BOYS SUCK!

mbaroncelli
mbaroncelli Posts: 39 Member
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I just have to vent for a second and I am wondering if anybody feels the same.. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and I love him very much but he does things that piss me off or drive me crazy and I can't take it! We live together and instead of coming to bed at night he goes over to his friends house.. It just bothers me like crazy! And thats not even all of it =[ Just feeling frustrated!
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  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    That's a red flag the size of Road Island, with dynamite strapped to the flag post.



    IMO
  • amandapye78
    amandapye78 Posts: 820 Member
    That's a red flag the size of Road Island, with dynamite strapped to the flag post.



    IMO



    I agree with him.. if this guy thinks going to his friends house every night is more than important than you, Find someone who thinks you are more important.
  • mbaroncelli
    mbaroncelli Posts: 39 Member
    lol i know it sounds like he may be cheating but i know hes not.. he goes there to smoke pot sometimes and it bothers the hell outta me.
  • SerenaFisher
    SerenaFisher Posts: 2,170 Member
    :noway:
    It is one thing if they pass out on the couch (that annoys me :explode: but he is him) its another when they leave altogether! Definite red flag!
  • mbaroncelli
    mbaroncelli Posts: 39 Member
    He doesn't go every night.. but goes on nights when he claimed he was 'feeling sick' before when we were with my family but then hes fine to go out?
  • BenchPressingCats
    BenchPressingCats Posts: 1,826 Member
    lol i know it sounds like he may be cheating but i know hes not.. he goes there to smoke pot sometimes and it bothers the hell outta me.

    It still sounds like the relationship isn't important enough to him. Maybe he's not mature enough to handle your relationship?
  • amandapye78
    amandapye78 Posts: 820 Member
    lol i know it sounds like he may be cheating but i know hes not.. he goes there to smoke pot sometimes and it bothers the hell outta me.


    Oh, he's cheating hon..
  • chantelp89
    chantelp89 Posts: 590 Member
    Yeah.....no not acceptable
  • LandonRand
    LandonRand Posts: 166
    Stop dating boys and upgrade to a man. Just saying :-)
  • Factory_Reset
    Factory_Reset Posts: 1,651 Member
    Just break-up
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  • StarChanger
    StarChanger Posts: 605 Member
    That's a red flag the size of Road Island, with dynamite strapped to the flag post.



    IMO

    This.....
  • chantelp89
    chantelp89 Posts: 590 Member
    What dude does that? Lol

    When my woman says we're going to bed, I'm in bed before she gets up off the couch, naked and tenting the covers. Lol.

    I'd say it's weird. He's not necessarily cheating, but he has priorities higher than you, and in this case, I'd say, long term, it's going to be a problem.
    My kinda man!
  • mbaroncelli
    mbaroncelli Posts: 39 Member
    What dude does that? Lol

    When my woman says we're going to bed, I'm in bed before she gets up off the couch, naked and tenting the covers. Lol.

    I'd say it's weird. He's not necessarily cheating, but he has priorities higher than you, and in this case, I'd say, long term, it's going to be a problem.

    You're right! I mean I don't want to make it seem like he does this all the time because he doesn't.. but when he does it turns into a big fight and you'd think he'd get it by now.. ugh!
  • jenilla1
    jenilla1 Posts: 11,118 Member
    Stop dating boys and upgrade to a man. Just saying :-)

    :drinker:
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    That's a red flag the size of Road Island, with dynamite strapped to the flag post.



    IMO

    RI isn't that Big Bro. Its the Ocean State..send me adrift..ocean bliss wasn't that a PM Dawn song

    Careless whisper from a careless man,
    a neutron dance for a neutron fan;
    marionette strings are dangerous things,
    I thought of all the trouble they bring.
    An eye for an eye, a spy for a spy,
    rubber bands expand in a frustrating sigh.
    Tell me that she's not dreaming.
    She's got an ace in the hole,
    it doesn't have meaning.
    Reality used to be a friend of mine,.

    And yes he is for sure going to bang some rando..:huh: :sick:
  • craigmandu
    craigmandu Posts: 976 Member
    Sounds to me like he's more interested in the pot than he is in you. GF or Wife is going to bed and you leave the house? Why do you need to leave the house? What the *kitten* is so important that at night when you are suppose to be home you instead need to go over to "Jimmy I always have weed"'s house?

    You know the problem...he wants to party...with or without you.
  • nikilis
    nikilis Posts: 2,305 Member
    what was he like when you met him?

    im guessing, pot smoking hangs out with his friends kinda guy.

    so why do you expect him to change into what you want him to be? like automatically he should not want to smoke pot and do what you want him to do.

    you are separate people, maybe he wants to hang out with his friend, any maybe you should talk to him about it and find a compromise.

    you signed up with the guy, im pretty sure you knew what he was like, so either accept him the way he is and try to work on finding a middle ground together or


    go find the guy you have in your head that you arn't dating. whos probably named chet and has no balls. tada!


    find your dream guy, not some guy.


    EDIT: I would never do that to my girl. shes too hot to sleep alone.
  • kaylaandthestarcatcher
    kaylaandthestarcatcher Posts: 836
    People suck, regardless of gender imo.

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  • pobalita
    pobalita Posts: 741 Member
    Major red flag. Do you think this will ever get better? It won't. Get out now.

    P.S. he's probably cheating. And if he isn't, but it getting away with this crap now, he will be soon.
  • chantelp89
    chantelp89 Posts: 590 Member
    ^ this is why I've never dated a man under 30. Boys are too much trouble to put up with
  • ladymiseryali
    ladymiseryali Posts: 2,555 Member
    what was he like when you met him?

    im guessing, pot smoking hangs out with his friends kinda guy.

    so why do you expect him to change into what you want him to be? like automatically he should not want to smoke pot and do what you want him to do.

    you are separate people, maybe he wants to hang out with his friend, any maybe you should talk to him about it and find a compromise.

    you signed up with the guy, im pretty sure you knew what he was like, so either accept him the way he is and try to work on finding a middle ground together or


    go find the guy you have in your head that you arn't dating. whos probably named chet and has no balls. tada!


    find your dream guy, not some guy.


    EDIT: I would never do that to my girl. shes too hot to sleep alone.

    QFT
  • nikilis
    nikilis Posts: 2,305 Member
    Major red flag. Do you think this will ever get better? It won't. Get out now.

    P.S. he's probably cheating. And if he isn't, but it getting away with this crap now, he will be soon.

    why does everybody think hes cheating. he MIGHT be cheating. probably hes hitting the bong and playing battlefield 3 like my brother does. every day of his fricken life.

    ladies, some times the ones you catch, arn't keepers, and as much as you try, you cant make them into the guy you want them to be.
  • katiebiotch
    katiebiotch Posts: 21 Member
    That's a red flag the size of Road Island, with dynamite strapped to the flag post.



    IMO

    RI isn't that Big Bro. Its the Ocean State..send me adrift..ocean bliss wasn't that a Seal Song.

    And yes he is for sure going to bang some rando

    Haha keepin it real I see!
  • craigmandu
    craigmandu Posts: 976 Member
    ^ this is why I've never dated a man under 30. Boys are too much trouble to put up with

    My oldest son has that "I do what I want" mentality....yea...that doesn't work out too well when you are in a relationship. Especially if you are at the "living together" stage.
  • Matt24442
    Matt24442 Posts: 324
    dont date..only bad things happen
  • maiaroman18
    maiaroman18 Posts: 460 Member
    Quit dating boys. And sounds like he's got something on the side.
  • JenCatwalk
    JenCatwalk Posts: 285 Member
    I just have to vent for a second and I am wondering if anybody feels the same.. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and I love him very much but he does things that piss me off or drive me crazy and I can't take it! We live together and instead of coming to bed at night he goes over to his friends house.. It just bothers me like crazy! And thats not even all of it =[ Just feeling frustrated!

    Id wonder if he's really going to a friends house, personally.
  • auroranflash
    auroranflash Posts: 3,569 Member
    If you can't talk like adults and hear each other out (either party) then you shouldn't be together. Relationships take work, patience, respect, and understanding. If any of those four are lacking (either party), then it won't work out. Everyone has stupid "grouch about their significant other" moments, but if the relationship is important enough, then it's usually to a good friend who knows the situation will pass soon and the whole thing will blow over. Grouching to an entire community over the fact that your boyfriend doesn't want to be with you means you have no real understanding of how relationships are dealt with, you lack the communication skills to deal with this one-on one, and you feel powerless and the victim ...which only leads to mindless complaining to an ill-equipped party, which leads to nowhere.

    Go grow up some more before you get in your next relationship.
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    She broke her wishbone and wished for a sign.
    I told her whispers in my heart were fine.
    what did she think she could do?
    I feel for her, I really do.
    And I stared at the ring finger on her hand,
    I wanted her to be a big PM Dawn fan,
    but I had to put her right back with the rest.
    That's the way it goes, I guess.

    Baby you send me...
    Set adrift on memory bliss of you

    Some more from PM Dawn.. :brokenheart:

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