and rejection my dear!

    Ditto that!!!
  • dangle a string just out of reach of a cat and it will try and get it and watch it for hours... just keep the string out of reach. AKA string him along.
  • Crankstr
    Crankstr Posts: 3,958 Member
    But what if I like playing with my prey?

    <raises hand>

    that's right...get my paw on you...take it off....watch you run around...then pounce.
  • Ladyslippers
    Ladyslippers Posts: 186 Member
    This is the sort of thing that makes me NOT want to jump back into the dating pool. The whole not knowing thing. Does he? Doesn't he? Ai yi yi. Thinking good thoughts for you no matter how this turns out.
  • But what if I like playing with my prey?

    <raises hand>

    that's right...get my paw on you...take it off....watch you run around...then pounce.

    I thought I was the only one who did this. I love you. Here kitty, kitty.
  • Crankstr
    Crankstr Posts: 3,958 Member
    But what if I like playing with my prey?

    <raises hand>

    that's right...get my paw on you...take it off....watch you run around...then pounce.

    I thought I was the only one who did this. I love you. Here kitty, kitty.

    does you have treats?
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    This is the sort of thing that makes me NOT want to jump back into the dating pool. The whole not knowing thing. Does he? Doesn't he? Ai yi yi. Thinking good thoughts for you no matter how this turns out.

    Thank you, this is why I sorta demanded a meal at a Japanese Steakhouse, so at least he fed me.
  • "Glad you had fun."??? Tell him to get stuffed. That sounds like "glad you had fun, but from my side....meh...."

    Next time you're on a date, spike his drink and check his messages when he's in the bathroom, that way you'll know if he's single, straight, and how many dates he has on the go all in one hit!

    Good luck. I feel for you. It's hard when you think you've met someone interesting but this guy has no manners. I agree with the others, there should have been contact on the way home.
  • But what if I like playing with my prey?

    <raises hand>

    that's right...get my paw on you...take it off....watch you run around...then pounce.

    I thought I was the only one who did this. I love you. Here kitty, kitty.

    does you have treats?

    I always have tricks AND treats
  • NormInv
    NormInv Posts: 3,303 Member
    This is the sort of thing that makes me NOT want to jump back into the dating pool. The whole not knowing thing. Does he? Doesn't he? Ai yi yi. Thinking good thoughts for you no matter how this turns out.

    Thank you, this is why I sorta demanded a meal at a Japanese Steakhouse, so at least he fed me.

    Ok not sure why you did that. Are you looking for a potential relationship or a barter trade? Bar is the best choice for 1st date. You sit side by side and it offers the perfect opportunity to lean in for a kiss after 3 down. Expensive first dinner date is problematic on many levels.
  • sarahg148
    sarahg148 Posts: 701 Member
    "Glad you had fun."??? Tell him to get stuffed. That sounds like "glad you had fun, but from my side....meh...."

    Next time you're on a date, spike his drink and check his messages when he's in the bathroom, that way you'll know if he's single, straight, and how many dates he has on the go all in one hit!

    Good luck. I feel for you. It's hard when you think you've met someone interesting but this guy has no manners. I agree with the others, there should have been contact on the way home.

    If that IS all he wrote back, "Glad you had fun"...then move on. If he WAS interested there would have been more said in my opinion. I'm dealing with the same thing sort of...so moving on. :flowerforyou:
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    It wasn't expensive Norm..not at all.
    I don't drink is why I didn't want to go to a bar.
    He said he was adventurous and outgoing so I wanted to see if he really was..
    He proved himself right.
    He did text me when he got home, btw
  • SatchGallamax
    SatchGallamax Posts: 549 Member
    This is the sort of thing that makes me NOT want to jump back into the dating pool. The whole not knowing thing. Does he? Doesn't he? Ai yi yi. Thinking good thoughts for you no matter how this turns out.

    Thank you, this is why I sorta demanded a meal at a Japanese Steakhouse, so at least he fed me.

    Maybe this is why he didn't have fun.
    Next time you're on a date, spike his drink and check his messages when he's in the bathroom, that way you'll know if he's single, straight, and how many dates he has on the go all in one hit!

    Well that's a little rapey...
  • bregalad5
    bregalad5 Posts: 3,965 Member
    There are no games per se, mmmkay? The thing is the chase...from either side. Until you get to a level state where love is in the air, you gotta be just a tad elusive. Bait him...then.....bammmmm.....bring down the crazy hammer!

    How did you become so wise? You could seriously make girl fall for you:blushing:

    Years of unrequited love and rejection my dear!

    Dude, we could be twins.

    Awww hugs for the two of you.

    Ummm......Im gonna have to ask you to come and work on Saturday...mmm

    Do I get to smash a computer with a bat?
  • NormInv
    NormInv Posts: 3,303 Member
    There are no games per se, mmmkay? The thing is the chase...from either side. Until you get to a level state where love is in the air, you gotta be just a tad elusive. Bait him...then.....bammmmm.....bring down the crazy hammer!

    How did you become so wise? You could seriously make girl fall for you:blushing:

    Years of unrequited love and rejection my dear!

    Dude, we could be twins.

    Awww hugs for the two of you.

    Ummm......Im gonna have to ask you to come and work on Saturday...mmm

    Do I get to smash a computer with a bat?

    Now that you say that, I will gladly hug you tight :)
  • bregalad5
    bregalad5 Posts: 3,965 Member
    Now that you say that, I will gladly hug you tight :)

    D'awww :flowerforyou:

    But damn you, now I have to go watch that movie again. It's been way too long :laugh:
  • NormInv
    NormInv Posts: 3,303 Member
    Now that you say that, I will gladly hug you tight :)

    D'awww :flowerforyou:

    But damn you, now I have to go watch that movie again. It's been way too long :laugh:

    TBS played it like a gazillion times. It depresses and entertains me at the same time. Too close to home.
  • icmuse
    icmuse Posts: 263 Member
    Since I haven't dated in over a decade, my head is spinning from reading this! :sick:

    All the games that you have to play, it is all way cray for me!

    Good luck ChaPa my dear! If you like him, put your "big girl pants on" and take charge of the communication! :smokin:
  • NormInv
    NormInv Posts: 3,303 Member
    Since I haven't dated in over a decade, my head is spinning from reading this! :sick:

    All the games that you have to play, it is all way cray for me!

    Good luck ChaPa my dear! If you like him, put your "big girl pants on" and take charge of the communication! :smokin:

    Its not games.

    Lets say you want to buy a goat so you go to the goat farm. Now all the goats are walking about but one of them is just standing there staring at you, not really doing anything. You dont want that goat. You want the one thats running away.

    Its arithmetic.
  • bregalad5
    bregalad5 Posts: 3,965 Member
    Now that you say that, I will gladly hug you tight :)

    D'awww :flowerforyou:

    But damn you, now I have to go watch that movie again. It's been way too long :laugh:

    TBS played it like a gazillion times. It depresses and entertains me at the same time. Too close to home.

    Ouch, that's gotta be rough :( I like that it's just close enough to home to relate, but far enough away to be hilarious.
  • sarahg148
    sarahg148 Posts: 701 Member
    What movie is this??? "He's Just Not That Into You???"
  • jofjltncb6
    jofjltncb6 Posts: 34,415 Member
    In...

    ...for more Office Space references.


    (Oh, and I'm curious to find out how this ends. I married at 19 and have been married for over 20 years, so I can't even pretend to understand how all this works.)
  • sarahg148
    sarahg148 Posts: 701 Member
    I don't remember that line in Office Space! LOVE that movie!!!
  • NormInv
    NormInv Posts: 3,303 Member
    Umm yeah we need to talk about your TPS reports.