I don't want a waist line that looks like this!

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  • DoingitWell
    DoingitWell Posts: 560 Member
    Now that you all have had a turn taking stabs at me personally....
    I do a 30 minute ab routine 3 days a week. Some of the moves use light weights, others do not. I was thinking of doing abs 5 days a week but I wonder if that is too much, or is it still too little? I never can decide if there should be more frequency than 3 days for abs. I have went to doing total body three days and cardio 5 days. I usually split my cardio from the resistance because I just don't have that uninterrupted chunk of time. Should I increase my resistance to 5 days?
    You think a 30 minute ab routine 3 times a week gives you the body of an Olympic athlete?
    The sad part here (for me) is I think she does....

    Unbelievable. And this is the same poster who goes around the forums, telling all the people with outstanding progress and fitness that they're all wrong and know nothing.

    Totally unrelated. ^^^ You are Hilarious. I have to go do some work now and stop waiting for you to reply.
  • 123dmc
    123dmc Posts: 13
    I'm guessing she doesn't want yours either. But I'm willing to bet she has enough class to not go posting pictures of you and saying so.

    A good reminder to us all. :)
  • amylite
    amylite Posts: 40 Member
    And, wow. Are you serious?! Don't worry - you'll never have to worry about looking like Dara Torres. That's a woman who has been a professional competitive athlete her entire life.

    amen to this. this is HARD WORK
  • imhungry2012
    imhungry2012 Posts: 240 Member
    You don't get a body fat % as low as hers without actively trying...even if you had the same muscles as her underneath you wouldnt look like this unless you lowered your bodyfat significantly (which i really hard I am finding). I would just keep doing what you are doing and not avoid anything thinking it would give you results that you wouldnt be happy with, ab exercises are great and not just done to acheive a 6-pack.

    I on the otherhand would have no problem looking like that!
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    To me that's a little like someone saying "I'm going for a walk, what if I end up in CHINA???"
    funny metaphor is funny
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    I keep seeing pictures of women who after working out, losing fat, and building muscle, have a straight waistline with no curves at all. Is this because of the way the muscles were built, is it genetic? What causes a woman's waist to look like this? This kind of makes me think twice about trying too hard to build muscle. Not that someone like Dara Torres doesn't have a nice body, it's just the waist line looks like a pencil. Is this avoidable?

    strength.jpg

    I am going to be blunt here, so if you have thin skin, stop reading here.

    Looking at your pictures, you don't have a curvy waist. You kind of have a butt, but that is about it. If you lost weight through cardio alone, the butt you have will disappear and look droopy and you will look like a pencil at the waist. Only by lifting weights could you maintain and even improve your butt, and you may also build up your hip abductors to gain some actual curves.

    You are in no danger of looking like the person in the picture, because that took years of hard work and was INTENTIONAL. If you don't find her low bodyfat percentage attractive, then you simply change your diet before getting there. You don't accidentally get that way.
  • MsEmmy
    MsEmmy Posts: 254 Member
    A lot of you who are flinging the 'body shaming' mud seems to think it is ok to look at the OP's photo and virtually laugh and tell her she'll never achieve it anyway. Nice.

    I think there are a load of people on here who pounce on these threads so they can be the most self righteous person out there. "Hey, look at me, look how fair and lovely I am, taking the side of a successful athlete and snarking at a woman who just happened to word something a little clumsily." Yeah, you've made a lady wish she hadn't posted anything. Way to go.
  • momofJandA
    momofJandA Posts: 1,035 Member
    There is a lovely pic on her site of her with abs, not nearly as "cut" as the original pic posted, but some great definition. Just for comparison's sake.

    http://daratorres.com/photos.php

    That is a beautiful picture!

    seriously BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!! I would kill my own mother for a body like that!!!!
  • danasings
    danasings Posts: 8,218 Member
    I am still wondering, OP, if you have reread the title of your post and thought to yourself, "Hmmm...maybe that is why people are attacking me..."

    Posting a photo of the amazing Dara Torres and writing that title was bound to elicit this response, don't you think?
  • maab_connor
    maab_connor Posts: 3,927 Member
    I keep seeing pictures of women who after working out, losing fat, and building muscle, have a straight waistline with no curves at all. Is this because of the way the muscles were built, is it genetic? What causes a woman's waist to look like this? This kind of makes me think twice about trying too hard to build muscle. Not that someone like Dara Torres doesn't have a nice body, it's just the waist line looks like a pencil. Is this avoidable?

    strength.jpg

    Gee, OP, thanks. i happen to be a woman who was NOT blessed with hips and booty. even at my srsly high bf% right now, i have small hips and no butt.

    so basically, you're not just slamming Dana Torres (an olympic athlete who swam in Bejing AFTER giving birth and at TWICE the age of her competitors), you're slamming EVERYONE whose genes say "sorry, no JLo curves for you".

    but no, i'm sure that you and all your "you're entitled to your opinion" cheerleaders out there didn't MEAN anything by it.

    if i ever get anywhere NEAR what Dana looks like, i'll be happy enough with that NOT to put up a body shaming thread about YOUR body type.
  • ChristinaR720
    ChristinaR720 Posts: 1,186
    Hmm...I seem to remember a thread that was posted not too long ago where I was upset over racist comments that were made about me. The OP took great pleasure in making fun of the fact that I was upset over this. Well, beauty is DEFINITELY in the eye of the beholder, and Ms. Torres is absolutely the beautiful one here.

    I certainly posted no racist thread anywhere. And I don't laugh at people who are upset. If someone here did that to you though it is just the MFP way. I am sure the P stands for something other pal as they say it does.

    I never said YOU posted the thread (it was a racist comment within a thread), but you did post a comment making fun of my being upset over it. I believe your comment was deleted, though (someone else must have thought it was inappropriate, too, as I didn't bother reporting it).

    No, "OP" stands for "Original Poster". You are no "Pal" of mine, as my friends actually RESPECT me.
  • rheelizabeth
    rheelizabeth Posts: 160 Member
    I don't think it's the lack of curves on her midsection that's the problem. She has a very 'boyish' figure, with an extra 30lbs on she would still look boyish. If you had a flat stomach, but had a wide hip frame, you would look considerably curvier than her, but just as fit and 'muscley'.
  • lunglady
    lunglady Posts: 526 Member
    Have you ever heard of this chick named Serena Williams?
  • rmn79
    rmn79 Posts: 39
    I enjoy all the nay sayers here as well. Telling me how I never have to worry about having a nice set of abs. LOL.... wait people. Time is all it takes for progress to accumulate. I'll get around to posting a recent pic of myself eventually. This one is actually a few months old.

    I think they are saying that you will not "accidentally" get abs.

    This is one of those post's similar to, "I don't lift because I don't want to look like a bodybuilder."
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
    you're putting the horse in front of the carriage. waaaaaaaaaay in front of the carriage.

    this is like learning to ride a bike, and worrying you're going to become lance armstrong.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    A lot of you who are flinging the 'body shaming' mud seems to think it is ok to look at the OP's photo and virtually laugh and tell her she'll never achieve it anyway. Nice.

    I think there are a load of people on here who pounce on these threads so they can be the most self righteous person out there. "Hey, look at me, look how fair and lovely I am, taking the side of a successful athlete and snarking at a woman who just happened to word something a little clumsily." Yeah, you've made a lady wish she hadn't posted anything. Way to go.

    She is not just insulting this athlete. She is also insulting other women on mfp that have this body type and their own set of issues from their own lifetime, and have worked hard to be fit and feel proud of their body on all levels. It's odd how people think that just because someone looks good and successful to them, that they have not had their own struggles in life. Also when you put down one women, you are putting other women down as well.

    It's also not laughing at her, to be honest.
  • Ivian_
    Ivian_ Posts: 276 Member
    I lift weights.


    Still no abs.


    I must be defective :sad:
  • BrendaLee
    BrendaLee Posts: 4,463 Member
    A lot of you who are flinging the 'body shaming' mud seems to think it is ok to look at the OP's photo and virtually laugh and tell her she'll never achieve it anyway. Nice.

    I think there are a load of people on here who pounce on these threads so they can be the most self righteous person out there. "Hey, look at me, look how fair and lovely I am, taking the side of a successful athlete and snarking at a woman who just happened to word something a little clumsily." Yeah, you've made a lady wish she hadn't posted anything. Way to go.

    I was reading through and thinking the exact same thing. The "according to your ticker/picture *snicker*, I'm sure she wouldn't want to look like you either" posts are sickening.
  • BHetrick
    BHetrick Posts: 26 Member
    What causes a woman's waist to look like this?

    strength.jpg


    photoshop
  • brevislux
    brevislux Posts: 1,093 Member
    You don't get to look this way by mistake.
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