how do you interpret this text?
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Multiple choice answer time!
A. He's got a girlfriend/someone who isn't you.
B. He's ashamed to tell you he's in prison.
C. He's afraid of his intense feelings for you, and is trying to muster up the courage to tell you that he wants to marry you in a castle and make a bus load of chubby babies with you.
Duh! It's obviously C. He's probably trying to think up the perfect proposal scenario right now.
Well, maybe after he's done with round three with the chick that's answering his texts, anyway
That makes sense! The skank must be a wedding planner!
Squeeeeeee!0 -
My interpretation: Stop texting her man.0
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We say skank she calls herself "JLo" now.Multiple choice answer time!
A. He's got a girlfriend/someone who isn't you.
B. He's ashamed to tell you he's in prison.
C. He's afraid of his intense feelings for you, and is trying to muster up the courage to tell you that he wants to marry you in a castle and make a bus load of chubby babies with you.
Duh! It's obviously C. He's probably trying to think up the perfect proposal scenario right now.
Well, maybe after he's done with round three with the chick that's answering his texts, anyway
That makes sense! The skank must be a wedding planner!
Squeeeeeee!
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What I don't get about girls, and I don't mean this offensively, is why you're so quick to hate on the GIRL but make excuses for the GUY. :S Lol This is why I hang out with mostly guys haha You call this girl a skank when all she did was text you and ask you to stop texting "her man" - what if SHE was his girlfriend and discovered that he had been texting other girls in an inappropriate way, you being one of them? It seems more like HE is the two-timer who isn't being faithful to ANY girls, but yet you don't seem to be placing the proper blame on him. Sounds more like you two girls were both being played and this guy is a doucher. Do yourself a favour and move on because you deserve better, you really do.
This. And if you still persist then the question would be "who is the skank"?0 -
We say skank she calls herself "JLo" now.Multiple choice answer time!
A. He's got a girlfriend/someone who isn't you.
B. He's ashamed to tell you he's in prison.
C. He's afraid of his intense feelings for you, and is trying to muster up the courage to tell you that he wants to marry you in a castle and make a bus load of chubby babies with you.
Duh! It's obviously C. He's probably trying to think up the perfect proposal scenario right now.
Well, maybe after he's done with round three with the chick that's answering his texts, anyway
That makes sense! The skank must be a wedding planner!
Squeeeeeee!
Haha love it.0 -
this is still going? lol0
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Men don't tend to put hidden meanings in what they say (sorry if this generalisation offends anyone). So no, he wasn't referring to you. Yes, there is probably another girl and he thinks you may know her. Perhaps you went to school together or something.0
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It will not end, even with "He's just NOT that into you" introduced to modern society with most of men and women's secrets apparently we still don't get it.this is still going? lol0 -
Really how do you know that HE was calling you again and not her. Second it seems like you may not want the advice you're saying you want. This guy has moved on, see the situation for what it is, and not what you may want it to be...good luck with this one.0
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IDK = yes, but I'd love to get some on the side
you might know her = I deleted your number, so I don't really know who just texted me0 -
Just keep calling/texting him till you get the answer you want to hear from him.
OP, you're obviously new to how relationships work these days.0 -
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I realize it's been a while since I've dated (been too busy with college and working) but "idk" should never be a valid answer to that question. But maybe things have changed that drastically and I'm just hosed.0
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To be fair to the OP: none of us knows this guy. What if he IS someone who likes to say suggestive things? In that case, "I don't know, you might know her... " could indeed be referring to her. We are all just posting our opinions (including myself), but none of us can actually KNOW what he meant.
Some guys are like that, they don't say straight out what they mean, they just drop hints and expect you to interpret them correctly. CORRECTLY being the key word here.
OP, you will never know for sure if he doesn't tell you straight out. If you really want to know (and keep in mind, this might hurt you A LOT!), you will unfortunately have to call him one more time. Do make a phone call, don't just text. Ask him what you want to know, and don't let him give you excuses or suggestions. Demand straight answers from him.
You could also try to force your mind to focus on distractions whenever your thoughts return to him. It takes an effort, it won't be easy at first, but force your mind to find other things to get occupied with. Do you have hobbies? Pursue them. And when your mind wanders back to him, allow it for a moment but then force your focus back to what you're doing.0 -
In my opinion, you need to just move on. Obviously this guy has. He wasn't serous about you in the beginning and most likely had a girlfriend at that time and has one now.
I'm sorry. Life can be crap sometimes. :sad:0 -
sorry - just think texting me from his phone was skanky. I know she was a girl he hooked up with a few drunken times. she's not a skank - her behavior was skanky....to me.
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and his booty call to her wasnt just as man-skanky? Do you want to be with someone who does that? & maybe would do that to you? Dont be so quick to judge the girl.. it takes two honey! He is just as in the wrong as she is!0 -
Well, this is about absurdly idiotic.
He has a girlfriend.
He wasn't referring to you.
Move on and stop being desperate.
Yep whierd nailed it.
I'm also finding it odd that your calling the girl in question a 'skank' when they seem to be in a more legitimate relationship than you and he ever were.
Personally I think you should eliminate that word from your vocabulary.0 -
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Don't get involved with someone with PTSD unless you have to (i.e. already married/in a relationship with before PTSD kicks in). It is one of those really rough journeys, and although he should seek out help and support of friends and family it is wrong of him to even consider starting a relationship, and it is a really bad idea for you to consider starting one with him. Maybe in a couple years if your paths cross again and he's mentally stable.
gee thanks
as someone who has suffered long term PTSD I find your post really depressing and dismaying.0 -
1: Yes, he has a girlfriend(or wife)
2: She is not a skank any more than you are. You were both lied to. He is the skank.
3: He won't leave her no matter what he says.
4: Yes. really.
Hope this helps!!0
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