Cougars

BDEGAND
BDEGAND Posts: 53
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Would really like to get some opinions on the whole "older woman sleeping with a younger man" thing. What do you think and how do you feel about it? Honesty is the best policy, lovelies :wink:
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  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    It's creepy, they're old enough to be their mothers.
  • BDEGAND
    BDEGAND Posts: 53
    It's creepy, they're old enough to be their mothers.

    So, what age is a cougar? I was called one yesterday by a friend jokingly because I was checkin out a guy who was obviously in his late 20's. I'm 36 (almost 37)
  • PeanutButterLuver
    PeanutButterLuver Posts: 910
    I thought it was 40 and over.... ??

    I'm 41. Wink wink Diodel. Lol
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    It's creepy, they're old enough to be their mothers.

    So, what age is a cougar? I was called one yesterday by a friend jokingly because I was checkin out a guy who was obviously in his late 20's. I'm 36 (almost 37)

    That's not so creepy , cougar means around 35+
  • kuntry_navy
    kuntry_navy Posts: 677 Member
    over 60 is a sabertooth
  • petersonabt
    petersonabt Posts: 518 Member
    I find it weird...but 1. I am pretty young. and 2. I have always liked older guys. so really I may have a different outlook as I get older.
  • Crankstr
    Crankstr Posts: 3,958 Member
    It's creepy, they're old enough to be their mothers.

    :sad:
  • Embooya
    Embooya Posts: 222 Member
    I love me a Cougar...
  • PeanutButterLuver
    PeanutButterLuver Posts: 910
    Guess I'm "creepy"

    Haha
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    It's creepy, they're old enough to be their mothers.

    :sad:

    Exceptions are made for the Crankstr though.
  • PeanutButterLuver
    PeanutButterLuver Posts: 910
    Hey. I still have all my own teeth!
  • tonytoo
    tonytoo Posts: 307
    To each their own! I have 2 or 3 friends in very their late 30s who are often approached by younger men. neither party are breaking any laws. They're just having fun.

    I tease them about it of course. That's my right as a male friend! :p
  • HardDon
    HardDon Posts: 204
    I don't mind age as long as we both enjoy each other
  • drefaw
    drefaw Posts: 739
    Nothing wrong with it at all. Just as there is nothing wrong with just the opposite either.... As long as all involved are ADULTS ......
  • Embooya
    Embooya Posts: 222 Member
    Hey. I still have all my own teeth!

    YESSSS..!!!!!!
  • PeanutButterLuver
    PeanutButterLuver Posts: 910
    I'd like to stay around & chat but I have to drive my 22 y/o boy toy home to his parents house.
  • quirkytizzy
    quirkytizzy Posts: 4,052 Member
    double post
  • quirkytizzy
    quirkytizzy Posts: 4,052 Member
    I don't find it creepy but I do find it confusing.

    Who wants to train a puppy?

    (Same goes for men who date significantly younger women. I'm done with the insanity of my 20's, thank you very much. I have no wish to deal with again.)
  • sugarlips1980
    sugarlips1980 Posts: 361 Member
    I don't think going out with anyone within the next decade up or down is a big deal. I'm 32 so that's 22-42 year olds, got to keep the options open!!! Joking as I have a fiancé, who's 42. But who cares as long as legal!
  • bri0628
    bri0628 Posts: 86 Member
    Age doesn't matter as long as both people are getting what they want out of the situation
  • PeanutButterLuver
    PeanutButterLuver Posts: 910
    What's not to luv about a puppy?
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    my fiance is 5 years younger. But that hardly makes me a cougar.

    People like who they like, are stupid names really needed?
  • ladypenel
    ladypenel Posts: 88 Member
    over 60 is a sabertooth


    Lets hope they still have teeth. :)
  • quirkytizzy
    quirkytizzy Posts: 4,052 Member
    What's not to luv about a puppy?

    Lol. They are adorable. But so much work. Granted, I'm only 31 but the younger 20's often have little experience in running a household, are constantly mentally masturbating with lofty ideals, and are still trying on different personas. I need something more stable than that.

    This isn't all young folks, of course. But enough of them to keep me out of the 20's dating pool.
  • Joethebull
    Joethebull Posts: 54
    Don't know how I feel about them. Never dated one. Would be open since I have only been on three dates in my whole life. Last one being almost 14 years ago.
  • ZooQueen80
    ZooQueen80 Posts: 16
    To each their own; if both people enjoy the others company go for it. I feel it gets a ill creepy if the age gap is 10 or more years but I'm not in it so who am I to judge.
  • CindyRip
    CindyRip Posts: 166 Member
    From someone who truly falls in this age category I have never thought much about this until lately. If I were looking, pretty sure it would be younger than myself. My reason, and this is a generalization of my observances so do not be offended, guys my age lean toward the negative side, they threw their spontaneity and fun side on the side of the road somewhere. I just spent my life raising a family that I love, but it's time for fun and laughter. My mom's husbands have always been younger than her, guess I know why now. :-0)
  • Crankstr
    Crankstr Posts: 3,958 Member
    It's creepy, they're old enough to be their mothers.

    :sad:

    Exceptions are made for the Crankstr though.

    :flowerforyou:
  • BDEGAND
    BDEGAND Posts: 53
    It's creepy, they're old enough to be their mothers.

    So, what age is a cougar? I was called one yesterday by a friend jokingly because I was checkin out a guy who was obviously in his late 20's. I'm 36 (almost 37)

    That's not so creepy , cougar means around 35+

    **** ! Then I am? yuck
  • BDEGAND
    BDEGAND Posts: 53
    From someone who truly falls in this age category I have never thought much about this until lately. If I were looking, pretty sure it would be younger than myself. My reason, and this is a generalization of my observances so do not be offended, guys my age lean toward the negative side, they threw their spontaneity and fun side on the side of the road somewhere. I just spent my life raising a family that I love, but it's time for fun and laughter. My mom's husbands have always been younger than her, guess I know why now. :-0)

    Yes! Agreed! Men seem to stop enjoying life like they used to. The men my age are mature enough for conversation, but not active enough or spontaneous anymore. Sucks!

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